NEW PLAQUE FOR DAVE FONTANA TO REPLACE STOLEN ONE

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Some of you may remember the strange case of the missing plaque.

A plaque for Lt. Dave Fontana, a Squad 1 firefighter who died on 9/11, was stolen. No one could believe it. Why would someone want to steal Dave’s plaque?

On September 11, 2006, Dave’s fourth Street neighbors are putting up a new plaque. There will be a ceremony and dedication at 5 p.m. Here’s the story from last year.

A memorial plaque in honor of Lt. David Fontana, one of the
firefighters from Squad 1 in Park Slope who died on 9/11 at the World
Trade Center, has been stolen. 

It was placed there in 2002 by friends and neighbors on the tree in
front of the Fourth Street brownstone where David, Marian, and Aidan
Fontana used to live. There was a small dedication ceremony around
Christmas of that year. "We invited Squad 1 over for a little
dedication. Some kids from my son’s chorus at MS51 stood on the stoop
and sang a couple of song. songs," writes Sarah Greene in an e-mail to
OTBKB. "My husband, Bill,  talked about how we planted that tree a few
years before, and when he watered it some mornings, Dave would come out
and they’d chat. So we thought of it as ‘Dave’s tree’."

The plaque, which reads, "In Memory of Firefighter Dave Fontana –
Beloved Husband, Father, Neighbor, Artist, Hero," was discovered
missing on the afternoon of Wednesday, September 13th. "It was there in
the morning because my husband watered the tree around 10 a.m," writes
Greene.  "But Liz O’Connell noticed it was missing in the afternoon."

The missing plaque has been reported to the police. "But somehow I
doubt they will put a detective on the case," writes Sarah. She and her
neighbors are putting up signs this weekend offering a $100 reward for
its return. The value was placed at $800.00 but Greene thinks that it
will cost close to $1000. to replace it.

No one can quite figure out why someone would steal the plaque which
honors a local Park Slope hero. Perhaps someone wanted a 9/11 souvenir.
The theft could be connected to the publicity surrounding the
publication of Marian Fontana’s just-published memoir: "A Widow’s Walk:
A Memoir of 9/11." Or it might have been a school prank – there are two
schools near the location of the plaque. The principals of both schools
were notified of the missing plaque

ART OPENING: FOREST FOR THE TREES

Showletter_8Danny Simmons Corridor Gallery
334 Grand Avenue in Clinton Hill,
(Corner Lexington  Ave.)
Brooklyn

G train to Classon Avenue or C train to Clinton/Washington Station.

Seeing the Forest Through The Trees features the work of four exceptional multi-tasking artists — Audrey Frank Anastasi, Joseph Anastasi, who together run Tabla Rasa Gallery in Sunset Park, Brooklyn as well as Sherry Bittle and Michael Rader who in run Tastes Like Chicken Art Space in Bushwick, Brooklyn.

WAYS TO COMMEMORATE 9/11

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About Brooklyn has a list of some ways to
commemorate the fifth anniversary of the 9/11 attacks on the World
Trade Center, there are events the next several days in Brooklyn. If
you know of a September 11 memorial event in Brooklyn that should be
listed, please e-mail her (Wendy Zarganis)  at brooklyn.guide@about.com

Through September 30th, "Here Was New York : Twin Towers in Memorial Images," at the Brooklyn Historical Society.
This photography exhibit will be held simultaneously in various
galleries throughout Brooklyn and depicts different images of the Twin
Towers. Participating galleries include 5+5 Gallery, Safe-T-Gallery and
Gloria Kennedy Gallery.

Friday, September 8th
Also, Saturday, Sept. 9th, 7pm, Sunday, Sept. 10th, 5pm and Monday, Sept. 11, 7pm The Cove in Brooklyn Bridge Park. Free.
The Silver-Brown Dance Company returns to the Brooklyn Bridge Park for
the fifth year with the premiere of OASIS 3, a 9/11 memorial
performance. The New York Times describes as "dancing on the edge of
the volcano." For more info: www.brooklynbridgepark.org

Sunday, September 10th
Commerative concert at St. Jacobi Evangelical Lutheran Church. 4 pm. Reception follows. Free. 5406 Fourth Ave. (718) 439-8978.

Screening
On September 11, 1906, Gandhi launched the modern nonviolent movement
by pledging to use nonviolence and civil disobedience in his quest for
justice. 6 pm. Come for a screening of "Ghandi." 6pm. Brooklyn Nonviolent Communication, 421 Fifth Ave. (btwn. 7th and 8th sts.) (718) 797-9525. Free. Donations welcome.

Monday, September 11th
Bargemusic
hosts a memorial concert featuring works by Scriabin, Chopin and
Bottoms. 7:30 pm. Fulton Ferry Landing, Old Fulton Street at the East
River. (718) 624-2083.

Brooklyn Botanic Garden is waiving its fees today for visitors
to The Liberty Oaks, on the Cherry Esplanade, a living memorial to the
heroes of 9/11.10 am-6 pm. 900 Washington Ave. (718) 623-7200.

Information for the ceremony at the World Trade Center site

Carroll Gardens photo by Wendy Zarganis

THE RACE IN THE 11th CONGRESSIONAL DISTRICT

This piece from Gay City News by Duncan Osborne about the tight race in the 11th Congressional District, the race everyone is watching.


In one of the final debates among the Democratic contenders for
Brooklyn’s 11th Congressional District, the candidates offered voters a
choice among four supporters of gay marriage and other goals sought by
the lesbian and gay community.

“After
September 12 we will no longer have four candidates,” said Gary Parker,
president of Lambda Independent Democrats (LID), referring to the date
of the primary election. “We will have one, but we know that that one
candidate will support marriage equality.”

While
the race has largely been without rancor, one point of tension has been
that it was only at the end of last year when City Councilman David
Yassky, the sole white candidate, moved into the district, which
includes portions of Brooklyn Heights and Park Slope but has its
greatest number of voters in Flatbush, Crown Heights, and East New York.

Democrat
Major Owens has represented the district since 1982 and in some parts
of the district the seat is seen as an African- and Caribbean-American
one, having been represented by a black Democrat since the late Shirley
Chisholm was first elected in 1968. In 2004, Owens announced he would
not seek re-election this year. With only Democrats in the running, the
September 12 primary will decide the winner.

While
not directly attacking Yassky at the August 30 event, the three black
candidates made remarks that were clearly directed at him.

“There
are candidates here who have been rooted in the community,” said Chris
Owens, the son of Major Owens, during his closing remarks. “I’m
somebody who lives here.”

During their
opening remarks, state Senator Carl Andrews and City Councilwoman
Yvette Clarke both noted that they also were born and raised in the
district.

“As a state senator, I
believe I’ve done a good job of representing the constituents of the
20th senatorial district,” said Andrews who has held his seat for 14
years.

With the four largely in
agreement on many issues, including those of import to the queer
community, the candidates each emphasized things they had achieved for
the New York City and the gay community while also putting forward
their progressive credentials.

Clarke,
who has been in the City Council for just under five years, noted her
support for city money to battle methamphetamine and her efforts on
behalf of queer kids.

“We created new
funding streams to open up new places in response to Covenant House’s
failure for LGBT youth,” said Clarke, regarding efforts to providing
shelter for homeless young people. Clarke is endorsed by the Stonewall
Democratic Club of New York City, a gay political group.

Yassky,
like Clarke also first elected in 2001, talked about his work battling
guns and violence. He attacked the Republican-controlled Congress.

“I
am running because I believe that this Congress is a disaster for us,
for this community, for this city, for this country,” he said during
the event held at Park Slope’s Montauk Club. “I am running for Congress
because I believe that I have a record of accomplishment, of
achievement.”

Owens, who briefly served on a community school board, focused his opening remarks on the Iraq war and its impact on America.

“The
greatest challenge we face today as a nation is the Iraq War,” said
Owens who is endorsed by LID and Assemblywoman Deborah Glick, an out
lesbian who represents the West Village. “We cannot deal with
healthcare, we cannot deal with housing… So many of our resources are
being drained by this war.”

Andrews said that healthcare and housing were suffering and took a poke at President George W. Bush.

“This
administration has declared war on the middle class, the working
class,” he said. “The war we should be fighting is the war on poverty.”

The sole major disagreement among the
four is the Atlantic Yards, a major and controversial development
project that is slated for downtown Brooklyn near the terminus of the
Long Island Railroad at Flatbush Avenue. Only Owens opposes the
project, which has pitted those fearing the enormous scope of the
development against Brooklynites eager for the jobs the project will
generate and the building of a stadium for the Nets, a pro basketball
team currently in New Jersey.

The event
drew roughly 50 people and was sponsored by LID, Stonewall, the Out
People of Color Political Action Club, a citywide group, and the Human
Rights Campaign, the nation’s largest gay lobbying organization.

TWO YEARS AGO IN OTBKB: INNER PIPPI

In Fall of 2004, OSFO was enjoying Pippi Longstocking at bedtime. In honor of OTBKB’s second anniversary, here is Inner Pippi.

Smartmom, OSFO, and Teen Spirit (listening in from the other room) are
reading "Pippi Longstocking" at bedtime. Smartmom had forgotten just
how kooky a character she is. But what a winner.

Written in
1950 by the Swedish author, Astrid Lindgren, "Pippi" is the tale of a
9-year-old girl with bright red pigtails who lives all by herself in a
house called Villa Villakulla. Her mother and father are nowhere in
sight and she can do pretty much as she pleases. "Once upon a time
Pippi had had a father of whom she was extremely fond," writes
Lindgren. "Naturally she had a mother too, but that was so long ago
that Pippi didn’t remember her at all."

Pippi’s dad is a sea
captain who is now living on an island of cannibals. "’My papa is a
cannibal king, isn’t every child who has such a stylish papa,’ Pippi
used to say with satisfaction."

Like so many famous children’s
books the author conveniently banishes the parents right from the
beginning. With a dead mama and a papa far away, Pippi is one free
little girl

Living by herself in a small Swedish town, Pippi
causes quite a stir. She’s traveled the world on her father’s ship and
has experienced more than most people twice her age. And what a mouth
on her — she always says exactly what she’s thinking. She has never
gone to school, lives with a monkey named, Mr. Nilson, drinks coffee,
makes exotic Swedish cookies and entertains her very conventional next
door neighbors, Tommy and Anneka, with her outrageous antics, including
lifting up her horse with one hand.

You get the picture.

As
you can imagine, OSFO just loves Pippi. It isn’t everyday that a
free-spirited anarchist is valorized this way. What kid doesn’t long
for the life of freedom that Pippi enjoys — no one to tell you what to
eat, when to do your homework, what time to go to bed, On the other
hand, it’s probably a little scary too. Kids are big talkers when it
comes to wanting complete freedom. "Freedom’s just another word for
nothing left to lose," and kids are secretly comforted by the rules and
routines of life just as they rail against them.

OSFO is a
roller-coaster of emotions as she listens to the book. She’s goes from
wide-eyed shock to exclamations of "Oh my God." There’s hysteria,
indignation, even pride as Pippi insults her teacher at school (the one
day she goes to give it a try), tells a pair of policemen to be on
their way, or feeds the kids next door copious amounts of coffee and
treats.

OSFO reveres Pippi (the Oh So Spunky One), whose love
of adventure, outrageousness and fun makes her a kindred spirit worth
emulating. OSFO dressed like Pippi for a dinner party the other night.
With mis-matched socks, a kooky jumper, big shoes and two braids in her
hair, OSFO was one adorable Pippi!

Who wouldn’t want to be
Pippi? Even Smartmom longs to indulge her inner Pippi. Call it a
mid-life miasma: Smartmom would love to say, "scram" to the
conventional world and dance to the beat of her very own drum set.
Everyone — kids and adults — needs a break from what’s expected of
them — the relentless rhythm of contemporary life.

Kids too
need a break from the rigors of contemporary childhood. And it’s
downright refreshing to read such an alternative vision of that
"magical" phase of life. Lindgren’s book portrays childhood as a time
of freedom and frivolity. How different from 2004 Park Slope. Here a
child’s life is all about school, homework and extra-curricular
activities. Kids are expected to be as driven as their parents. It’s as
if childhood is one long list of accomplishments to put on a college
application.

From birth, all eyes are on the dreaded
developmental growth chart. Is the baby lifting her head, rolling over,
crawling and walking on time? How about talking — if she’s not verbose
by the age of two, it’s off to the speech therapist. If the kid isn’t
reading and writing according to early acessments, it’s time to be
tutored and drilled. And afterschool and weekends, for God’s sake,
don’t be idle. Learn an instrument, take a dance class, play a team
sport. Nobody said it was going to be easy being raised by the Yuppie
generation, that’s for sure.

Whatever happened to riding bikes
or spending an afternoon transforming a refrigerator box into a house?
It’s not like this stuff doesn’t happen, but it doesn’t happen enough.
Childhood is pretty idyllic in Park Slope, but sometimes it’s not as
idyllic as it could be. Smartmom can see why OSFO’s eyes light up when
she hears about Pippi’s wild and carefree days.

That said,
Pippi can be rude, unpleasant, and not very P.C. Teen Spirit’s first
grade teacher was reading the book to her class years ago and
discovered that it’s actually a bit racist. As far as Smartmom knows,
"Pippi Longstocking" isn’t read in PS 321 classes anymore But those
brief "racist" passage can be quickly deleted at bedtime, letting the
book stand as a great portrait of a spunky and independent little girl.
She sure makes one feminist mom proud and puts a smile on OSFO’s face.

THE SPINSTERHOOD CHRONICLES

I am enjoying Little Light’s Spinsterhood Chronicles. This one made me laugh. Check out her blog: LAMENTS OF THE UNFINISHED.

On Spinsterhood – Part VII – Desperate Moments

UrbaneJ says it’s just hormonal that every guy I’ve run into lately somehow manages to pass my attraction meter. And yes, I didn’t say any guy, I said every guy.

So what if he’s 25, never reached the height I attained in the fifth grade and reminds me of the little brother I never had? He’s a good catch. He said he wanted to marry an artist – and he’s a Presbyterian.

Who cares if he’s a pasty, quasi Lemony-Snicket/Dickensian version of Jean-Luc Picard wrapped up in a wool coat in front of a gin and tonic? He’s just dark.

Sexuality questionable? He just knows how to dress well (except maybe the matching pockets/socks thing).

He’s 55? That’s okay – 55 is the new 35 so in reality he’s just a year older than me. And coming with a house gives him major points. And maybe he and my dad will have something in common. And I don’t mind being step-mother to someone my own age.

Pudgy, balding and neurotic? Not a problem (except when his friend tells me the guy’s "in love with me" (because apparently, none of us have left junior-high school) and said guy is still tip-toeing around me even after I indicated I would go out with him. Wuss. (I told the friend that I’m getting less interested by the minute)).

Doesn’t speak English? I have tutoring experience.

Runs away every time he sees me? That’s okay – the better to view his ass.

The creepy mailroom guy with half a tooth in his mouth? Okay, well I did say that if he were the last man on earth, I would have to kill him.

COUNTERFEIT TWENTIES

If you’re wondering why shopkeepers and others are scrutinizing your twenty dollar bills, here’s why.  This from New York 1.

The New York State Federation of Taxi Drivers says that livery cab
drivers in the Sunset Park and Bay Ridge sections have lost thousands
after getting fake twenty dollar bills from fares.

They say the counterfeiters take short, small-fare rides in their
cabs and then pay with the fake twenties, walking away with real money
in change.

Cabbies say the money looks and feels real, except the bills all share the same serial number.

Food stores and other businesses in the area also say they’ve been hit in the past week with numerous fake twenties.

YOU’RE VOTING ON TUESDAY, RIGHT?

Gowanus Lounge put this up on his site. Thanks, GL.

Check out the The Brooklyn Papers handy guide to the "primary election smackdown." It links to articles on all the key local races.

No Land Grab also offers up its endorsements–dividing candidates into "the good, the bad and the ugly"–and informational guides. Check them out here. NLG prefers Chris Owens in CD10, Charles Barron in CD11, in addition to Batson in the Assembly race and Montgomery
in the State Senate contest.

Whatever your point of view, be sure to get over to John Jay, PS 321, the church on 8th Street, or wherever you vote. Engaging in the democratic process is very important this year (as always).

Bake the Vote at PS 321 is always a fun stop on the way to voting at PS 321 — lots of impressive, homemade goodies.

TWO YEARS AGO IN OTBKB: THE SONG OF SUMMER ENDING

Two years ago, Smartmom was obviously feeling a tad blue. Back then, TS was on the cusp – just begining to morph into being a teenager. It was a tough time for SM: TS’s last year in middle school with high school on the horizon. She’s feeling much more cheerful now. He’s a different person now – bigger, wiser. While he is still in need of a great deal of supervision, he is  also beginning to grow into his teenage self nicely. Some things have changed: the Mojo is no more and OSFO and SM aren’t reading "Charlotte’s Web" anymore at bedtimes. We’ve moved on to other things.

Tonight at bedtime, Smartmom read couple of chapters of E.B. White’s
"Charlotte’s Web" to OSFO and Teen Spirit (he for the umpteenth time),
and was struck once again by this poetic and poignant passage at the
beginning of Chapter 15. "The
crickets sang in the grasses. They sang the song of summer’s ending, a
sad monotonous song. ‘Summer is over and gone,’ they sang. ‘Over and
gone, over and gone. Summer is dying, dying.
‘"

Unfortunately, we can’t hear the song of the crickets  in Park Slope. It’s possible that there are some crickets in Prospect Park or The Brooklyn Botanic Garden. But we can’t hear them above the hum of the neighbor’s air conditioners and the noisy traffic racing up Third Street.

Fact
is, we really don’t need crickets to tell us that summer has come to an
end. There are already too many reminders that its leisurely days have
been replaced by our action-packed, high-speed lives.

Ever
since Smartmom and family got back from their idyllic California farm
vacation in late August, summer has been, as E.B. White wrote, "over and gone, over and gone. Summer is dying, dying."

First
there was the Republican National Convention, which rocked the city
with an outpouring of anti-Bush, anti-war protests. Then came the
aniversary of September 11th, which has now become the official end of
summer for most New Yorkers in the way that it signifies the loss of
innocence that came with the terrorists, the rubble, and the mournful
white ash.

Then there was the start of school. Groan. The
children never look forward to getting back into the swing of things.
But it’s the parents who really dread the return to tension-filled
mornings, homework, and the other stresses of school life.

Still,
autumn is probably the most beautiful season in Park Slope. Slopesters
are blessed to have Frederick Law Olmstead’s magnificent park when
summer is changing into fall. And on the Slope’s tree-lined streets,
the multi-colored leaves mesh pontilistically with the brownstone, red
brick, limestone and stained glass of this 19th century neighborhood.

In
other ways too, the Slope welcomes the change of seasons. The stores on
Seventh Avenue are festooned with Halloween costumes, ghoulish make-up
and party decorations. And at the facing Korean markets on Garfield
Place, there are dueling pumpkins, gourds, and autumnal flower
arrangements.

But fall also brings with it the realization
that the children of Park Slope are growing up. Last year’s baby’s are
this year’s toddlers. Yesterday’s pre-schoolers are lining up at PS 321.
Elementary begets middle school And perhaps most shocking of all, an
inordinate number of the kids of Park Slope have become bona-fide
TEENAGERS.

Has anyone else noticed the huge crowds of just-hatched teens around The MojoPS 321.
As the mother of a 13-year-old, perhaps Smartmom is particularly
attuned to this age group. Consequently, she spends a prolific amount
of time spying on them fascinated as she is by their outfits (grunge
meets punk meets goth meets psychedelic); their habits (some are
smoking and it ain’t just tobacco); and their big-time ATTITUDE.

And
many of these Slope teens are, well, huge. Over the summer, the girls
became women and the boys became men. And it’s just so freaky. They
look like stretched-out versions of themselves as children. But, truly,
they are not children anymore. How quickly the years sped by. Just
yesterday they were being pushed around in McClaren strollers on
Seventh Avenue sipping from sippy cups and eating string cheese. How
did this happen?

As Joni Mitchell wrote,  "And the seasons, they go round and round…"

Fortunately
OSFO and Teen Spirit still enjoy lying in the big bed listening to
Smartmom read "Charlotte’s Web," a book that depicts a magical
childhood on a farm, a world away from 21st century Park Slope. They
love to hear the story of Fern, a girl who understands the language of
a pig, a spider and the other animals in the barn.

Smartmom
knows that OSFO and Teen Spirit won’t always want to read "Charlotte’s
Web" and that one day they too might be hanging out in front of The Mojo
(Teen Spirit is already growing out of the nest in some ways). But
Smartmom is so grateful for these bedtime readings, these loving
cuddles before sleep. She knows that Teen Spirit and OSFO will change
and grow. That’s the way it goes. Just not yet, please. Not yet.

TWO YEARS AGO IN OTBKB: THE LAUNDRY BABY

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Here’s another piece from 2004. We still use the Seriously Nice Equadorian Laundry. This week, like the week this piece was written, was one of those weeks when we had to beg Hepcat to bring the laundry over there because as Teen Spirit said, "I don’t have any clean jeans." Some things never change.

Smartmom and family finally had clean clothing today.

That sentence was not intended as a jab at Hepcat, whose job it is to take the laundry bag to THE SERIOUSLY NICE EQUADORIAN LAUNDRY on Sixth Avenue and Fifth Street. But it is a fact that the family was without their favorite clothing for too long.

You’re probably wondering why Smartmom and Hepcat don’t just do their own laundry in the laundry room in the basement of their apartment building, where there are plenty of perfectly functional coin-operated washing machines and dryers. And that, dear reader, would be an excellent question.

It all started back in ’91 when Teen Spirit was born. Smartmom worked full-time in Manhattan as a video producer. She would leave the apartment early in the morning and return after 7 p.m. It could be said that Smartmom never really mastered the work/family conumdrum. She loved her work (and her young family needed the income AND her health insurance plan). But she was miserable about the time away from her beautiful child. Laundry was one of the first household chores to go for two reasons: Smart Mama was exhausted and the time was better spent cherishing the bebe.

After the birth of OSFO in ’97, Smartmom switched to a more family-friendly career as a freelance writer with an office in Brooklyn.  But Smartmom was still loyal to THE SERIOUSLY NICE EQUADORIAN LAUNDRY, the very one immortalized in "Knuffle Bunny" a children’s book by Brookyn writer and cartoonist Mo Willems. Sending it there was a tough habit to break.

Y’know. If it ain’t broke don’t fix it. Every week, Smartmom, Hepcat, Teen Spirit, and OSFO fill the rattan hamper with their dirty clothes. Then, Hepcat stuffs the red laundry bag and takes it to the laundry. Ages ago, Hepcat christened the bag, The Laundry Baby, because he used to roll the thirty-pounder in OSFO’s McClaren stroller. But ever since the stroller broke more than three years ago, Hepcat has carried The Laundry Baby the two-and-a-half blocks looking like Atlas with the world on his back.

Over at THE SERIOUSLY NICE EQUADORIAN LAUNDRY, the family’s clothing is washed, cleaned, and FOLDED. And the fact that it is FOLDED is probably why Smartmom is so passionately devoted. That and the fact that the seriously nice Equadoiran family who own the place are like family now and the woman calls at 9 p.m. to say, "Laundry. Your husband, send him over to get laundry."

And while this has been the family’s laundry routine for the past 13 years, sometimes the process gets snagged. Smartmom tries not to be unpleasant, but often she has to, well, encourage Hepcat to carry The Laundry Baby to the laundry and back again. .

Sad to say, this week was one of those, "Will you please bring The Laundry Baby over to the laundry, already!" weeks. And finally, finally, Hepcat to around to doing it. And for that everyone was grateful.

BACK TO SCHOOL TOOLS AND BLUES

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OSFO’s first day of school went without a hitch. She said it was "a perfect day." Her teachers are lovely – two pretty young women with big, warm smiles What could be better

On the first day, the led the class in a team building activity that involved wrapping a team member like a mummy with toilet papers.

Now that was fun.

Best of all, an old friend from pre-school is in her class. They were best friends and classmates in kindergarten and first grade, too: together again after a two year hiatus.

Today OSFO’s teachers gave out a "Tool Kit for a Fabulous Year" which included a paper clip ("we need to stick together"), a rubber band ("to remind us to be flexible") a bandaid ("for the bumps along the way), an eraser ("everyone makes mistakes"), a Hershey’s Kiss ("a hug to remind us to be kind and gentle with one another"), a pen ("a wise person once said that the pen is mightier than the sword").

Don’t you love it.

The teachers are obviously very organized and they sent home lots of informative notes and forms.

So far so good for OSFO.

Today is Teen Spirit’s first day. That’s him pictured last year on his first day of high school. Now he begins tenth grade and will be dressed, according to his school’s dress code, in a white shirt, tie, black chinos, and suede lace ups. Will his lace up shoes even fit? He’s gotten so much bigger than last year. Nearly six feet tall.

All summer he’s been so nocturnal. I just hope we can rouse him to get to school on time. He went to bed early…

I think I’m going to give him "A Toolkit for a Fabulous Year" too with a paper clip ("we need to stick together"), a rubber band ("to remind
us to be flexible") a bandaid ("for the bumps along the way), an eraser
("everyone makes mistakes"), a Hershey’s Kiss ("a hug to remind us to
be kind and gentle with one another"), a pen ("a wise person once said
that the pen is mightier than the sword"). It works for a high schooler, too.

High hopes for the new school year, Teen Spirit. We love you.

WOULD HEPCAT GIVE SMARTMOM A KIDNEY?

Here’s this week’s Smartmom from the Brooklyn Papers.

A few years back, it seemed that a lot of couples were either getting divorced, thinking about separating, or in a real funk.

But something has changed: more of Smartmom’s friends are in
relationships that are stronger than ever. Even Hepcat and Smartmom —
after 17 years — are starting to get the hang of it.

Just last weekend, Smartmom, Hepcat and the Oh So Feisty One
attended a 10th anniversary jubilee for Dadu and Gluten-free. These
friends, who abandoned Prospect Heights for a humongous Victorian manse
upstate, home-school their kids, participate in a farm cooperative, and
have enough space to write, create art and make animated movies.

At their local Unitarian congregation, more than 100 nearest and
dearests heard the couple renew its vows and celebrate what has been a
remarkably successful and productive marriage.

Audience members were invited to light a candle and say a few words about the couple,

“I’ve liked them since I was two,” said the couple’s 7-year-old daughter.

“Marriage is a tricky game,” added a friend, a local carpenter.

“There is really a lot of love in your house,” said Gluten-Free’s brother, tearing up.

After the vows, the couple smooched, the Unitarian minister declared
them still married and the guests ate a gluten-free chocolate cake
replica of the Catskill Mountains with handmade figurines of the family
climbing upwards.

The beauty of the ceremony naturally made Smartmom wonder what her
friends and family would say if she and Hepcat renewed their vows:

“You guys seem to muddle along,” one might say.

“We thought you’d own a house by now,” Mrs. Kravitz would no-doubt taunt.

“Do you still fight as much as you used to?” another would say.

Back on Third Street, there is more evidence of strong marriages all
around Smartmom. A good neighbor recently underwent chemotherapy for
breast cancer and lost all of her hair. After the first chemo
treatments, Smartmom noticed that her husband had gone bald, too. But
he hadn’t lost his hair to chemo — he’d shaved his head in solidarity
with his beloved.

Smartmom was deeply moved by her neighbor’s gesture. But it left her
wondering: would Hepcat shave off his hair (what little is left of it)
if Smartmom lost hers?

Third Street provided yet one more example of marital stability. “In
sickness and in health” doesn’t even begin to describe the strength of
the Kravitz marriage.

When Mr. Kravitz’s kidneys malfunctioned, he was told by doctors
that he would have to be on dialysis for the rest of his life if he
couldn’t find a donor.

His father and his sister immediately volunteered, but his father
was too old and his sister, a smoker for many years, was deemed not
healthy enough.

Then, Mrs. Kravitz, his wife of 11 years and the mother of his two
children, came forward. It turned out that she was the ideal candidate:
a perfect match in excellent physical condition.

In the weeks preceding the transplant, Mrs. Kravitz underwent a
battery of tests (including psychological evaluation). She passed with
flying colors and was good to go.

On twin gurneys, they were wheeled into adjacent operating rooms.
Mrs. Kravitz’s kidney was removed first and ferried next door. The
doctors didn’t even take out Mr. Kravitz’s other kidneys; he now has
three.

With each passing day, he’s feeling stronger and better. He can work from home now and take walks to ConnMuffCo for iced coffee.

Loving. Brave. Romantic. It’s hard to find the right words to describe Mr. and Mrs. Kravitz.

Again, all this love got Smartmom to thinking: Would Hepcat would
give up a kidney for her? For that matter, would she give a kidney to
him?

In both cases, she knew the answer — but just hoped that she would be as brave as Mrs. Kravitz if it ever came to that.

Given all the love in the air, Smartmom recently asked Hepcat if he
would want to have a vow-renewal ceremony on their 20th anniversary.

Clearly, he was uncomfortable. After much groaning and a look of
complete and utter distress, he said, “I think we’re doing pretty well
without that.” And in an exasperated falsetto he added, “Do you really
want one?”

At this, he pulled her close and hugged her against his sweaty black T-shirt.

She had her answer. Every day is a renewal of their marriage vows.
Making breakfast. Shopping at the Food Coop. Attending Teen Spirit’s
rock ’n’ roll gigs at Liberty Heights Tap Room. Bi-weekly couples
therapy. Ordering pizza from Pino’s.

In sickness and in health. And if they could just remember their
vows, they might even say them to each other every now and again.

 

UNLIKELY FRIENDS

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This week’s Village Voice has a really interesting story by Bernice Yeung about Phyllis Rodriguez, who lost her son at the World Trade Center and her unlikely friendship with Aicha
el-Wafi, the mother of Zacarias Moussaoui. The photo of the two of them pictured right is by Yeung. Here’s an excerpt:

  The Rodriguezes’ mementos of Greg are subtle but
omnipresent. On their right wrists, both Rodriguez and her husband wear
silver bracelets engraved with Greg’s name, a parting gift, of sorts,
from Cantor Fitzgerald. Photos of Greg posing on a hiking trail or in a
snowy forest are arranged in the study and on the refrigerators of both
their White Plains home and their summer retreat.

And in nearly equal number, there are pictures of Aicha
el-Wafi: one tacked to the refrigerator, a framed photo on a bookshelf,
a snapshot of the two women together in New York that serves as the
background to Rodriguez’s computer screen.

The photos of Greg can be harder to look at for Phyllis
Rodriguez. In contrast, the photos of el-Wafi are like a shield from
grief, a reminder that Rodriguez has tried, in the name of her son, to
always do better and to push the limits of grace and generosity.

"How do you accept death when you don’t believe there’s a
heaven or an afterlife?" Rodriguez says. "It’s a fact of life. It’s an
end. It’s a loss. The only thing I feel I can do is to not succumb to
the tragedy and define myself through it and always be the long-suffering
mother. The loss will always be there. But I’m not miserable. As a
matter of fact, the more good I can do that can come out of it, the
better: by helping Aicha, by speaking out for more understanding
between people, by trying to understand what makes people who do
extremist acts arrive at that point. What can we do to eliminate some
of the conditions that make people so angry?"

ANYONE WANNA GO APPLE PICKING?

A woman on Park Slope Parents was nice enough to compile a list of apple and pumpkin picking places in the metropolitan area. Take a look. There’s a whole lotta apple pickin’ out there.  Excuse the weird formatting. I cut and pasted this right off of Park Slope Parents.

Apple Hill Farm

141 Rte 32 South, New Paltz, NY, Ulster County
845.255.0917
applehillfarm.com
Apple Hill Farm overlooks the Shawangunk and Catskill Mountains. Stop
by the
restored 1859 barn full of homegrown quality fruit; enjoy a hayride,
get fresh
pressed apple cider and apple cider donuts. Pick your own pumpkins and
gourds
right from the patch, or off their many displays around the farmstand.

Applewood Orchards and Winery

82 Four Corners Rd., Warwick, NY, Orange County
845.986.1684
applewoodorchards.com
Within an hour of the city, this farm has the usual apple (seven
varieties) and
pumpkin pickings, wagon rides and puppet shows, but also boasts its own
winery.

Dykeman’s Farm

231 West Dover Road, Pawling, Dutchess County
845.832.6068
www.bestcorn.com
Take a hayride into the pumpkin fields and pick from a large selection.
Door
prizes, refreshments and face painting.

Wilkens Fruit and Fir Farm

1313 White Hill Road, Yorktown Heights, NY, Westchester County
914.245.5111
www.wilkensfarm.com
A wide variety of apples and pumpkins are available—all of which you
can pick
yourself. Two farm markets sell everything from cider to freshly baked
pies and
doughnuts. Go back in a couple of months to pick your own Christmas
tree!

For more on New York pick-your-own farms and apple festivals, go to
nyapplecountry.com.

Abma’s Farm

700 Lawlin’s Road, Wyckoff, NJ
201.891.0278
www.abmasfarm.com
Only 30 minutes from the George Washington Bridge, this farm offers a
small
petting zoo, pony rides, and hayrides to a large pumpkin patch. Stop by
their
unique 1700’s barn where they sell fresh produce, eggs, poultry and
specialty
products.

Silverman’s Farm

451 Sport Hill Road, Easton, CT, Fairfield County
203.261.3306
www.silvermansfarm.com
Find a pumpkin patch full of 20 different varieties and fall squashes,
gourds,
sunflowers, straw bales, cornstalks, scarecrows and mums. Watch as
fresh apples
are pressed into cider at their cider mill. Petting farm includes
buffalo,
llamas, sheep, goats, fallow deer, emus, longhorn cattle, pigs and
exotic birds.
The farm market offers 18 varieties of freshly baked pies, New England
farm-style preserves, jams, jellies, honeys and syrups.

Terhune Orchard

located in Princeton, New Jersey
(terhuneorchards.com).
They are
opened year round, but I suspect their biggest month is October. They
have
berry picking
throughout the summer as well as apple picking and pumpkin picking in
October. You can get a variety of apple products there as well as picnic
lunch, candy/caramel apples, and pumpkin ice cream sandwiches. Toddler
friendly activities include:
Hay Ride
Pumpkin Patch Ride
Area for riding toddler sized John Deere’s
Large tractors to sit on
Feeding geese and chickens/roosters
Seeing sheep, a goat, a rabbit, and a donkey
Pony Rides
Painting Pumpkins
Photo ops in pictures of animals with the faces cut out
Local country band

I think all of the activities are free too aside from paying 10 cents
for a handful of corn to feed the animals and buying the produce, food, and
products. Perhaps I’m just too used to consumerism or am just
inexperienced with orchard activity life, but I was so pleasantly surprised with
the lack of a cover charge or having to pay for the various activities.

Demarest Farm (www.demarestfarms.com) in NJ.

It was fairly easy to get to (probably took a little
longer
than to drive to the Bronx Zoo), they have a Hamptons-esque deli and
BBQ which
offered lots of eating options, as well as an ice cream stand, hay maze
and
bounce house for the kids. There was a tractor-pulled hayride to the
orchard
and you can pick other fruits and vegetables as well (incl. pumpkins,
although
the official season begins next month). I understand it gets pretty
crowded as
the season kicks into gear, though. All-in-all, though, it was a
pleasant way
to spend the day outdoors.

Outhouse Orchard in Westchester County

Despite the unappealing name, it was a GREAT place and only about a 70
minute drive from Park Slope. They had apple picking — right now is
good time for MacIntosh apples, but they also had some pears. They have some
trees with very low branches, so little kids can reach them. They also
have a hay ride, farm animals, and a little mini-playground for kids,
and a store with delicious produce, pumpkins, maple butter, apple-related
products, etc.

I don’t have the phone number on me right now, but it’s Outhouse
Orchard on Hardscrabble Road in Croton Falls, NY. If you Google it, I think they
have
a website. Have fun!

Wightman’s Farms in NJ

for hay rides and
other fruits (including pumpkins) you can pick.

Also-an excellent farm stand with cider and
donuts, preserves, etc..

In the fall they have a corn maze and a
small hay maze for the kids. They also have picnic tables around if
you want to hang around and eat something there:

http://www.wightmansfarms.com/

WHAT A GUY

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That Dope on the Slope is such an interesting guy. When he’s not looking for bats in Prospect Park, preparing paella, or creating a power point presentation about the history of blogging from cave drawings on forward, he’s on location in Houston….

What to do when you’re stuck in a motel in the middle of a bunch of strip malls next to a golf course?

Walk around the edge of the golf course near the water hazards and
see if there are any quarry for your macro lens. I found plenty of
interesting vertebrates and invertebrates, including fish, turtles,
anoles, and the green tree frog (Hyla cinerea) pictured below.

MISSED CONNECTIONS AT TEA LOUNGE

So this is what really goes on at the Park Slope Tea Lounges. Sez Brooklyn Record: people make eyes at each other over their laptops and then post a Missed Connections on Craig’s List.

And you thought it was all about Jennifer Connolly sightings and babies. By the way, all of the following posts have expired. Tea Lounge has a new outpost on Court Street near the corner of Kane Street.

Sep- 5   You were sitting outside Tea Lounge on 8th Street… – m4m – 35 (Park Slope)

Sep- 4   MC with a cool place to read…

Aug-16   Tea Lounge, Union St., blonde barista – m4w – 36 (Park Slope)

Aug- 8   ghetto white boy at tea lounge – 19 (tea lounge in park slope)

Aug- 7   Sunday around 10pm, red t-shirt at Tea Lounge – w4m – 25 (7th Ave Park Slope)

Aug- 6   you: beautiful, writing a screenplay about a challenged hasid – 31 (Park Slope)

MISSED OPPORTUNITY

Oh how things have changed since 9/11. The world’s love and sorrow rained down on us after  9/11. It was q healing and beautiful show of unity. Then the Bush administration and our depressing quagmire in Iraq made us the most reviled nation in the world. What a lost opportunity. A tragedy, whose outcome we don’t even know. Here is the opening of Hendrik Hertzberg’s "Talk of the Town" in the 9.11.06 issue of the New Yorker.

After the calamity that glided down upon us out of a clear blue sky on the morning of Tuesday, September 11, 2001—five short years ago, five long years ago—a single source of solace emerged amid the dread and grief: a great upwelling of simple solidarity. Here in New York, and in similarly bereaved Washington, that solidarity took homely forms. Strangers connected as friends; volunteers appeared from everywhere; political and civic leaders of all parties and persuasions stood together, united in sorrow and defiance. In certain regions of the country, New York had been regarded (and resented) as somehow not quite part of America; that conceit, not shared by the terrorists, vanished in the fire and dust of the Twin Towers. The reconciliation was mutual. In SoHo and the Upper West Side, in the Village and the Bronx, sidewalk crowds cheered every flag-bedecked fire engine, and the Stars and Stripes sprouted from apartment windows all over town. New York, always suspect as the nation’s polyglot-plutocratic portal, was now its battered, bloody shield.

The wider counterpart to our traumatized togetherness at home was an astonishing burst abroad of what can only be called pro-Americanism. Messages of solidarity and indignation came from Libya and Syria as well as from Germany and Israel; flowers and funeral wreaths piled up in front of American Embassies from London to Beijing; flags flew at half-staff across Europe; in Iran, a candlelight vigil expressed sympathy. “Any remnants of neutrality thinking, of our traditional balancing act, have gone out of the window now,” a Swedish political scientist told Reuters.

TWO YEARS AGO IN OTBKB: ZUZU’S PETALS

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In honor of the second anniversary of OTBKB, here’s another post from two years ago. This one from September 23rd 2004, just weeks after Zuzu’s Petals Seventh Avenue store burned down. Two years later, Zuzu’s Petals is back in business on Fifth Avenue and on Berkeley Place. Lorraine and Fonda learned how beloved they are in this community when Park Slope came to their aid after the fire. A key angel/helper at that time was Jackie Connors, who died in the past year. She was on the scene within hours of the fire and helped out every way that she could. The corner of President Street and Seventh Avenue has been officially named Jackie Connor’s Corner. (picture of the new Zuzu’s Petals on Fifth Avenue by Frank Lynch from Flickr).

On the way home from the office, Smartmom spotted Lorraine, the exotic
looking woman wth reddish hair from ZUZU’s PETALS selling
flowers and potted mums in front of BLUE APRON on Union Street, the insanely good gourmet shop. As everyone probably
knows, there was a terrible fire in the kitchen of OLIVE VINE on
Seventh Avenue that spread to the Korean market on one side and to the
beloved ZUZU’s PETALS on the other. Smartmom has heard rumors that
ZUZU’s Minabird died in the fire. Fortunately, her dog, Bear, was at
home at the time of the fire and is doing just fine.

The gate
in front of ZUZU’s burned-out storefront is full of heartfelt notes to
Zuzu from loyal Park Slope customers and a very touching note by Zuzu
herself written just after she found out that her store, which has been
in existence for over 30 years, had been destroyed by fire.

Smartmom
bought a gorgeous bouquet of blue delphiniums and chartreuse roses and
felt like she was doing a good deed spending TOO MUCH on flowers, to
support ZUZU’S PETALS. Great news: Zuzu has found a new location on
Fifth Avenue between Fifth and Sixth Street where she will continue to
feature the most beautiful (and overpriced) flowers and plantings this
side of Flatbush. Turns out Zuzu is NOT the owner of ZUZU’S PETALS. The
owner’s name is Fonda and Smartmom isn’t even sure what she looks like.
Zuzu gave Smartmom a big hug and said, "You should know better than to
think that the person who’s in the store all the time is the owner!"

–OTBKB, September 23, 2004

Continue reading TWO YEARS AGO IN OTBKB: ZUZU’S PETALS

ARTISTS NEEDED FOR LOCAL CITY HOUSING PROJECT

A friend who is director of a local after school program in a city housing project is looking for ideas for programming to bring into the center for kids age 6-12 in the afternoon and teenagers in the evening.

She’s looking for performing arts groups, troupes, bands, etc. to perform, as well as artists who can provide hands on experience with the following: music, art, film, writing, poetry, dance, gardening and more.

The program has NO MONEY. If you know anything about fundraising, that could be helpful, too.

If anyone is affiliated with a performance group or an interesting arts organization of any kind that might be of interest to kids and teens please let me know. You can contact me by email (louise_crawford@yahoo.com) or post as a comment on OTBKB.

THE NEW YORKER’S WHITE COVER

Remember the black cover of the New Yorker that came out the week after 9/11 (it is dated September 24, 2001).

That cover, titled 9/11/01, by Art Spigelman was so moving. I hold it in my hand as I write this. If you hold it to the light you can see the after image of two towers.

I am so glad to have this issue in my collection of 9/11 books on the bookshelf in the dining room. So grateful to have saved this piece of New York history and by extension my history; I remember reading it on the day it arrived in our mailbox.

As I leaf through the magazine, I find it hard to believe there was even a "Goings On About Town" section. There were theater openings, movies, opera, art exhibitions, and other events. How was that possible? Did anyone go? Did life really "move on" so quickly.

As I remember it, we stood still for months afterward—frozen in fear, grief and incredulity. But the truth is we did do things. The kids went to school. We attended a Yom Kippur service in a Ft. Greene Church. Mostly we huddled together with our family and friends.

I am looking now at the miraculous Talk of the Town section, where a collection of writers (Hertzberg, Updike, Frantzen, Johnson, Angell, Appelfield, Rebecca Mead, Sontag, Antrim) wrote  hurried, dazed reactions to the events.

What could anyone really say? And yet there was so much to say.

John Updike wrote: "

Suddenly summoned to witness something great and horrendous we keep fighting not to reduce it to our own smallness. From the viewpoint of a tenth-floor apartment in Brooklyn Heights, where I happened to be visiting, the destruction of the twin towers had the false intimacy of televison, on a day of perfect reception.

Susan’s Sontag’s sharp words were painful to read on that week. We were tender,  vulnerable in a way we’d never known (our city, our country, ourselves) Nearly 3000 of our fellow New Yorkers were dead and the city was hurting deeply. I knew there was truth to what she had to say but it pierced, it hurt along with everything else. Yet, her insight and intelligence were a vital part of that week, too.

"The disconnect between last Tuesday’s monstrous dose of reality and the outright deceptions being peddled by public figures and TV comentators is startling, depressing. The voices licensed to follow the event seem to have joined together in a campaign to infantalize the public. Where is the acknowlegement that this was not a "cowardly" attack on "civilization" or liberty or "humanity" or "the free world" but an attack on the world’s self-proclaimed super power, undertaken as a consequence of specific American alliances and actions? "

Adam Gopik wrote;

"On the beautiful morning of the day they did it, the city was as beautiful as it had ever been. Central Park had never seemed so gleaming and luxuriant—the leaves just beginning to fall, and the light on the leaves left on the trees somehow making them at once golden and bright green…

"Our Lady of the Suways, New York as it is. It is the symbolic city that draws us here, and the real city that keeps us here. It seems hard but important to believe that that city will go on, because we now know what it would be like to lose it, and it feels like losing life itself."

For the fifth Anniversary issue, dated Monday September 11, 2006, there is a white cover with a tightrope figure (it is, of course, Phillipe Petit, who walked from one tower to the other in the late 1970’s) walking across a white landscape.

There is also, for the first time ever, another cover underneath the white one. The under-cover shows the tightrope figure walking on an invisible rope above lower Manhattan. We see the Brooklyn and Manhattan Bridges and many buildings. But on the ground there are the footprint of the missing World Trade Center.

Side by side, the 2001 and the 2006 covers tell a story. I don’t know what it is. And that’s okay.

SANITATION WORKER/HERO KILLED

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This sad story from Crown Heights. A sanitation worker who caught a 4-year-old girl last year as she was thrown to safety from a burning building was shot in the head and killed early yesterday on a Brooklyn street, the police said. This is from the NY Times. ( John Marshall Mantel took the picture of Allen’s shoes for the New York Times).

Damon Allen, 33, was once again trying to help others, the police and witnesses said, urging them to take cover from the crossfire of a gun battle that erupted around 2 a.m. in Crown Heights.

In homes and on streets across the neighborhood, thousands of revelers, some in costume, some playing steel drums, were celebrating J’ouvert, a celebration held every year on the eve of the West Indian American Day Carnival Parade.

“Nearly one year ago, Damon Allen was the city’s hero for saving the life of a little girl,” Mayor Michael R. Bloomberg said to reporters at the parade yesterday. “Today he lies dead, the victim of an apparent random shooting.”

OTBKB’s FIRST BLOG POST

I see that September 18th was the day I started the original Only the Blog Knows Brooklyn. It was a Saturday. The writing was very chatty, very ‘what I did today’ at first. I didn’t know what it was going to Morph into. I see that I was already using Teen Spirit and Smartmom. Hepcat’s full name was Hepcat Daddy-O back then. I don’t know why I thought anyone would be interested in what I did on a busy Saturday. But I was finding my way. We started No Words_Daily Pix few weeks later. So September 18th is OTBKB’s official anniversary. I’ll be running these old posts leading up to the big day…

This morning, Smartmom took care of some recent "kitchen problems." The
old man who fixes stoves came by to fix the oven which hasn’t been
working in weeks. Later, the cheerful exterminator stopped by. Smartmom
told him about the wheat moth problem but he said there’s nothing he
can do about it — he specializes in roaches and mice. "You got to go
to the sauce," he said. Smartmom thought he meant that there was some
sauce that is especially delicious to wheat moths. Actually, he was
saying THE SOURCE in thick Brooklynese and pointed to a box of rice,
and other boxes of grains. "If you see nests in there, they gotta go in
the garbage," he said. Note: Smartmom had already thrown out ALL open
boxes of grain and had emptied and scrubbed the cabinet. She’s also
using Pantry Pest traps bought at the PARK SLOPE FOOD COOP.

Speaking
of unpleasant insects, a downstairs neighbor came up to say that his
son has Lice and that the 7-year-old Oh So Feisty One, may have it too
because she played with his son the other day. Oh Joy. "Have you been
physical with Zack downstairs?" Smartmom asked the Oh So Feisty One.
"Not really," she answered, "But he did put his fingers through my
hair." Yeesh. Smartmom and the Oh So Feisty One may be takin’ EASTERN
CAR SERVICE to see the go-to Orthodox Jewish lady in Boro Park with 10
children who is NYC’s de-facto lice expert—she’s even been profiled in
THE NEW YORKER. Now how’s that for credentials?

The Oh So Feisty
One and 13 year old Teen Spirit (TS), managed to get along so well
today that Teen Spirit actually invited her to join him on a trip to
7th Avenue. That meant big fun: reading Manja books at Barnes and
Noble, eating glazed donuts at the MOJO CAFE, browsing video games at
Game Stop and looking for the latest Bare Naked Ladies at SOUND TRACK
(only local stores get all caps. Not mega brands.)

Meanwhile,
Smartmom raced to get her eyes checked at VISIONS on Lincoln Place. The
optometrist thinks her middle vision is going a bit. But he’s not sure
if she needs to start wearing corrective lenses and told her to think
about it. Huh? Smartmom had a quick lunch at OSHIMA, the tasty sushi
place on 7th Avenue between Berkeley and Lincoln that used to be a Zen
Palatte type of place. The new owners are super friendly—they have an
adorable little boy who hangs out there most days when he is not at
school.

Hepcat Daddy met Smartmom at OSHIMA on his way to
VISIONS, thoughtfully schlepping out in the rain to get TS’s broken eye
glasses fixed (because Smartmom forgot to bring them and TS says he’s
blind without them.) Hepcat Daddy-o didn’t bother to tell Smartmom that
her eyes had huge brown and yellow circles around them from the eye
drops the optometrist put in there. Oh well. The nice Japanese people
didn’t say anything either. More on that later.

After VISIONS,
Smartmom and Hepcat Daddy-o stopped at the COMMUNITY BOOKSTORE which
smelled of clove incense. Hepcat Daddy-o skimmed Art Spiegelman’s new
"In the Shawdow of No Towers," and Smartmom bought a a book by poet
Louise Gluck. She stepped on the owner’s dog, who was sleeping in the
fiction aisle. Love the homey feeling in that bookstore. CYNTHIA OZICK
will be doing a reading there on October 19th.

Smartmom picked
up a bottle of Merlot at SHAWNS, the liquor store on 7th between
Garfield and Carroll. The blue haired girl who works behind the counter
wasn’t there today. Smartmom ran into a neighbor from the building next
store who said, "What did you do to your eyes?’ The neighbor looked
truly alarmed.

Smartmom explained.

The Oh So Feisty One
(OSFO) and TS were already back from their 7th Avenue sojourn when
Smartmom got him home. He: finishing the Ramen noodle soup he prepared
for himself (and spilled all over the kitchen) She: listening to a CD
of her favorite music that Teen Spirit created for her this morning.
B-52’s Rock Lobster, Simon and Garfunkel’s Mrs. Robinson, and the
Ramones are the high points. Dance Dance Revolution and Hilary Duff are
there too. After a bit, OSFO and TS decided to hit Seventh Avenue again
which gave Smartmom time to read her first subscription copy of THE
NATION. She also had the wherewithal to take a nap.

She ain’t Smartmom for nothing.

TS,
OSFO, and Best Buddy (TF’s best friend) are in TS’s tiny bedroom being
rambuctious. Grumpy Hepcat Daddy-o is cooking up some Italian turkey
sausage from the COOP and making a delicious spaghetti dinner (recipe
to come). Hepcat Daddy-o has never gotten used to the elevated sound
level of children. Just a minute ago, TS went out again to PARK SLOPE
BOOKS around the corner looking for a used art book with a picture of
"The Last Supper" in it—he’s reading "The Da Vinci Code." We should
have a picture of "The Last Supper" around here. Yeesh.

DDDB URGING PUBLIC NOT TO ATTEND PUBLIC HEARING

Just got this PRESS RELEASE from Develop Don’t Destroy urging the public NOT TO ATTEND HEARING BUT TO PARTICIPATE IN THE ELECTORAL PROCESS.

BROOKLYN, NY—Develop Don’t Destroy Brooklyn (DDDB) calls on the public to engage in the primary day electoral process and skip an Empire State Development Corporation (ESDC) hearing on Forest City Ratner’s "Atlantic Yards" scheduled for the same September 12th date.

First the ESDC gave only 66 days for public response to the 4,000-page "Atlantic Yards"Draft Environmental Impact Study (DEIS).  Then the ESDC "ran" a public hearing on August 23rd that was a fiasco from any vantage point. That hearing was so poorly run that after eight hours only 100 people out of 500 wishing to speak were able to do so. With about 400 speakers left to speak the ESDC continues to schedule only four hours for its hearings.

"We urge and encourage the public not to go to the September 12th ESDC ‘Atlantic Yards’ hearing but rather engage in the political process as voters, campaign and poll workers," said DDDB spokesperson Daniel Goldstein. "The ESDC’s scheduling of a public hearing on primary day is just the latest in a series of insults to the public by the public agency that views itself as Forest City Ratner’s partner. It is unacceptable for the State of New York to schedule an important public hearing on the largest single-source development proposal in the history of New York City coinciding with primary day. It is especially unacceptable and unconscionable considering that the last hearing required an eight hour commitment just to have a chance to testify. We’ve asked the ESDC to change the problematic hearing date but they have not budged."

The 66 day timeframe for public response to the "Atlantic Yards" DEIS is about half of the time given to the much smaller Yankee Stadium plan.

"Rather than giving up the electoral process for a fiasco of a hearing, we do strongly encourage and urge the public to attend the ESDC hearing scheduled for September 18th. And of course the public should submit written comment up to the current September 29th deadline," Goldstein concluded.

WEST INDIES PARADE ON EASTERN PARKWAY

This from NY1 about the annual West Indian American Carnival on Monday. You can bet there are going to be a lot of pictures or links to pictures at Brooklinks at Gowanus Lounge

Millions lined up along Eastern Parkway in Brooklyn Monday for the annual West Indian Labor Day parade.

Crowds waved flags from nations across the Caribbean, enjoying the sounds of reggae and calypso.

The festivities mark the 39th year of the West Indian American
Carnival, which honors the more than two million Caribbean-Americans in
New York.

"It means so much to us, and I’m American, but it’s like freedom
for a day," said one parade-goer. "Everybody’s happy, everybody’s one
accord."

"Oh, it’s great being on the Parkway; it’s real nice," added
another. "It’s fun to see a lot of people and the music is great. You
get to dance, you know have a good time."

This year’s parade paid homage to victims of Hurricane Katrina.

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