Halloween Safety Tips

This list of Halloween Safety Tips was published on Park Slope Parents in 2007. I was looking through some old posts and I thought this might be helpful today since today is…

Trick or Treat

Make sure kids can see out of masks or better yet, use face paints
(check to make sure they are non-toxic)

–Review street safety.

–Avoid shoes that are too big or clothing that’s too long

–Use reflective tape or carry a flashlight or glow stick

–Always trick or treat with a buddy (or adult)

–Make sure props don’t have sharp edges and swords and guns are made
from cardboard.

–Pin a piece of paper with the child’s name, address and phone number inside a pocket in case the trick-or-treater gets lost or separated from the group.

–Remember kids will be close to flames in Jack o lanterns, so use
materials that aren’t flammable or have dangling edges

At Home

–Clear stoops and sidewalks of any debris to prevent falls

–Keep Jack-o-Lanters away from doors and walkways

Treats

To ensure a safe and enjoyable trick-or-treat outing for children,
parents are urged to:

–Give children an early meal before going out.

–Insist that treats be brought home for inspection before anything is
eaten.

–Report to the police anything that appears suspicious about treats.

Although tampering is very rare, don’t eat anything not wrapped. When in doubt, throw it out.

-Check kids’ candy for choking hazards and keep away from small children
and pets (especially no chocolate for dogs)

Urgent Orthopedic Care for OSFO

Hepcat and I were at a dinner party last night when OSFO called to say that she’d fallen and couldn’t walk. The details of the accident are TOP SECRET AND WILL NOT BE REVEALED BY ME.

We rushed home and she was already elevating her foot and icing it with a bag of frozen peas.

Ice and elevate. That’s my girl.

This morning she still couldn’t walk on it and we went to The Orthopedic Urgent Care Center at the Hospital for Joint Diseases, which is essentially a 24-hour emergency room for orthopedic issues.

301 East 17th Street just east of Second Avenue. Write that down. This place, which I’ve been to twice before, is really good to know about.

The service was fairly quick and very helpful. We  met with a very nice nurse and doctor and her foot was x-rayed. The doctor told us that, luckily, nothing was broken but that she should wear an air cast and use crutches (both of which were supplied to us at the hospital). He told her to ice and elevate and explained everything very thoroughly and carefully.

We were out of there in less than two hours and she was well cared for. Good deal. OSFO is limping about and practicing with her crutches. She should be feeling better in about two weeks, when she can take the air cast off.

More Halloween Memories

2cbw9280_1This post was written in October 2005

In 2005 my daughter took it upon herself to decorate our building, an 8-unit limestone, with handmade Halloween decorations.

The first week of October, she made numerous drawings — wonderful ghouls, howling dogs, witches, and devils — and taped them on the walls of  the public hallway.

Earlier in the the week at Little Things, we found a soft Dracula candy holder she couldn’t live without. I picked up some candy corn and Halloween signs at Save-on-Fifth. And the Food Coop had some of the most beautifully patterned gourds I have ever seen.

Ka-ching, ka-ching, ka-ching.  (that’s the sound of an old fashioned cash register).

Last night, everything came together: we made a make-shift table out of grocery boxes and used a sparkly silver fabric as a tablecloth. We put it in the hallway by our front door and filled Dracula with candy corn and M&Ms, and little plastic pumpkins.

Voila. I think we’re done. For now.

The sweet sweetness of the candy corn is already getting to me. The chaps for my daughter’s cowgirl costume are at the dry cleaners getting hemmed. My son hasn’t even mentioned his pirate costume (I guess at 14 you don’t need to involve your parents anymore). We’ve got a heinously busy weekend planned.

Take a deep breath and get ready for Halloween.

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Halloween Memories

This was written the day after Halloween 2005 when OSFO was 8 and Teen Spirit was 14.

Halloween morning 2005, the kids popped out of bed early, ready for their breakfast candy. “Stop stealing from the trick or treat bowl. That’s for later,” Hepcat bellowed. Even Teen Spirit, who is historically difficult to rouse in the morning, was up and ready for high school in record time, his pockets stuffed with Hershey’s kisses.

The Oh So Feisty One packed her cowgirl chaps in her pink backpack. “Just in case my teacher lets us put on our costumes.” This was unlikely because her school prohibits any recognition of Halloween in sensitivity to the children whose religious beliefs prevent them from participating.

Smartmom tried to get some work done Monday but by 2 p.m, she surrendered to the reality that Monday afternoon and evening were for one thing and one thing only: Halloween.

First crisis of the day was the case of the missing cowboy hat: OSFO searched the apartment high and low. Smartmom finally unearthed it underneath Teen Spirit’s bed.

Second crisis: Teen Spirit needed a shirt for his impromptu pirate costume. “You can wear this black shirt of Dad’s.” Smartmom told him. “No he can’t,” Hepcat screamed from the living room. “That’s my special shirt.”

“it’s alright, mom,” Teen Spirit told Smartmom ever-attentive to Hepcat’s moods.

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Pop Quiz: What Charter Revisions are on the Ballot?

The Charter Revision Commission, appointed by Bloomberg, is presenting two ballot questions to the voters this election day. Here’s one of them:

Question 1. Term Limits: The proposal would amend the City Charter to:

Reduce from three to two the maximum number of consecutive full terms that can b e served by elected city officials; and

Make tis change in term limits applicable only to those city officials who were first elected at or after the 2010 general election; and

Prohibit the CC from altering the term limits of elected city officials then serving in office.

Shall this proposal be adopted?

And for tomorrow: Question 2!

Brad Lander at Living Wage Press Conference

At a rally organized by LIving Wage NYC at  City Hall yesterday, City Council Member Brad Lander (who represents Carroll Gardens, Park Slope, Windsor Terrace, Kensington and Boro Park) along with other Brooklyn and NY city council members, verbally blasted the Economic Development Corporation (EDC) for spending (they say wasting) $1 million on a living wage study that they believed was rigged in support of Mayor Bloomberg’s opposition to the concept of a living wage.

Bloomberg supports the concept of an arbitrary minimum wage that may or may not have anything to do with where the person lives and whether it’s actually a livable salary for someone living in, say, New York City, one of the most expensive cities on the planet.

A living wage is wage based upon the cost of living in an area, rather than an arbitrary minimum.

In an ideal world: someone who works an ordinary 40 hour per week job would be able to afford shelter, food, health care, and other basic necessities of life. What a concept!

Existing legislation defines a living wage in New York City as a minimum of $10 per hour with benefits, or $11.50 per hour without benefits. Good luck living on that anywhere in New York City. (Click here for the Living Wage Calculator).

Opponents of the EDC’s report backed up their frustration with a report exposing Charles River Associates (CRA), the group chosen by the EDC, as a management consulting firm that is actually opposed to  living wage and even minimum wage policies.

A detailed report was written about the Charles River Group by the Fiscal Policy Institute (FPI) and the National Employment Law Project (NELP), two highly respected economic research groups.

Read more at the website of Living Wage NYC. Photograph of Brad Lander by Tom Martinez.

Update on Gowanus Facilities Upgrade Project

If you, like me, missed  last Monday evening’s presentation by the Department of Environmental Protection to the Public Safety/Environmental Protection/Permits & Licenses Committee on the ongoing Gowanus Facilities Upgrade Project, you’re in luck because Craig Hammerman, Distrcit Manager of Community Board 6 just sent me a link to a copy of the agency’s presentation which is available for viewing at the following link: http://bit.ly/apXoNw

Thanks Craig.

A Lesson in Democracy at Lefferts House: Kids Get To Vote

Looking for teachable moments? Lessons in democracy? Something to do on Election Day when the kids are home from school? How about this:

On Election Day, kids can practice voting at Lefferts Historic House in Prospect Park.

Here’s how it works: The kids are off from school, right? So take them over to Lefferts House at 12PM where underage voters will mark secret ballots with the names of the candidates running in New York, and place them in a locked box. Kids and adults can learn about milestones in voting history, such as the secret ballot –called an “Australian ballot”  — first used in New York state in 1880.  Everyone is invited to enjoy a serving of Election Cake, a 19th century treat

The big moment arrives at 4 p.m. when the ballot box is opened and our unofficial election results are announced!

Directions:  Lefferts Historic House is located at the Children’s Corner, inside the Park’s Willink entrance, at the intersection of Flatbush Avenue and Empire Boulevard.  By train: Q, S, or B run to Prospect Park Station.  By bus: B-16, B-41, B-43 and B-48 will bring you close to The Children’s Corner.  For further information, call Lefferts Historic House at  (718) 789-2822

OTBKB’s Weekend List: Halloween All The Time!

How about a Spook Walk in Prospect Park with your kids (or borrow your sister’s kid like I will)? Think it might be fun to dress like Don or Betty Draper and go to the Mad Men Halloween Party at Sheep Station? In the mood for a gypsy re-telling of Macbeth at the Old Stone House.  All that and more of the best and brightest activities for OTBKB readers. Click on read more to see the huge list that’s still growing.

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Shop Camel Girl at the Brooklyn Flea for Your Halloween Party

This Saturday, the day before Halloween parties like the Mad Men Halloween party at Sheep Station, shop Camel Girl at the outdoor Fort Greene Brooklyn Flea.

Perhaps you’re looking to get your Betty Draper on or indulge your inner R&B diva this Halloween? Toddle over to the Brooklyn Flea’s Saturday outpost in Fort Greene this weekend and ask for Camel Girl (Booth W19), Marion Hart’s vintage clothing and accessories collection specializing in on-trend retro items. Don’t get me wrong, Camel Girl’s racks are chock-full of wearable capes (velvet for evening, pink check for apple-picking), tie silk blouses, jodhpurs, and, of course, a few lovely camel items that will have you looking soignée and smart for snagging unique vintage versions of today’s runway cuts. But there are also more than a few period gems, which styled properly, will have you ready for your Halloween close-up.

And if you’re looking for something to keep you warm this winter how about a 1970’s Pierre Cardin fur coat for $250:

OTBKB Music: Jim’s Big Ego Tonight

A bunch of years back I was going through a box of CDs at the WFMU Record and CD Fair when one very unusual one caught my eye.  The CD cover was mostly yellow and drawn like a super hero comic.  It was the album They’re Everywhere from Jim’s Big Ego, which is comprised of guitarist Jim Infantino, percussionist Dan Cantor and bassist Jesse Flack.  Inside were songs about bars, paranoids, math professors, mix tapes and The Flash.  And JBE is as musically astute as they are lyrically astute.  Because they haven’t played New York City in a while (they are based in the Boston area), take this opportunity to see what Jim’s Big Ego has up their collective sleeves.  Get the details of tonight’s JBE show over at Now I’ve Heard Everything.

–Eliot Wagner

Philip Klay: Death, Memory and Photos from a Trauma Ward

Philip Klay, one of the writers who will be reading at Brooklyn Reading Works’ Veterans Day event, Writing War: Fiction and Memoir by Veterans of Vietnam, Iraq and Afghanistan, has an essay in the Opinionator blog of the New York Times. Here’s an excerpt from Death and Memory, how photos from a trauma ward in Iraq brought home the impact of the death of a fellow Marine:

When I tell stories about Iraq, the ones people react to are always the stories of violence. This is strange for me. As a public affairs officer in 2007 and 2008, I never saw combat, only its aftermath. I saw women and children wounded or dying in trauma centers. Ruins left by explosives in towns and cities across Anbar province. I saw surgeons who could do no more because the body they were trying to repair was too badly destroyed. I stood in formations as the bodies were taken away.

And when I try to describe that death, the telling tends to decay into a kind of pornographic, voyeuristic experience. I feel I do disservice to the enormity of my subject by making it a subject of conversation. And yet I know that keeping a hushed silence is a failure, too, because by not telling these stories we fail to process them.

Most of the suffering I have seen has not affected me as it should have. While I was in Iraq I never cried over the bloody children I helped carry to the Navy doctors, or the two men who’d been tortured with drills through their ankles. Only one death out of the many gave me pause. It was of a Marine who died, not in front of me, but near me. Near enough for me to see it happen, had I been paying attention…

On Veteran’s Day, November 11 at 8PM: Brooklyn Reading Works at the Old Stone House presents Writing War: Fiction and Memoir by Veterans of Vietnam, Iraq and Afghanistan with Matt Gallagher, author of Kaboom, Embracing the Suck in a Savage Little War, Juri Jurjevics, Roy Scranton, Philip Klay and Jacob Siegel.

The Old Stone House, the site of the Battle of Brooklyn, one of the bloodiest battles of the Revolutionary War, is an appropriate setting for this literary event, which will highlight writing by those who know war first hand. All of these writers have transformed their experience of the violence, the chaos, the devastation, pain, fear and even hilarity of war—in Vietnam, Iraq, or Afghanistan—into honest and searing prose. As Roy Scranton writes in an essay published in the New York Times that chronicles his path from youth to soldier to civilian writer in New York City  “The prior four years of my life hung over my days like the eerie and unshakable tingle of a half-remembered dream — “my time in the Army” — and the sense of chronic disconnection was getting to me. I walked between two worlds: the New York around me and the Army in my head.”

Writing War begins at 8PM and there will be a Q&A following the readings. A $5 suggested donation includes refreshments and wine.

The Old Stone House is located at Fifth Avenue and Third Street in Park Slope, Brooklyn. 718-768-3195. Click on read more to read the author’s biographies.

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My Mother Takes a Fall

During a Sunday outing with my 84-year-old mother she took a fall in Bryant Park. I watched it happen as if in slow motion and thought to myself, “Omigod, this is terrible.”

She may not have seen a small step when she fell flat almost on her face. She stopped her fall with her hands but managed not to hurt her hands. In fact, she wasn’t hurt at all. I chalk it up to her modern dance studies with Martha Graham and a lifetime of exercise. She also takes a balance class at the Jewish Community Center on the Upper West Side.

As soon as it happened she popped up gracefully and shouted out: “I’m okay, I’m okay!” with a big smile on her face.

Two friendly NYC police officers ran over and helped her up. They told her to sit down for a few minutes. Just in case. “You don’t know how often this happens,” one of them said.

What a near-miss. She could have broken her hip or her wrist. It could have been so much worse. Indeed, it was a wake up call to check one’s steps, to wear good shoes, to take careful steps and honor the fragility of life.

Learning to fall is, perhaps, the key.

More Details on Effed Disappearance

Hepcat and I just did a little research at Who Is, an Internet function that allows you to search domain name registration. We found information about Fucked in Park Slope and it looks like the domain name was created by Erica Reitman, who runs Fucked in Park Slope, on October 26, 2008 but it expired on October 26, 2010 because Reitman forgot (or decided not to) renew the registration.

A company by the name of Enom, a domain registrar, which has a subsidiary called Acquire this Name, scooped up the domain today. They’re the one’s who put up the porn site in place of Reitman’s site. According to Who Is, they’ll have it until October 26, 2011.

It seems that the domain name Effed in Park Slope was registered with Enom and there have been warnings about that domain service. In a sense, they’re holding Effed in Park Slope hostage. For the right price, Reitman can probably get her domain name back. The following is  information from DNXpert, the domain news blog.

If you have an Enom retailer account or sub-account then you need to be aware that you run a risk of losing your expiring domains.

Most domainers set their domains on auto renew, in order to not risk forgetting the domain expiration date and losing that domain. If your payment method is via credit card you might run into problems with your auto renewal at Enom.

Enom is not allowed to store the credit card CVV ( last three digits on the back of your credit card ) so on random occassions when Enom attempts auto renewal of your domain, the credit card provider ( your bank ) rejects the attempt. Your auto renewal fails, and you lose your domain. The only plausible way to avoid this is to login into Enom every month and enter the CVV… which means you might as well track your expiration date and renew manually.

So, make sure you double check your expirations if you have domains at Enom.

Stay tuned for more information…

Effed in Park Slope is Effed

At 3:50 PM today I got a call from a Brooklyn Paper reporter looking for Erica Reitman’s phone number. He asked me if I knew that the popular Park Slope blog, Effed in Park Slope, had been hacked and turned into a porn site.

“Take a look,” he said then laughed. “Do you have her number?”

“Of course I don’t have her number she writes terrible things about me,” I told him.

“Really, I didn’t know that,” he said.

Still, I was interested to see what happened to Erica’s site. Sure enough a picture of this “naughty French maid” was on the site, which is kind of porn site though it’s more like a directory to other porn sites. It looks like one of those temporary sites waiting for someone to buy the domain name.

So Effed in Park Slope is gone for the moment. Hopefully it will be up and running by tomorrow morning.

Brooklyn Author of John Lennon Book to Read—In Manhattan

My friend, Keith Greenberg, author of The Day John Lennon Died from Backbeat Books, will be reading at the Barnes and Noble on 86th Street in Manhattan.

Manhattan? But we Brooklynites rarely go there.

Yeah, yeah. I also wish he was reading at the Park Slope Barnes & Noble. Still, it’s pretty exciting that he’s getting a Barnes and Noble reading. Way to go Keith. Way to go!

Greenberg’s book is a  breathtaking, minute-by-minute account of the events leading to the horrible moment when Mark David Chapman calmly fired his Charter Arms .38 Special into the rock icon John Lennon.

Tuesday November 02, 2010 7:00 PM

86th & Lexington Ave
150 East 86th Street, New York, NY 10028, 212-369-2180

Soldiers of War, Soldiers of Words at the Old Stone House

On Veteran’s Day, November 11 at 8PM: Brooklyn Reading Works at the Old Stone House presents Writing War: Fiction and Memoir by Veterans of Vietnam, Iraq and Afghanistan with Matt Gallagher, author of Kaboom, Embracing the Suck in a Savage Little War, Juri Jurjevics, Roy Scranton, Philip Klay and Jacob Siegel.

The Old Stone House, the site of the Battle of Brooklyn, one of the bloodiest battles of the Revolutionary War, is an appropriate setting for this literary event, which will highlight writing by those who know war first hand. All of these writers have transformed their experience of the violence, the chaos, the devastation, pain, fear and even hilarity of war—in Vietnam, Iraq, or Afghanistan—into honest and searing prose. As Roy Scranton writes in an essay published in the New York Times that chronicles his path from youth to soldier to civilian writer in New York City  “The prior four years of my life hung over my days like the eerie and unshakable tingle of a half-remembered dream — “my time in the Army” — and the sense of chronic disconnection was getting to me. I walked between two worlds: the New York around me and the Army in my head.”

Writing War begins at 8PM and there will be a Q&A following the readings. A $5 suggested donation includes refreshments and wine.

The Old Stone House is located at Fifth Avenue and Third Street in Park Slope, Brooklyn. 718-768-3195. Click on read more to see the author’s bios.

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DIY Utopias: Growing Against All Odds at the Old Stone House

As part of its Brooklyn Utopias: Farm City exhibition, the Old Stone House of Park Slope presents “DIY Utopias: Growing Against All Odds,” on Monday, November 1st from 7-9PM, an evening of hands-on skillshare with the exhibition’s activist-artists in an intimate gallery setting.

The array of urban farming strategies will be MC’d by artist Mary Mattingly, who had to explore and enact each one of these approaches for her project, The Waterpod (2009), a floating farm and artists’ live-work vessel. Click on read more for a list of the workshops and the details…