FOOD BLOGS TO RECKON WITH

Sunday’s New York Times has a list of food blogs to reckon with. Megnut, a blog by blogspot founder Meg Hourihan, is on the list. Check out all of these blogs.

Among the many New York restaurant blogs, here are a few that are considered to be top-shelf by other food bloggers.

Eater
A smorgasbord. Troubled restaurants fear being added to Eater Deathwatch.

Grub Street
From tips on proper “eatiquette” to information on available same-night reservations.

Restaurant Girl
Easy to read reviews of new hotspots and snippets of food-world gossip.

NYC Nosh
Traipsing through the city’s food scene with fellows named Nosher and Hungry Man.

Augieland
Food for thought about food.

Midtown Lunch
Budget recommendations and entertaining profiles of real-life Midtown lunchers.

The Amateur Gourmet
The Roger Rabbit of food bloggers. See him frolic in photo-comics from restaurants.

Serious Eats
A food bloggers network, aggregating leading voices.

Snack
Easy to digest tidbits of foodie news.

The Strong Buzz
Tidings of opening and closings along with musings on trends.

Gothamist Food
The Camera in the Kitchen feature has mouthwatering close-ups of chefs’ creations.

Megnut
A blogging pioneer, Meg Hourihan switched her focus to all things food last year.

      

THE RISE OF THE BLOGOSPHERE: BOOK BY LOCAL AUTHOR

A month back or so I wrote a piece about a Danish Fullbright scholar and student at the School of Journalism at Columbia University, who interviewed me and No Words. She mentioned that Aaron Barlow, owner of Shakespeare’s Sister, a bookstore in Carroll Gardens, was writing a book about blogging. Here’s a comment from the man himself. Thanks for the clarification.

The book about blogging that the Danish Fulbright refers to is
called "The Rise of the Blogosphere: American Backgrounds." It will
appear in March or April from Praeger (and can already be ordered on
Amazon, but not on Powells, for some reason). What it is, really, is a
history of American journalism with an eye towards those trends that
led to the blogs. A second book of mine on blogging, "America Blogs,"
should appear this coming December. My last book, "The DVD Revolution:
Movies, Culture, and Technology," is a history of home viewing,
particularly in the last decade.

At Shakespeare’s Sister, we believe in the store as part of the
community–which is why our back room (the Artback) is available to
anyone for sitting, reading, and conversation, and for free. A number
of books have been written back there, for it is a quiet space,
normally.

However, on Friday nights, we do show a movie–and soon, on Sunday
afternoons, we will start a series of readings and discussions.
Probably, readings will occur every hour from two through four (three
poets, essayists, dramatists, or writers of fiction each week) and will
last from twenty minutes to half an hour. The remaining time will be
for informal discussion. We may also be starting a Saturday film
series… and who knows what else.

POST SAYS: MARTY MAY RUN FOR MAYOR

New York Post claims that Marty hinted that he may run for Mayor:

February 2, 2007 — Brooklyn Borough President Marty Markowitz hinted last night that he might run for mayor in 2009.

"With term limits looming, what about my future?" he asked during his annual State of the Borough speech.

He then answered his own question: "I guess there’s only one way to find out: If it’s good for Brooklyn, it’s good for New York City."

BARNES AND NOBLE: STROLLER BAN?

The Seventh Avenue Barnes and Noble infuriated local parents and caregivers by deciding to BAN PEOPLE FROM WALKING AROUND THE STORE WITH STROLLERS. They want people to park their strollers in a designated area upstairs.

It was just a simple note on the front door. And it got people pretty fired up.

Doesn’t sound that unreasonable to me.

Much ado on Park Slope Parents and elsewhere. Here’s a PSP post from an employee of Barnes and Noble AND a local mom.

Hi all - full disclosure, I am a Park Slope mom who also works for
Barnes & Noble, specifically for the website. I have followed this
thread with concern, because like many of you, I consider the Park
Slope store to be an essential place to hang out with my kids, especially in
cold weather, in or out of their strollers.

I just wanted to let everyone know that I have brought the community's generally
negative response to the new rule to the attention of a director in the company
who is in charge of store operations, and she is working with the store
manager to find a better solution.

I can't say for sure whether this means the ban will be lifted, but the concerns have definitely been
heard, and I'm hopeful that there will be more flexibility on this. If
I hear anything more specific, I'll post the details.

SCIENTISTS TO HUMANS: YOU SCREWED UP!

Scary, scary news from the world’s scientists. Thursday, they gave their STERNEST warning yet that a
failure to cut greenhouse gas emissions will bring devastating climate
change within a few decades.

Average temperatures could increase by
as much as 6.4C by the end of the century if emissions continue to
rise, with a rise of 4C most likely, according to the final report of
an expert panel set up by the UN to study the problem. The forecast is
higher than previous estimates, because scientists have discovered that
Earth’s land and oceans are becoming less able to absorb carbon dioxide.

Read Seeing Green on the carless life.

Car-free? or Carless? We’ve been without a car in Brooklyn for over
a year now and it’s great. Can’t say that I miss having a car except on
the rare occasions we leave NYC. And, of course, no alternate side
parking hassles and no tickets. Personally, as someone who loves to
drive, the only thing I regret is that I cannot rent a stick-shift as I
hate automatics…

But a truly car-free city is something else (Venice, of course) and
may never come to pass in NYC. Cities like London are implementing
stronger and stronger measures against the private automobile, while
Bloomberg waffles on congestion pricing, which could greatly alleviate traffic in Manhattan. That study indicating that half of the traffic in Manhattan is generated by Manhattanites
is also fascinating, showing that for even with our great transit
system (well, almost great,) people still use the car when alternatives
are available. Time for a stick; carrots don’t work.

Car Free in America: The Alternative is Rail, Buses, Bikes and Just Plain Walking, an article by Jim Motavalli, makes some points:

PARK SLOPE NEIGHBORS TO WHOLE FOODS: YOU GOTTA MAKE SOME CHANGES

Park Slope Neighbors has initiated a campaign asking Whole Foods to
make several alterations to the design for the market it plans to open
next year at the corner of 3rd Avenue and 3rd Street.

Whole
Foods, which has garnered acclaim for its commitment to organic and
natural food products, excellent employment practices and all-around
good corporate citizenship, plans to build a 64,000-square-foot store
along the Gowanus Canal, its first in Brooklyn.

   

PSN,
while welcoming Whole Foods to the neighborhood, is asking the company
to alter some aspects of its design. The requests include:

  • A reduction in the number of parking spaces by at least 100 from the currently planned 420
  • The elimination of the rooftop parking lot in favor of a green roof or solar panels
  • The
    implementation of a comprehensive transportation-management plan,
    including jitney service to mass-transit connection points, free van
    service home for customers, and ample bicycle parking

SIGN THE PETITION.

BROOKLYN PAPER VS BARCLAYS BANK: STORY REACHES LONDON NEWSPAPER

The Independent, a British newspaper has an article about the Brooklyn Paper/Barclays Bank controversy.

When Barclays agreed to pay more than $300m (£152m) to get its name
on a new basketball stadium in Brooklyn, it thought it had pulled off
one of the most exciting marketing coups in American sport.

But just a few weeks on, the British bank is battling to prevent a
public relations disaster, as black leaders demand the deal be scrapped
because of Barclays’ historic support for the apartheid regime in South
Africa and what they believe are profits it made from slavery.

Barclays says the allegations about its links to the 18th-century
slave trade are "simply not true" – based on an inaccurate book written
60 years ago – and it is now mired in an exchange of historical
documents with opponents.

Politicians, churchmen and newspaper columnists say it would be an
insult to black residents to name the complex the Barclays Centre, as
planned.

The basketball arena will be the new home for the New Jersey Nets,
and forms the central part of a $4bn Frank Gehry-designed complex that
includes 16 skyscrapers and will, according to its proponents,
stimulate a renaissance in an underprivileged area of New York’s outer
borough.

Letitia James, a Brooklyn council member, said that accepting
hundreds of millions of dollars from Barclays was like "eating the
fruit of a poisonous tree". She said: "Brooklyn has been described as
the ‘black belt’ of New York City, and because of their past practices,
I do not believe it is appropriate that this deal goes ahead. We’ve no
legal grounds to stop it, but we will be putting moral pressure on the
shareholders and investors in the development project."

Barclays was forced to pull out of apartheid-era South Africa in
1986 after a long and bitter fight by equal rights campaigners around
the world. It eventually calculated that the damage to its reputation
was going to cost it more than selling out of what was then the
country’s second-largest bank.

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SO I WAS RIGHT ABOUT BREAST FRIENDS…

IT was just a hunch. But that breast friend thing was just plain weird. I could tell there was something MORE going between those two moms. And they were inflicting their relationship on their babies.

I guess I assumed they were heterosexual. But still, I don’t think it’s a gay thing at all. Not at all. I think it’s just something very specific to this particular relationship.

Someone who didn’t leave his/her name left an interesting comment. Jennifer Baumgardner has a book out on bisexuality and in it you can read about her breast friend. To not mention that in the piece was just plain misleading, I think. Here’s the comment.

The funny thing is, you’re right about them — kind of. They’re exes! Not sure why Jennifer Baumgardner failed to mention that in the piece. And she’s not heterosexual either (though I guess you could easily assume she was). She just wrote a book on bisexuality. In it, I believe you can read all about her relationship with her "Breast Friend." There’s a Q&A with her about her book on Babble’s sister site, Nerve.com (http://www.nerve.com/screeningroom/books/interview_jenniferbaumgardner/).

BARCLAY’S WANTS A RETRACTION FROM BROOKLYN PAPER

This arrived in my inbox minutes ago (6:25 p.m. Friday evening) from Gersh Kuntzman at the Brooklyn Paper.

Barclays bank demands a retraction. The Brooklyn Paper does not comply (though, in a lengthy editor’s note, the Paper admits to one error).

Three-pronged coverage can be seen at the top of our homepage or by clicking below:
1. Barclays’ letter requesting a retraction.
2. The Paper’s response.
3. A news story on Barclays’ PR push.
Wow, busy day here, huh?

YASSKY AND GIOIA WANT CITY AND STATE DIVESTMENT FROM SUDAN

David Yassky calls on the city and state to divest from Sudan. Join representatives from the Sudan Divestment Task Force, leaders from around the City, and hundreds of concerned citizens and advocates this Sunday at a rally on the steps of City Hall to call on the Pension Boards of New York City and New York State’s various pensions to divest both the City and State of any investments made in targeted corporations doing business with the Sudan.

RALLY AT CITY HALL (MANHATTAN): Sunday February 4th at 11:30 a.m.

STATE OF THE BOROUGH FROM MARTY

Marty Markowitz’s State of the Borough speech was yesterday and NY1’s Jeanine Ramirez filed the following report.

After a musical tribute by Council Speaker Christine Quinn and the Brooklyn delegation, Marty Markowitz took center stage at Steiner Film Studios at the Brooklyn Navy Yard for his annual State of the Borough address Thursday.

He talked about Brooklyn’s renaissance and offered the 2007 Lonely Planet travel guide’s Best of 2007 list as proof of that.

"Lonely Planet only chose three destinations in America: Hawaii, they’ve got beautiful beaches just like Brooklyn; New Orleans, which has culture, wonderful food, granted; and, who would’ve thunk it, the city of Brooklyn!" said Markowitz.

Markowitz says Brooklyn will add a second cruise ship terminal in Red Hook, make the lighting on the Parachute Jump in Coney Island more dazzling, and celebrate a second Sundance Film Festival at the Brooklyn Academy of Music.

"Last May, where did Robert Redford commemorate the 25th anniversary of his Sundance Film Festival? If you missed it last year, Sundance and my ‘older twin’ Robert Redford will be back this year from May 31- June 10,” said Markowitz.

He also hopes to break ground on the new arena for the Nets this year, build a state-of-the-art amphitheater in Coney Island on the site where he holds his summer concert series, and transform the 1920’s Loews Kings Theater on Flatbush Avenue into a performance venue.

But Markowitz also expressed his worry about development at Spring Creek, known to most as Starett City. The 6,000 apartment complex was bought by a developer and the borough president vows to keep the homes affordable.

"We will fight to preserve this development, which is the model for diverse, urban living in Brooklyn and America,” said Markowitz. “I’ve got a message: this won’t be Stuyvesant Town, part two!"

The borough president remembered prominent Brooklynites who passed away including Gilbert Rivera, founder of Park Avenue Home Center, and Carlos Lezama, the founder of the West Indian Day Parade.

In Lezama’s memory, Markowitz talked about opening a West Indian Museum.

Modern Fabulosity on the Blogger Summit

After the New York City Blogger Summit I made a resolution to read more blogs. Here’s one that’s really fun called Modern Fabulosity. I’ve selected some excerpt from his list of ten things he learned at the summit. Read more at Modern Fabulosity.

New York Bloggers Summit, held last night at the studios of WNBC
at Rockefeller Center, featured over 130 bloggers and what seemed like
5,000 NBC employees, most of whom stood around nervously and made small
talk with all the grace of a concrete block. Theoretically, the Summit
was an opportunity to bridge understanding between "MSM" (as they
charmingly referred to themselves, like it was still 2004) and
bloggers, most of whom look like lifelong grad students. The event
taught us all, both TV folk and web folk, a few important life lessons.
To wit:

4) Give us your Content, We’ll Give You….?
The
"dialogue" began with eight different NBC executives telling us exactly
why we were there. Basically, they can’t keep up with the pace of news
in the internet age. So they’d like bloggers to email them "scoops"
(their word, not mine), and in return, they will give us "publicity"
and "traffic" and "credit" and "linklove" (again, their word, not
mine). They were deliberately vague on what "credit" meant, but we
guess that "publicity" meant links from their website, and the one word
we wanted to hear — "money" — was noticeably absent.

5) Arts?  Who cares about the arts?
As
the session began, the NBC’er who was most helpful, Erin, led an
informal survey with a show of hands. Political bloggers in the house?
A bunch. Sports bloggers? A few, and very popular. (Just like gym
class.) Gossip bloggers? Over a dozen. NYC-centric bloggers? In force.
So I waited to hear them ask for "arts bloggers" or "culture bloggers"
or "LGBT bloggers". And waited. And waited. Long story short, we were
never polled, or even thought of. Because clearly, the arts are not
news. (Later, in a discussion of Paris Hilton‘s
storage auction, "culture" blogging was used interchangeably with
"gossip" blogging. Because Paris Hilton IS culture, people, and the
sooner we all learn that, the better off we’ll be.)

7) ModFab is okay, but Gothamist is really the shiznit.
I
mentioned earlier that bloggers were allowed to ask questions. That’s
partially true; the moderator, WNBC technology reporter Sree Sreenivasan, wasn’t interested in anyone who wasn’t an A-Lister.  So while he went giddy over Anil Dash, Gothamist, Mediabistro, and Gawker,
software makers and every conceivable employee of NBC, those of us who
inhabit the B-List were left with our arms in the air, hoping we’d be
called upon. Oh, well yes, occasionally a smaller blogger was allowed a
shot at the passed microphone (our favorite: Varsity Basketweaving) but only if they were funny.

8) Bloggers don’t watch local news.  They watch Jon Stewart.
This
revelation also came by a show of hands. The NBC execs were too
petrified to ask why. Had they bothered to follow up, they would have
heard what I was dying to say: that the strength of blogging is
personality and niche subjects, two things that network news are weak
in offering…and that Stewart has in spades.

9) Bloggers are reaaaaaaaally white.
I
counted three people of color. Out of 130. Truthfully, there was more
diversity in the NBC staff. A disturbing, bothersome truth in a city
that thrives on its multicultural makeup.

10) I got a free hat.
Yes.  It even says "Blogger Summit" on it.  I may never wear it, but hey, free swag is free swag.

I
think WNBC was brave in recognizing their limitations, and smart to
reach out to bloggers in the spirit of partnership…their hearts are
in the right places. However, all joking aside — they fundamentally do
not understand the nature of the problem. Television and the internet
are getting closer together every day. To hope that bloggers will help
prop up an archaic system of delivering media — a nightly litany "of
tragedies and catastrophies, followed by the weather", as one blogger
put it — is to miss the point entirely. Today’s audience wants to
select their own content, about subjects they care about, in formats
that are useful in their lives…and to experience it on technology
that may or may not be a box in the living room. News, like life, is
changing. If they are willing to see that, I’m certain that bloggers
will answer the call.

BREAST FRIENDS: OTBKB’S OPINION

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This breast friends thing is, like, so kinky. I mean, you don’t need to be a sex therapist to see that.

I know all about wet nurses and such but one of the most important aspects of breastfeeding is the bonding that goes on between mother and child.

Yes, breastfeeding can be a bit exhausting and draining (literally) but the big payback is the closeness with your baby. And that’s a beautiful thing for a developing infant.

As has been said, breast milk is one great nutritional product: it protects the baby’s immune system big time and provides them  with just about everything they need. 

But the bonding thing. That’s a big, big part of it and I don’t think a baby needs to bond with mom’s best friend in this way. I just don’t.

I’ve got nothing against kinky. But isn’t it just so obvious that those two heterosexual friends are attracted to one another? And there ain’t nothing wrong with that. Just come out with it.

Why use your baby to act out a sexual feeling between you and your friend?  Why use your baby as a way to get closer to your friend (even platonically)?

Female friendships are complex. That’s why I’m all about boundaries even if I’m not always the best about upholding them. Healthy boundaries between friends is important. To me, this would be a case of too much too muchness.

I can already see the breakup of that friendship coming. And the ensuing Maelstrom. There are going to be some very SOUR feelings there. "I breastfed your baby…"

Come on, girlfriends, don’t put your baby in the middle of a female friendship fiasco. Whether it’s about sexual feelings for a friend or a desire to be closer or just the convenience angle (she vacuumed my rug, she breastfed my kid, what a friend) there ain’t no good can come from this.

I say, stay out of it. Bad. Bad. Bad idea.

Beautiful pix by Wendy Cooke on Flickr. 

FEELING USED BY MAINSTREAM MEDIA AND WHY LAST NIGHT WAS DIFFERENT

NBC did a good thing. They invited the architects of their own obsolescence into Conan O’Brien’s studio and told us that they want to work together with us. They respect the  blogger’s ethos of  hyper-local, personal journalism. They like the speed with which we report things. They like our voices and our quirky perspectives.

And they want a piece of our action.

So what’s in it for us? If it
means positive exposure and lots of credit it’s a good thing. Money
would be good, too.

I think NBC may have an enlightened attitude toward blogging. Compared with other news outlets, that is.  In the last year or two, reporters from the New York Times or the Daily News would get in touch with me, ask for my sources, and and be done with me. I FELT TOTALLY USED. And I didn’t play.

This
was different. The NBC people who organized this event GET the value of
blogging, they respect it, they plan to make it a part of what they’re
doing and they need us — we’re on the ground getting the stories that people want to read.

SO WHY ARE THEY DOING THIS? Because they smell their own obsolescence and they want to change that outcome.

And maybe they’re being smart. NBC’s big credibility ticket is  Sree Sreenivasan, the dean and professor at the School of Journalism at Columbia University and the new tech reporter at NBC news.

He’s a smart, tech journalist and I liked his enthusiasm and his insider knowledge. I think it was cool that he brought one of the owner/developers of Movable Type (maker of blogging software) to the summit.

What’s in it for the bloggers? Exposure, money, getting plucked out of obsolescence.

Also, if the mainstream media starts paying attention to the stories we think are important — that’s probably a win win for everyone. We could change the face of local news, which might move beyond sex and wrecks, fires and murders.

Look what happened with Atlantic Yards? That was a story that nobody wanted until blogger, Norman Oder took it on big time. And the rest is history. Now look at what Gowanus Lounge is doing with Coney Island, Gowanus, and the Williamsburg development  stories. These are the big mainstream stories of tomorrow.

Like the "new media" movement of the 1960’s which changed the face of journalism in its own way, bloggers have the power to make a real difference.

I think a lot of bloggers are thinking today — what was last night all about? The food was nice. The hospitality was super nice. Was it hype. Was it real? Was it just the same old same old? It remains to be seen. Send NBC a story, see what happens.

That’s all we can do at this point.

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MY BREAST FRIEND BROUHAHA

Yay. A new thing to get all opinionated about. Sharing breast feeding with a friend, a breast friend, that is. What fun. Read Babble’s story of two women, writer Jennifer Baumgardner and her friend, Anastasia, who decided to share breast feeding duties.

"When my son was a few months old and my dear, dear friend Anastasia was at the
end of her pregnancy, she turned to me one day and said, "I have a request."

"Anything," I said. After all, she had come over two or three times a week
since my baby was born to help me as I finished a book. She’d done everything from
returning phone calls to burping the baby to vacuuming. When she tipped over in the course of
trying to rock my son, Skuli, she bonked her head rather than drop him, prompting me to
wonder if it was fair to relegate administrative tasks and baby-care to a woman who was nine months pregnant.
   

"I want us to nurse each other’s babies," Anastasia said.

"Okay," I said, immediately.

"They’ll be milk-siblings," she said excitedly.

"Yeah," I said. "Wow."According to La Leche League, I shouldn’t even be giving my own child my tainted milk, let alone another woman’s.

What I didn’t do was yell, "OMIGOD! THAT IS SO BIZARRE THAT YOU WANT
TO DO THAT!" But that was my first internal reaction. Second internal reaction:
how am I going to get out of this when I already said okay?"

MORE ON THE NYC BLOG SUMMIT

Here’s the blurb about the blogger summit on the WNBC website.

The world of media is changing, and WNBC.com has taken unprecedented steps to embrace the future. Wednesday night, the people who write more than 130 of New York’s most-read blogs came to our station, talking about the digital future.

New York’s first Blogger Summit was held in Studio 6A at 30 Rockefeller Plaza, known to many as the home of the Conan O’Brien Show. There, WNBC and the team of bloggers spent time talking about covering New York, its many niches, and the role "new media" plays in a world previously dominated by networks and newspapers.

The hope is that those bloggers will work with WNBC.com, trading news and information and giving additional exposure to big stories, both on blogs or on tv.

For example, if a blog gets a scoop on a big news story, WNBC would work with that blogger to report that story on television, giving more exposure to that blog. Also, if WNBC has video of a news event that might be interesting to a blogger, the blogger will have our blessing to post that video on their site.

The bottom line is… both the blogs and WNBC.com can now do a better job delivering news and information.

Before they arrived, we asked all the bloggers to answer a few questions for us, that show just how the "blog-o-sphere" works. Take the survey yourself, and see if any of these answers surprise you…

For the survey, go to their site.

STATE OF THE BOROUGH SPEECH ON THURSDAY

Borough President Marty Markowitz is getting ready for his State
of the Borough Thursday night at the Steiner film Studios.

Here are some talking points:

He wants to turn Asser Levy Park in Coney Island, which is the site
of his summer concert series, into a state-of-the-art, all-weather
performance venue. He wants it to attract the same circuit tours as
Jones Beach and Westbury.

He’s also looking to transform the old Loew’s
Kings movie theater on Flatbush Avenue, which has been empty for 30
years. The majestic 1920s theater is one of the last of its kind that
has never been subdivided.

NBC HOSTS FIRST NYC BLOGGER SUMMIT

NBC graciously welcomed 130 NYC bloggers to Studio 6 (Conan O’Brien’s studio). It was quite the event. They even served sandwiches and shrimp. "The last time they served shrimp was at Gabe Pressman’s 80th birthday party," Erin Monteiro, Interactive Content Specialist at WNBC-TV, and one of the organizers of the event told me.

No drinks, though. Alcohol is prohibited at FCC regulated facilities. They did invite everyone to an after-party at the NBC Bar on West 48th Street.

Lots of notable bloggers were in attendance: Gawker, Gothamist, Curbed, Gowanus Lounge, A Brooklyn Life, Laid-Off Dad, Footnoted, Media Bistro, Manhattan Offender, City Rag, Fourbyfour, East Village Idiot, Varsity Basketweaving, and many, many others.

They will send out a a list tomorrow.

NBC wants to make nice with NYC bloggers. They want our stories, they want our tips. They want the "content" that we’re finding in our neighborhoods, on our beats.

And they will give credit to us, link to our blogs, and even interview us on television.

They also gave out NYC Blogger Summit baseball caps.

"It was a groundbreaking night. The biggest gathering of NYC bloggers ever. TV meets the web." Hey, I’m typing this as I watch Sree Sreenivasam, Dean of Students and Professor at Columbia Graduate School of Journalism and WNBC’s Tech Reporter.  

THOUGHTS ON THE BLOG SUMMIT

"So what did you think of the Blog Summit?" I asked Hepcat this morning.

"’We would like you to be our unpaid stringers’ is probably the simplest reading of the event," Hepcat replied sleepily. He went to sleep at 5 a.m. doing his "day job."

But what about the baseball caps? Those were really nice," I said. 

"But what’s that weird shape that looks like a flattened rat in the center lane of Second Avenue?"  Hepcat said.

"Actually, I really like the graphic on the baseball cap," I said.

"Let’s just say if it was a Rorschach test I’d probably say roadkill." Hepcat said.

Hepcat didn’t much like the reporter who spoke near the end of what was a very convivial event — a nice TV meets the Web kind of vibe — and said this: "We have a lot of standards and we’re not going to put unsubstantiated stuff up there."

That reporter was definitely playing the "journalistic standards card." He seemed a little alarmed by the whole thing. Not nearly as gung ho as the organizers.

The head of the news division was there and he seemed like a nice guy. Where was Sue Simmons and Ernie Anastas? Too busy getting ready for the 11:00 news?

Speaking of the 11:00 news it was fun to see ourselves on television. And fun to see Sree and the other reporters we met. The Conan O’Brian studio was a cool place for the event. It is MUCH smaller than I expected. They told us a bunch of times that it used to be Dave Letterman’s studio back in the day.

The people at NBC are really impressed with the fact that they work at NBC. The fact that the audience had little interest in local TV news was very surprising to them. As one blogger said, "I’m not that interested in fires and murders. So I don’t watch."

It was a typical blog crowd: white, equal number of men and women, average age: mid-thirties, snarky, smart, eccentric, off beat, outspoken. The whiteness of the crowd wasn’t really addressed. Interestingly, lack of diversity was a big issue at the Brooklyn Blogfest last spring. We were hoping to set up a forum to address that…

Sitting in Conan’s studio, I was proud that we bloggers have become such a force. I never dreamed I’d be sitting at NBC hearing that my hyper-local and personal approach to news and information was the wave of the future. I never dreamed that a mainstream media outlet like WNBC would want a piece of my action. It’s kind of exciting the way that blogging has plucked so many of us out of obscurity. It’s exciting to be considered a pioneer.

SPARKS ARE FLYING: ALTERNADAD VS. BABBLE.COM

More Alternadad news: Babble.com ran a piece about "Alternadad," the new book by Neal Pollack, whose reading I attended at the Tea Lounge last week. I also wrote about it for the Brooklyn Paper.

Apparently, he’s writing a rebuttal to their review. Sparks should fly.

Here’s the original piece by Lisa Carver from Babble.com


Here’s Neal Pollack’s rebuttal on Babble.com


Here’s my piece in the Brooklyn Paper.

SUPPORT THE RIGHT OF ALL PEOPLE TO GET MARRIED ON VALENTINE’S DAY

FUN IDEA FOR VALENTINE’S DAY:

Saturday February 10th, 2006 at 7 pm: Cupid, Ceremony Couples & Single Friends of the Brooklyn Society for Ethical Culture request the honor of your presence at a FUNDRAISING party/celebrating THE MARRIAGE OF LOVE TO EQUALITY.

Singles, Couples, LGBTQ, and Straight folks are all welcome! Bring your tux, wedding dress or veil if you got one! Jaqué Dupreé in concert, Matchmaking Foolishness. Music & Dancing And more!

Celebrate Valentine’s weekend by doing something to warm Cupid’s heart and support the right of all people who love each other to get married. $15 + donation plus any unused wedding gifts and/or food/beverages for our potluck supper & auction.

LOCATION:

Brooklyn Society for Ethical Culture

53 Prospect Park West (at 2nd Street in Park Slope)
Brooklyn, NY
11215

718-768-2972

 

Proceeds benefit www.justmatrimony.org’s <http://www.justmatrimony.org’s> and other MARRIAGE EQUALITY advocacy ’07. For details & to r.s.v.p., contact bsecoffice@aol.com <mailto:bsecoffice@aol.com>, 718 768 2972.

FACING THE FUTURE ON AN AMTRAK TRAIN

Monday on the F-train, on my way back from Tekserve, a Englishman asked me how far it was to Coney Island.

"Is it worth the trip?" he asked.

"Absolutely," I said. In the next few years it’s going to change a lot. You really should see it before it’s all destroyed."

The man had a camera around his neck so I figured he wanted to take pictures. We talked a bit. He wanted to know other "off the beaten path" destinations for sightseeing.

Williamsburg. Dumbo. Brooklyn Heights. I told him to catch Doug Aitken’s outdoor film installation at MOMA, Sleepwalkers. Harlem. 

Turns out he’s on a grand trip after being laid off from his job in IT. "I’ve been working 17 years straight and I wanted to do something interesting before looking for another job."

We talked a bit. He’s rethinking everything and getting out of the computer business. He doesn’t know what he wants to do next. This guy wasn’t young but he’s facing the future with a very open mind.

For starters, he got a special off-peak Amtrak ticket only available to non-American travelers. For 30 days he can take Amtrak anywhere. He’s going to Florida, New Orleans, Tuscon, San Diego, San Francisco.

From San Francisco he’s going to New Zealand. Then he goes back to London to look for a job.

"I’ll be out of money then," he said.

Inspiring. I love the idea of a train trip across America. "I’m sitting in a railway station got a ticket for my destination…"

To Look  for America. And himself. Sounds very exciting to me.

MRS. CLEAVAGE’S DIARY: AN OTBKB FAVE

 This was my idea so I’ll take all the credit. Mrs. Cleavage has a blog on Metro Parents and it’s SO FUN. It’s called: Mrs. Cleavage’s Diary

Mary MacRae Warren (aka Mrs. Cleavage) is a single mother who lives
with her delightful young boy child in a cluttered apartment in East
New York. She is saucy, opinionated, creative, and a smarty-pants – not
necessarily in that order. This is her story, live and unedited from
Brooklyn. Here’s an excerpt. She just lost her job…

At 11:30
a.m., my boss called me into the conference room sat me down with the
Senior Vice President of Human Resources who politely informed me of
the terms of my severance, due to structural reorganization.  Hey, at
least I wasn’t actually fired.  I’m just unnecessary.

I feel so much better.

Strained
smiles and handshakes all around, then Mrs. Cleavage went to pack up
her desk.  Who knew in six months one could accumulate such sh*t.  Into
the paper bag went my son’s photo and the cardinal paperweight he made
me, the spare pair of panty hose, the baby wipes.  Gave my Earl Grey
tea to my co-worker along with my hand sanitizer, the Emergen-C to my
boss. Fired off a couple of farewell emails, deleted junk from my hard
drive and that was that. 

Then I turned in my keys, picked up
my little bags, and went into the ladies room to freak out.  I sobbed
all the way home on the train.  What a nightmare. I hate public
displays, but I could not keep it together. 

I messaged a
friend who couldn’t really deal with my panic.  I called my therapist
who now stands even less of a chance of being paid for his services. I
hiccupped through that phone call. 

I feel like such a loser.
This morning and in the last couple of weeks, I’ve been so – um –
tranquil in the face of all the crap that’s happened to me in the past
two and half years. In essence, I’ve just handed myself over to the
safe-keeping of the universe (what some people call giving themselves
up to god, but which I can’t say because I’m not invested in a
figurehead).  And this is what the universe thinks I f*cking deserve –
unemployment, no money and no career prospects, no lover or social life
to speak of.  Nice.

Okay, I sound a bit sour grapes here.  And
right now I am very bitter.  But there is got to be a positive reason
for all of this.  I have to believe that or I’d stick my head in the
oven tonight. 

Monday morning I’m going to get up, get dressed
and pretend to go to work.  I can’t tell my son I don’t have a job.
What the f*ck?

Serving Park Slope and Beyond