NEW BLOG ON THE BLOCK: SHELLEYTOWN

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The blogger at Shelleytown wrote me yesterday and I’m glad she did. I was completely unaware of this Brooklyn blog, which turned one in February 2008. The writing is excellent and the photos are gorgeous.

Here’s how she explains what goes on at Shelleytown:

"Shellytown is where New York life – mostly in brooklyn – is
chronicled, the idea of space in the city is explored, the life of a
writer is revealed (well, maybe) and work unfolds like a tent you might
want to visit."

Shelleytown is a very poetic place. She shares her observations about Brooklyn life in a very evocative and sensorial way.

As she says on her about section, Shelley isn’t from here but she wants to be. She writes, "Day by day, I fall more in love with Brooklyn. This
Web site (call it a blog, if you like) chronicles this love affair –
its dark warehouses, strange beaches, and infinite nooks and crannies." I think Shelley considers the entire blog a photo essay and journal all in one.  Here she writes about the sounds outside her window:

"Some nights, it’s a hollow roar billowing over the tracks, the elevated
highway…from something huge and made of steel with wheels and a mad
engine, formed around its own emptiness. After, a shiver a chains
breaking on smooth, broken pavement, and the night’s own emptiness –
now sharper, and much more obvious."

EARTH TONEZ: NEW VEGAN ON FIFTH

The name sort of reminds me of that pseudo French pronunciation of Target (Targey). What’s with Tonez. That aside, someone over at Park Slope Parents has been to the new Fifth Avenue cafe and had very positive things to say.

There’s
a
really
nice
new
vegan
cafe
on
5th
ave,
just
next
to
the
great
hot
dog
place Willie’s Dogs
between
4th
and
5th
streets. It’s
called
Earth
Tonez
and
it
has
homemade
vegan
deserts
including
cupcakes,
"cheese"cake,
double
chocolate
cakes
and
more.
They
also
make
nice
soups,
sandwiches,
wraps
and
salads

all
Vegan.
They
also
have
a
kids’
menu
and
a
menu
for
the
MS-51
crowd
(it’s
nice
to
see
that
these
spots
and
Get
Fresh
are
providing
alternatives
to
the
confectioner’s
donuts
and
candy
that
I
usually
see
the
middle
school
students
eating
for
lunch).

The writer of the above post asked me to add; "the owners are very open and friendly. Also, they do fresh squeezed juices and vegan burgers…"

MAJOR DISRUPTIONS ON THE F AND G LINES THIS WEEKEND

This from NY 1:

Riders of the F or G train may want to leave extra time for their commutes today.

Signal and track work is knocking out service on both lines in parts of Brooklyn through 5 a.m. Monday.

F trains won’t run between the Jay Street and 4th Avenue/9th Street
station. Riders should switch to the D train at 4th Avenue/9th Street
for service to and from Manhattan.

And G trains won’t be running between the Hoyt-Schermerhorn and Smith-9th Street stops.

Free shuttle buses will run between Hoyt-Schermerhorn and 7th Avenue in Brooklyn.

"These are life lines, the G in particular," said City Councilman
David Yassky. " They have no other choice. You know, people get very
frustrated."

Yassky said that he has been pleased with the number of transit
workers available to inform riders of the service changes and help them
onto the shuttle buses.

You can read about it on the MTA website, too.

BE KIND REWIND: SAW IT, LOVED IT

An ode to the amateur, Be Kind Rewind, is a joyous treat for those who love to watch creativity in action.

Jack Black, as a nutty neighborhood character and Mos Def, as an employee at a down-at-its heels neighborhood video store, have to make their own versions of movies after all their VHS tapes are demagnetized.

The film gets wild and fun when we see the two of them (plus Melonie Diaz who joins in for the fun) as they remake these films in a completely ingenuous and kooky ways.

Pizza pies become bloody special effects, xeroxes become old cars, aluminum foil works wonders in a multitude of ways.

In many hilarious scenes, the team recreates Ghostbusters, Rush Hour 2, Driving Miss Daisy, When We Were Kings and more.

We loved it.

Cool (blog) celebrity sighting: After the show, we ran into Joe Holmes of Joe’s NYC with his family in the lobby of the Pavilion. They stayed to the very end of the Be Kind Rewind credits. Big cinema buffs that they are, they loved the film.

AU CONTRAIRE: THE OCASSIONAL NOTE FROM PETER LOFFREDO

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Here’s something new from our pal Pete of Full Permission Living:

Earlier this week British researchers made headlines with their report that antidepressants are for the most part ineffective. (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/02/26/do-antidepressants-actual_n_88523.html)

But in a fascinating development, now researchers point to growing evidence that depression might actually be good for you. (Is Depression Good for You?)

Interesting. I have very often told people that their "problems" were not their problem, but rather that their judgments of their problems were their problem. And when I taught my class on psychopatholgy, I felt that the best moments were when we examined our "disorders" and "dysfunctions" as adaptations and devices that perhaps regulated the pace of our unfolding into our higher life path. The caterpillar’s coccoon is an apt analogy. Created to protect the caterpillar while it is maturing into a butterfly, the coccoon is quite functional, but to the butterfly needing to spread its wings and fly, it is dysfunctional, something necessary to get out of in order to survive. So, too, with our human emotional and psychological defenses. They are created to help us survive the vulnerabilities ofchildhood, but then we need to shed them in order to soar as adults.

Here’s some excerpts from the article on depression:

"A leading psychiatrist, Dr Paul Keedwell, an expert on mood disorders at the Institute of Psychiatry, King’s College London, says that depression is not a human defect at all, but a defence mechanism that in its mild and moderate forms can force a healthy reassessment of personal circumstances.

"There are benefits and that’s why it has persisted. It’s a tough message to hear while you are in depression but I think that there’s a life afterwards,’ Keedwell says. ‘I have received e-mails from ex-sufferers saying in retrospect it probably did help them because they changed direction, a new career for example, and as a result they’re more content day-to-day than before the depression."

"One woman left an abusive relationship and moved on, he says, and might not have done so if depression had not provided the necessary introspection. Similarly, unrealistic expectations are revised when depression sparks a more humble reassessment of strengths and weaknesses. Psychological unease can generate creative work and the rebirth after depression brings a new love affair with life.

"Aristotle believed depression to be of great value because of the insights it could bring. There is also an increased empathy in people who have or have had depression, he says, because they become more attuned to other people’s suffering."

ONLY THE BLOG LINKS

Prices for most Metrocards going up this weekend (NY Times)

Rafael Viñoly designing the new addition to the Brooklyn Children’s Museum (NY Times)

Jehovah’s Witnesses hit the streets in Brooklyn Heights (Brooklyn Hts. Blog)

Nice shot of the Hotel St. George (Brooklyn Hts. Blog)

Interview with Brooklyn’s ghostbuster (Brooklyn Optimist)

RIP: Barbara Seaman, author of The Case Against the Pill and Free and Female (NY Times)

New Gowanus photo gallery (Gowanus Lounge)

PARK SLOPE STARBUCKS EMPLOYEES PROMISE TO MAKE YOUR COFFEE PERFECT

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I saw the promise.

At the Seventh Avenue Starbucks, it’s a handwritten chalk board sign with every employee’s signature on it.

I wasn’t wearing my glasses so I asked one of the baristas to read it to me. It says something like: we promise to make a perfect cup of coffee and if we don’t please tell us and we’ll make it again.

I asked the barista if it turned out that she’d been making the coffee all wrong. She said she’d been doing it right but that the training at the store hadn’t always been consistent. Some people were doing it right and others were doing it wrong.

She told me that the training would be standardized now and all employees would be employing the correct method for frothier foam and perfect coffee drinks.

Talk about frothy. The "tall" latte she made me had exceptionally frothy cream .And the coffee tastes strong.

All good.

PS I am an occasional Starbucks customer. I spread my coffee drinking around. Due to budgetary concerns, I tend to buy mine at Grand Canyon or the newsstand. Cheap trumps cappuccino these days.

GOOD BYE PARK SLOPE BOOKS

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It was so cool having two bookstores right around the corner. Seventh Avenue Books and Park Slope Books both added so much to the intellectual landscape of Seventh Avenue between 3rd and 2nd Street.

First Seventh Avenue left. Now Park Slope Books.

I feel like a spurned book lover.

A few
month’s ago Henry’s tutor asked if there was a Bible in the house and
we couldn’t find one. Omigod there’s no bible in the house That explains a lot.

A few days later I went into Park Slope Books and bought a beautiful edition of the Torah and New Testament.

Park Slope Books was great for those kind of impulse purchases. And I’m so glad to have those religious tomes around.

Every inter-faith household needs a Torah, a New Testament…

What will we do when we need a quick Torah, an anthology of international poetry, a copy of some book by an author we discussed at dinner.

Sadly, Park Slope Books is nearly done moving all of their books out of the store. The packing went fairly quickly.  Now it’s just bookcases in there.

The store has an outpost in Brooklyn Heights called Brooklyn Heights Books. The owner is a friend of my father. I’ll have to find out why they decided to close the shop.

My guess: high rents and low revenues. But maybe it’s something else. You never know. Tom, the owner of Seventh Avenue Books claimed that sales were pretty good in his shop. But then again he was trying to sell the shop.

Truth is, Tome sold for personal reasons and maybe Park Slope Books reasons are personal, too.

You never know.

pix by Phil Moore

7TH AVE BROOKLYN INDUSTRIES MOVES INTO STORE NEXT DOOR

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Brooklyn Industries on Seventh Avenue moved into its new corner space on 9th Street and temporarily vacated the store next door while workmen fix/refresh/renovate things in there.

Next week, the two storefronts will become one when a sheet rock wall is removed. Voila: a bigger Seventh Avenue Brooklyn Industries.

Some new merch in the shop but still a lot of sale items. If you’re a small size maybe one of the long down jackets will fit you. The price is good.

They’re selling woolen hats and scarves for $9 bucks.

KAHLIL GIBRAN PROPOSED MOVE TO PS 287 IN FT GREENE MET WITH UNEASINESS

More controversy for the Kahlil Gibran International Academy. This time it’s not about the principal. But the school is in search of a new home. Again.

A few months ago I heard on a school tour that the school was definitely moving out of the Dean Street building, which also houses the Math and Science Exploratory School, a middle school, and the Brooklyn High School for the Arts.

Now they are talking about PS 287 in Ft. Greene and parents there aren’t happy about it. It’s deja vu all over again: who can forget the uproar caused by parents when the school was set to move in PS 282 in Park Slope.

At
a meeting with education officials Tuesday night, parents from PS287
were uneasy about older students moving into the building used by their
younger kids. The following is an excerpt from the NY Daily News article:

"It’s a bad idea altogether," said PTA President Edgardo Rivera. "We want the elementary school to stay an elementary school."

"I’m adamantly opposed to its being in this building," said Ed Brown, president of the Ingersoll Parents Association.

Less
than a year old, the school has been mired in controversy since its
inception, with its founding principal stepping down last summer, then
suing the city to get her job back.

STARBUCKS MILK FOAM WILL BE FROTHIER

A Third Street neighbor, who works at a Starbucks in Manhattan, assured me that the milk foam in lattes and cappuccino’s at Starbucks will be much improved because of Tuesday’s re-training sessions at all 7,100 shops.

At the re-training sessions, employees were trained in the art of making frothy foam. Turns out, the majority of Starbucks baristas were doing it wrong.

My Third Street neighbor was an exception. One of the top three baristas at his Starbucks, he’s been doing it right all along I am proud to report.

From now on, he said, the coffee drinks should taste much, much better. The company, which has sales of over $9 billion dollars, has seen it’s profits plunge since 2006. They’re scared and are attempting to get back to basics to salvage their falling market share.

According to some reports, stores opened yesterday with a sign urging customers to complain if their drink wasn’t "perfect".

I haven’t been to the Seventh Avenue store since last week but am interested to see if things are different over there.

While I’m not a big fan of Starbucks coffee, I do like the staff at our local Starbucks.

PARK SLOPERS VICTIMIZED BY THE BANK FREEZE KING

A coop on Third Street has been victimized by a Manhattan law firm, known by some as The Bank Freeze King. It seems that this horrendous law firm freezes bank accounts for a living. Read about them on Budd Hibbs, a website which helps America hold debt collectors to the law. Many have been victims of these crooks.

Did you ever hear of the Manhattan law firm, Mel Harris & Associates?

Neither
did our co-op, until we became victims.  These  shysters make money by
making life hell for other New Yorkers–that is, by having legal holds
placed on their bank accounts based on trumped up claims and then
extorting them for payment in order to leave them alone. 

What little
research I did turned up quite a few victims indeed, all bewildered and
grasping for recourse. 

Luckily, we have a lawyer in the building and
we got the hold lifted, at least.  Others are not so lucky. I thought I’d pass it
along.

FREE TASTES OF GREYSTON BROWNIES AT THE FOOD COOP

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To my knowledge Wednesday was the first time there was a tasting table at the Park Slope Food Coop—if I’m wrong about that I’m sure someone will correct me.

I felt like I was at Trader Joe’s or Costco.

Indeed, the  tasting table across from the refrigerator case that has eggs, Indian sauces, tofu, tempeh, and other refrigerator items, gave the Coop a mainstream supermarket vibe. Shoppers seemed surprised to see the free brownies. But few seemed to object—that’s for sure.

The women were promoting individually wrapped Greyston chocolate fudge, walnut, expresso bean and blonde brownies that the Coop will be selling.

I grabbed two pieces of blonde brownies by the toothpick and savored the delicious treat. When I went back to the table for more I noticed that the packaging said Ben and Jerry’s on it.

"I see Ben and Jerry’s is on the label," I said.

"Yes, we make the brownies for their ice cream," said one of the women from Greyston.  "It’s a good fit for the Food Coop. I wish we could come here every day," 

That’s Ben and Jerry’s Chocolate Fudge Brownie she’s talking about. That flavor contains chunks of yummy, chewy Greyston brownies. According to the Ben & Jerry website, Greyston provides employment and training to economically disadvantaged
residents of Yonkers. Ben & Jerry’s likes Greyston because "we get great tasting brownies and we also get to
support the good work they do to create economic opportunities in their
community."

So Greyston are social activist brownies and that’s why they had a tasting table at the Food Coop. That makes sense.

From the Greyston website:

Greyston Bakery is a force for personal transformation and community
economic renewal. We operate a profitable business, baking high quality
gourmet products with a commitment to customer satisfaction.

Greyston
Bakery provides a supportive workplace offering employment and
opportunity for advancement. Our profits contribute to the community
development work of the Greyston Foundation.

According to the Greyston Foundation website, they don’t hire people to make brownies, they make brownies to hire people.

The Foundation provides jobs, workforce development, low income housing, child care services, after school programs, comprehensive HIV health care, housing, community gardens and a gourmet baking business. In 2007, the foundation celebrated its 25th anniversary in 2007.

ONLY THE BLOG LINKS

Clyde Haberman: Crystal ball is cloudy (Brooklyn Heights Blog)

No run for Bloomberg (New York Times op-ed)

Independents best in bed, republicans the worst (Brooklyn Optimist)

Teaching journalism in Bhutan (Andrea Bernstein’s blog)

RIP: William F. Buckley, Jr (New York Times)

Earn an A and you can use your cell phone at a few Brooklyn middle schools (NY Times)

$60 million gift to SUNY Stonybrook from hedge funder (NY Times)

Gowanus Green in detail (Gowanus Lounge)

Online petition to link G to Atlantic Avenue station (Gowanus Lounge)

BREAKING: MEXICAN RESTAURANT REPLACING TEMPO PRESTO

Well, the construction workers wouldn’t talk but the nice man in the newsstand had no problem spilling the beans about the new restaurant going in where Tempo Presto used to be. And speaking of beans, black beans, that is…

"A Mexican restaurant is going in there," the newsman told me Wednesday afternoon.

"Did Tempo Presto go out? a customer asked the man behind the counter. Where you been? I thought to myself.

"Three months ago. They were only there, what, six months?" the shopkeeper looked at me for confirmation.

"Yeah six, eight months," I concurred not really sure how long they’d been there.

"I never went there," his customer replied.  "Not much room in there for a restaurant."

"They’re going to have outdoor seating," the newsman said.

"But that’s only good in the warm weather," the customer laughed.

"Maybe they’ll put in a tent like Sette," I added pointing the Italian restaurant across the street.

"They’ll have to pay for the heat," the newsman said.

"That’s expensive," the customer said and walked out with his cigarettes.

NEW RESTAURANT GOING INTO TEMPO PRESTO

They’re putting new doors on the former Tempo Presto space on the corner of Third Street and Seventh Avenue.

I wonder if this is the restaurant/cafe a PR guy called me about a few weeks ago. "He said he was inquiring, for his client, about advertising on OTBKB. 

All hush and hush and secretive, he ouldn’t tell me the name of the place. Top secret and all that. I said if you want to keep it a secret don’t tell me because I’m Only the Blog Knows Brooklyn and it’s my job to Know and tell all (unless it’s off the record and I can keep secrets).

Anywho, two Russian guys were doing construction work in the new restaurant. It looked like they took the bathroom out. They wouldn’t say what kind of restaurant it is.

"We don’t know," they said.

I wanted to say, you have to tell me I’m OTBKB. But I didn’t. 

DEPARTMENT OF HEALTH RELEASES MEASLES IN BROOKLYN ALERT

Dr. Gordon just sent me this alert from the Department of Health:

Dear HAN Subscriber:

We have just released a DOHMH Alert
concerning Measles in Brooklyn. It is available on the HAN home page ,
is appended to this email, and is also attached as a pdf file. To read
the attachment, you will need the Adobe reader. If you do not have that
software, it can be downloaded at no cost at
http://www.adobe.com/products/acrobat/readstep2.html.

To log into the HAN, for this alert and many related documents, go to www.nyc.gov/health/nycmed

If you have any questions or problems, call 1-888-NYCMED9 or write to  nycmed@health.nyc.gov

February 25, 2008

2008 DOHMH HEALTH ALERT # 5: Measles in Brooklyn

1)
Two measles cases have been identified in a family in Brooklyn. The
cases have not travelled outside of New York, indicating exposure to
measles within the City.
2) All clinically suspect cases of measles
(febrile illness accompanied by generalized maculopapular rash) must be
reported immediately (prior to laboratory confirmation) to the New York
City Department of Health and Mental Hygiene at (212) 676-2292 or 2313
(weekdays 9 am to 5 pm). For after hours and weekends, please call
Poison Control 212-764-7667. Suspect cases of measles must be placed in
respiratory isolation immediately.
3) Appropriate clinical specimens should be sent to the NYC DOHMH Public Health Laboratories for testing.

Please
Distribute to All Primary Care Staff, Including Infectious Disease,
Emergency Medicine, Internal Medicine, Pediatrics, Family Medicine, and
Laboratory Medicine and All Infection Control Personnel

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TWO CASES OF MEASLES IN BROOKLYN

Dr. Phillipa Gorden, a well-regarded pediatrician in Park Slope, put the word out on Park Slope Parents about two cases of measles in the area. She started with this concise post.

Not
sure
if
this
has
been
reported
yet,
but
there
is
a
little
outbreak of
measles
in
Brooklyn

and
it
is
homegrown,
not
imported
from
another country.

I am guessing that some PSP members got a little agitated. One woman, a self-described hypochondriac, wrote to say that she appreciated the heads
up,
but wondered what she’s supposed
to
do
with this
information? 
Watch
for
fever
and
red
spots? 
Avoid
indoor
public
germfests
like
B&N?

Dr. Gordon sent out this second post to allay her fears. But it sure contains some scary information.

Sorry
everyone,
I
did
not
mean
to
start
a
panic. It’s
only
2 cases! 
 

The
primary
case 
contracted
the
disease
and
passed
it
on
to an
unimmunized
family
member. 
But
why
it’s
interesting
is
that
the index
case
had
not
been
out
of
the
country, 
which
means
he
or
she
was exposed
to
the
disease
within
New
York
City.

Since 
the
mid-nineties, almost
all
cases
of
measles
have
been
imported
–either
visitors
to
USA from
other
countries,
or
US
residents
returning
from
trips
abroad. 
From a
public
health
point
of
view
this
is
extremely
interesting. 

Measles outbreaks
can
only
occur
when 
so-
called
"herd
immunity"
fails

that
is,
when
the
number
of
susceptible
people
in
a
community
increases
to
a
certain
percentage,
transmission
occurs,
but
if
the
number
of susceptible
people
in
a
community
is
low,
the
community
cannot
sustain an
outbreak. 

So
it
raises
questions
as
to
the
status
of
our
community with
regard
to
herd
immunity,
and
the
Dept.
of
Health
will
be
watching carefully. 
Occasionally
they
have
to
institute
quarantines

some
may remember
that
last
year
there
was
an
outbreak
of
chicken
pox
at
321
and the
DOH
came
and
sent
home
children
who
had
no
proof
of
immunity. 

Interestingly,
if
a
disease
becomes
very
prevalent,
some
people
who
are
immunized
will
catch
it
anyway.

As
far
as
what
we
as
parents
need
to
worry
about,
if
your
child
is
immunized,
no
problem. 
The
disease
consists
of
fever,
cough,
runny
nose,
conjunctivitis,
and
a
lacy
red
rash. 
Also
spots
inside
the
mouth
called
Koplik’s
spots. 
Kids
under
5
are
more
at
risk
for complications. 
Acute
encephalitis
causing
permanent
brain
damage
occurs in
one
out
of
a
thousand
cases,
and
death
occurs
in
one
to
three
out
of a
thousand
cases. 
In
addition
there
is
a
chronic 
irreversible degenerative
central
nervous
system
syndrome
known
as
subacute sclerosing
panencephalitis 
that
is
very
very
rare
and
has
hasn’t
occurred
in
the
US
in
many
years.

As
children
are
infectious
one
to
three
days
before
symptoms
occur,
it’s
a
crap
shoot,
but
staying
home
if
your
child 
have
fever
or
rash,
and
making
sure
your
child’s
immunizations
are
up
to
date
if
you
do
intend
to
vaccinate
them
are
the
best
bet
for
now.

TOMORROW: THE MEMOIR-A-THON

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Brooklyn Reading Works presents THE MEMOIR-A-THON!

This is the Brooklyn Reading Works
event you won’t want to miss. Never heard of a Memoir-A-Thon?

That’s
because I made it up. It’s sort of a marathon reading of memoirs—but it
won’t be long and boring.

No way. That’s because the writers are each limited to 6 minutes and that will be strictly enforced by my little bell.

At 6 minutes: ding, ding, ding.

And what a group of writers: Branka Ruzak, Mary Warren, Marian
Fontana, Paula Bernstein and Elyse Schein, Nica Lalli, Kim Larsen,
Carla Thompson and MORE…

Come to this great event and hear the personal stories of these
unique writers. Books by these authors will be on sale at the event
which is at the Old Stone House at Fifth Avenue and Third Street.

PAULA BERNSTEIN & ELYSE SCHEIN are the authors of Identical Strangers: A Memoir of Twins Separated and Reunited,

MARIAN FONTANA is the author of A Widow’s Walk, a memoir of 9/11. 

NICA LALLI is the author of Nothing; Something to Believe In, a memoir of growing up an athiest.

BRANKA RUZAK has
been
a
writer,
producer
and
editor
for
commercial
and corporate
advertising
who
spent
many
childhood
hours
listening
to
her father’s
stories
and
playing
Croatian
folk
music.
Always
an
avid
traveler,her
studies
in
Hindusthani
classical
music,
as
well
as
her
enthusiasm
for Indian
novels,
textiles
and
a
good
cup
of
chai
have
taken
her
to
India
and other
destinations.
She
is
currently
working
on
a
collection
of
essays
about family,
identity,
culture
and
travel.

MARY WARREN is a freelance writer who teaches English at a local college. SHe has two blogs, Mrs. Cleavage’s Diary and Eat, Drink, Memory.

CARLA THOMPSON writes a blog, "The Ride: Life
Lesson for Those Who Can’t Draw a Straight Line", which features her
acerbic and sometimes witty musings on everything from politics to pop
culture. Carla has also written a variety of articles for Women’s
eNews, Black Enterprise, AOL Black Voices and the Atlanta
Journal-Constitution among other publications.

KIM LARSEN’S feature story, "Bad Blood," which
reports on the reintroduction of DDT in the fight against malaria in
Africa, is the cover story in the winter 2008 edition of OnEarth
Magazine. Her essay about the untimely death of a close friend appears
in the essay anthology, "The Oldest We’ve Ever Been."

PAMELA S. OUELETTE Pamela S. Ouellette is a speech language pathologist currently working with school-age children in the South Bronx and an adjunct lecturer at Baruch
College, CUNY.  She is writing a collection of not-so-comic,
not-so-nonfiction about her work with adults with traumatic brain injuries
entitled "Addled: Capering Amidst the Wisdom of the Traumatically Brain
Injured," about a recently divorced speech language pathologist who
attempts to discover who is more addled–she or the patients she treats and
learns that shattered minds can resuscitate arrested hearts.

JULIE MERZ (BIO TO COME)

PARK SLOPE PARENTS WEBSITE IS COMMUNITY BUILT

Every day I receive numerous e-mail digests from the Park Slope Parents list-serve in my  in-box and even though I don’t have babies anymore, I always make it my business to see what’s going on.

Sometimes I am moved to answer a question. In the last few days someone asked others to share their c-section experiences and I was considering jotting mine down. Most of the time I just read. Recently someone wanted to know where to buy make-up and I put in my two cents about MYR. My sister frequently comments on matters pertaining to adoption.

A few weeks ago when my stepmother was in the hospital, I asked about local services that prepare and deliver food for sick people. I
got plenty of responses that were very helpful and illuminating.

PSP has 10,000 subscribers. Every day dozens of people exchange information about  parenting and related topics. It’s hard to remember Park Slope without it. Sure, it’s easy to parody and make fun of and, indeed, the media has had great fun at its expense.

But it is a private conversation about personal and public matters. And what a fantastic resource it is for those who use it. That’s why it’s important that members (and that means anyone with kids) feel comfortable and safe about the information exchange.

And yet…it’s the Internet, anyone can read it, and there’s no stopping anyone from taking the information and doing what they wish with it.

PSP operates on a honor code of sorts. What plays in Vegas, stays in Vegas. There are rules of the PSP game and it’s important that people respect them.

For those who participate, it is the virtual Seventh Avenue, a great place to spread the word about urgent matters like a rash of muggings on 8th Avenue, a restaurant closing or a new policy at a local bar.

Yesterday someone wanted to know humane ways of getting rid of a mouse. Admittedly, I am a particular fan of the posts about rodents and other pests.

Today’s roster on the listserve includes: Tell me about your c-section, alternatives to Ikea, 
recommendation
for
tree
pit guards, and a request for info on the Brooklyn New School.

Park Slope Parents also has a public website that is community
built
and
commercially
supported. While the listserve is limited to parents and those who sign up, the website is open to everyone. From the organizers of PSP, here’s a guide to how
you
can
help
keep
Park
Slope
Parents
a
valuable
resource
for
area
parents:

—-
Send
a
Summary
 
If
you
ask
a
question
on
the
list
and
get
great
responses,
please
post
a
summary
to
the
list
and
also
send
it
to
summaries@parkslopeparents.com

—-
Post
a
Review
Take
2
minutes,
log
into
the
website
and
post
a
review
(good
or
not
so
good)
about
anything
from
a
local
store,
home
improvement
specialist,
OB-GYN
or
daycare.

—-
Tell
people
“I
found
you
on
the
Park
Slope
Parents
website”
or
“I
saw
your
ad
on
the
PSP
Website”
If
you
call
or
meet
someone
from
the
PSP
website,
please
let
them
know
you
heard
about
them
on
the
Park
Slope
Parents
website.

—-
Promote
YOUR
business
(or
tell
other
people
to
promote
theirs)
 
We
have
advertising
opportunities
on
the
website
and
since
you
can
now
post
Commercial
Posts
(for
a
fee)
to
the
website,
promote
your
business
while
supporting
PSP.

—-Be
A
Guest
Writer
(you
don’t
have
to
be
a
professional
writer)
 
If
you’ve
researched
an
area
of
parenting
that
would
be
of
help
to
other
folks,
ease
their
load
and
save
them
time
and
effort,
by
writing
up
an
article
for
the
website.
Contact
feedback@parkslopeparents.com
to
let
us
know
you
want
to
help.

—-Be
A
Guest
Editor
 
See
some
typos
that
are
driving
you
nuts? 
Be
a
guest
editor
and
help
us
clean
up
the
site! 
Contact
feedback@parkslopeparents.com
to
let
us
know
you
want
to
help.

RICHARD GRAYSON READS SOCIOLOGY

Remember Richard Grayson? Funny literary guy, author of I Brake for Delmore Schwartz, And to Think that He Kissed Him on Lorimer Street and With Hitler in New York?

He’s a sometime-columnist for OTBKB and writes about Brooklyn bus rides and his high school English teacher.

Well, today he told me something interesting. Maybe he’ll write about it:

I did go to something on Sunday afternoon at Bluestockings that was kind of interesting, a meeting of planners’ reading group at which they discussed a sociology book Bargaining for Brooklyn, a study of community-based organizations in Bushwick and Williamsburg
in the late 1990s.  I didn’t write anything about it because it was
pretty academic although I will probably at least skim the book.

TEPPER ISN’T GOING OUT

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I ran into a friend,  a former Third Street neighbor, at the armory ceremony on Tuesday. She wanted to speak to Councilmember Bill De Blasio about the new parking meters on Seventh Avenue on 10th Street and above.

So we did.

When we left the building, said friend told me about a book called Tepper Isn’t Going Out by New Yorker writer, Calvin Trillin, about parking. Said friend has the same last name as the book’s protagonist.

Trillin’s book is the oh-so-New York story about a man who sits in his car reading the newspaper. Why? Because he has a great parking space. Here’s the blurb from the Random House website.

Murray Tepper would say that he is an ordinary New Yorker who is simply
trying to read the newspaper in peace. But he reads while sitting
behind the wheel of his parked car, and his car always seems to be in a
particularly desirable parking spot. Not surprisingly, he is regularly
interrupted by drivers who want to know if he is going out.

Tepper
isn’t going out. Why not? His explanations tend to be rather
literal—the indisputable fact, for instance, that he has twenty minutes
left on the meter.

But once New Yorkers become aware of Tepper,
some of them begin to suspect that he knows something they don’t. And
an ever-increasing number of them are willing to line up for the
opportunity to sit in his car with him and find out what it is.

Councilman Di Blasio knows that parking is probably one of the single most aggravating aspects of city life. Coming between a New Yorker and a parking space spells trouble. That’s why Bill says the DOT got it all wrong when they installed over 60 parking meters on Seventh Avenue without telling anyone.

Surprise.

Bill knows which way his bread is buttered. And he has to park his car, too. He asked the DOT to stop use of those parking meters and have a community meeting. Bill believes in the process. As he told me: "You talk to merchants, you talk to residents. you have a community meeting." 

That’s how it’s done.

Said friend with the same name as Trillin’s hero told Bill: "Thanks for advocating for us, Bill."

And she meant it. 

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