Here’s something from our pal Pete of Full Permission Living and Full Permission Writing about “sleeping on it.”
Did you ever end your day with an unresolved problem? A knot of some sort you couldn’t untangle at work, or a relationship conflict that seemed to have no clear resolution? Who hasn’t? But have you had the experience of waking up the next day with the solution suddenly as clear as could be, as if it had been there all along? Most of you have had such experiences, which is why the notion of “sleeping on it” is part of the common wisdom in all cultures.
I just had one of those waking-up light bulbs this morning. Last night, our kids somehow managed, as kids do, to break a contraption in our house (I’ll spare you the details) that was essential to our domestic tranquility. It had to be fixed before I started sessions this afternoon. For the life of me, I couldn’t figure out how to fix the darn thing last night. The better part of my wisdom told me to let it go because I was tired and ready to relax for the evening.
“Forget it. I’ll sleep on it.” I declared.
Low and behold, I woke up wide-eyed at 5 AM with the answer in its entirety right before me in a picture in my mind. I saw it. I knew what to do. I went back to sleep. A few hours later, and yes, now it’s fixed!
Just as I talked about in my essay on “Gut Feelings” (http://fullpermissionliving.blogspot.com/2008/01/gut-feelings.html), I was reminded that the bigger decisions and harder problems in life are better left to our unconscious mind, where our higher self wisdom, the knowledge of our entire species in the collective consciousness, and our imagination reside.
An article in New Scientist a couple of years ago referenced a study at the University of Amsterdam in the Netherlands that concurs (http://www.newscientist.com/article.ns?id=dn8732) entitled: “Sleeping on it’ best for complex decisions”
Here’s an excerpt:
“Complex decisions are best left to your unconscious mind to work out, according to a new study, and over-thinking a problem could lead to expensive mistakes. The research suggests the conscious mind should be trusted only with simple decisions, such as selecting a brand of oven glove. Sleeping on a big decision, such as buying a car or house, is more likely to produce a result people remain happy with than consciously weighing up the pros and cons of the problem, the researchers say.”
Have a good sleep!