THE BOOB ON POETRY FRESH DAILY

Michele Madigan Somerville’s poem "The Boob" is on her website, Poetry Fresh Daily, today. Check it out.

Last spring, she read this epic poetic marvel at Brooklyn Reading Work’s Edgy Mother’s Day event and it was a big hit.  Here’s a short excerpt:

After 6 weeks they latched on and became
tiny Falstaffs, quaffing, slugging
and slurping like happy baby hogs,
nursing incessantly and in tandem,
often holding hands as they drank and dozed,
capitalizing on the bottomless amplitude
of supply and demand, bellying up to the Milk Bar
whenever the desire struck.  We didn’t care
who saw or what anyone had to say.
When the kids reached for their sustenance in a cup
it was the rayon, nylon and spandex blend
of a black 36 D underwire demi trimmed
with scalloped lace called “Emma.”
Guys noticing either thought it was hot, or a threat, or both.

PEAK AND OFF-PEAK FARES FOR MTA PROPOSED

This from New York 1:

MTA officials on Monday unveiled plans for their proposed fare hike,
including one scenario that sounded a lot like congestion pricing for
transit riders.

"The policy objective here is to try to spread the peak by getting
riders that have some flexibility in their schedule to shift,” said MTA
Chief Operating Officer Susan Kupferman of the proposal to raise fares
on the city’s subways and buses.

Under the plan, which was one of two options proposed, the cost of
a single ride would go up to $2.25. But by putting a minimum of $6 on a
MetroCard, straphangers could still ride for a discounted rate of $2 at
peak hours and an off-peak rate of $1.50.

NO SHUSHING AT BROOKYN PUBLIC LIBRARY

This from the Daily News:

That’s because recently-appointed Brooklyn Public Library Executive
Director Dionne Mack-Harvin views libraries as community centers –
places where people are expected to talk to each other, not sit in
silence.

Mack-Harvin is so determined to end the shushing that librarians
from all 60 branches have been attending training sessions to get the
word out about her approach.

"We’ve moved away from what some consider the ‘shushing library’
model of the past, from being a sterile, educational place that’s
somewhat elitist," she said, "to being a community space where everyone
walking in the door can find a place for themselves."

Mack-Harvin’s no-shushing policy will be further backed up next
Sunday with the opening of a new auditorium at the Central Library.
With seats for 200, the auditorium will host performers from the Big
Apple Circus as its opener.

THIS SUNDAY: BROOKLYN BLOGADE IN BED-STUY

Bed-Stuy Blog has ALL THE INFO about this Blogger meet-up in Bed Stuy on Sunday September 30th at 1 p.m. She’s organizing it and it should be a great opportunity to eat in and explore Bed Stuy with a bunch of Brooklyn bloggers.

If you’re a blogger, or thinking about becoming one, join us at our monthly gathering at the French African restaurant, Le Toukouleur. You’ll get a chance to enjoy wonderful food and great company in the largest neighborhood in Brooklyn. Spouses and significant others are welcome! Meet and mingle with the cool folks who blog all over our borough. Please RSVP

Come spend the afternoon in Bed-Stuy and experience the many personalities of the neighborhood. You can take a walk along the southern section of the neighborhood with its beautiful brownstones and gorgeous architecture or you can soak up the industrial, ever-changing landscape of the northern part of the neighborhood.

You’ll find that there’s no other Brooklyn neighborhood quite like it!
Sunday, September 30th
1:00 p.m.
Le Toukouleur Restaurant
1116 Bedford Avenue @ Quincy Street
Bedford-Stuyvesant, Brooklyn
Cost: $10 per person

To RSVP: Please send an email to thechangeling@bedstuyblog.com with your brunch selection (Menu is on bedstuyblog.com) and the number of people you are bringing (and their brunch selections too).

OR you can post your RSVP in the comments.

THE WISDOM OF WEIGHT WATCHERS

Weight Watcher’s meetings are the coolest. There is so much wisdom in a room of people who have struggled with weight their whole lives. There is also pain, anger, disappointment and hope. You wouldn’t be at a meeting if you didn’t have hope and motivation to improve your predicament.

The meetings are about so much more than numbers on a scale. They’re about the meaning of food in your life, self-esteem, goals, getting in shape physically and emotionally.

I am so inspired when I look around at the diverse group of people that show up at that meeting. All colors, shapes and sizes, the people speak their minds honestly and openly because they feel very safe and comfortable there.

Yesterday’s meeting was especially verbose. A lot of people spoke; a lot of interesting things were said. Here’s a sampling.

“I have begun to think of food as a very high interest credit card.”

“I don’t have to eat every meal like it is my last. It’s not like I’m on death row.”

“I don’t look in the mirror and say I’m a fat pig anymore.”

“I learned from a friend who is a food critic. You only tase the first three bites.”

To which the leader added: “The first bite is good. The second is decadent. The third is enough. You no longer need to eat the whole thing.”

Some people begged to differ. But it’s an interesting idea.

As for me, I’ve lost 13 pounds since June. Next week I hope to receive my 3rd 5-pound star. The meetings keep me motivated and give me something to aim for.

There are Weight Watcher meetings on Saturday and Sunday mornings at the Montauk Club (8th Avenue at the corner of Lincoln Place). Just show up. You can see what it’s all about. There are also meetings on Wednesdays at around 5 p.m. at the American Legion on 9th Street near Third Avenue in Park Slope.

STREETFILMS HAS VIDEO OF PARK(ING) DAY

Here is StreetFilms coverage of PARK(ing) Day, a day when people turned parking spaces into parks. You can read more about it on the Park(ing) Day website. I think the original day was organized in San Francisco but this year it was a national event.

More than 70% of most cities’ outdoor space is dedicated to the private vehicle while only a fraction of that land is allocated to open space for people. Around the nation, inexpensive curbside parking results in increased traffic, wasted fuel, and more pollution. It’s time to rethink the way streets are used!

A metered parking spot is an inexpensive short-term lease for a 10’x20′ plot of land. Imagine what you can do in a space usually dedicated to private vehicle storage. Parking Day began in a single metered parking spot in San Francisco and then spread around the world. People who want more open space, less traffic, and safer streets have joined together.

Clarence, from Streetfilms, got footage of the event in and around NYC. You can watch his 6-minute video on the Streetfilms site. Here’s what he had to say about yesterday’s happening.

This was a wonderful event, congrats to all the groups who participated. I wish I could have
gotten all the groups in, but gotta call it quits at some point and
get it up.

Anyway, enjoy. The film has just been published at www.streetfilms.org

Be sure to leave feedback on the site :)

SUSTAINABLE FLATBUSH HAS PIX OF PARK(ING) DAY ON CORTEYLOU ROAD

Check out the photos over there. SF writes:

This neighborhood is full of greenery — majestic old-growth trees and beautiful landscaping — but it’s all private property. We are seriously lacking in community gardens, all-age recreational facilities, and public parks closer than the Parade Ground and Prospect Park (more than a mile away for many of us). The Tot Lot on Argyle Road is popular with kids and parents (as one parent mentioned to me yesterday, it’s so full that “the kids are on top of each other”), but there are very few options for older kids or unaccompanied grown-ups. So Park(ing) Day — an international event, co-sponsored in NYC by Transportation Alternatives, The Open Planning Project, and the Trust for Public Land — seemed the perfect opportunity to create a public park for everyone.

We built it, and they came: a public space with real grass, trees, art supplies, games, wi-fi, and live music.

HAS ANYONE READ NAOMI WOLF’S NEW BOOK?

I happened upon her new book, The End of America: Letter of Warning to a Young Patriot while surfing around Amazon.com. Then I saw that there’s an excerpt from the introduction on Wolf’s blog on the Huffington Post. Here it is:

Dear Readers,

I am happy to share with you in this space today and Wednesday the introduction to my new book, The End of America: Letter of Warning to a Young Patriot. As the title implies, the book is a letter of warning to all Americans about the actions…

Read Post

SIDECAR: TINA BARRY LIKES IT

Tina Barry reviews Sidecar, the South Slope restaurant I noticed for the first time last week, in the Brooklyn Paper. And she likes it. I may try it for brunch tomorrow.

They mean classic New York at its swanky best; in their dark wood,
brick-walled dining room, booths are set up for cozy canoodling and
bartenders put the happy in “happy hour” when they start mixing retro
drinks like the signature “Sidecar” and “Pimm’s Cup.”

John’s in
the kitchen shucking oysters again, (he serves these with a house made
cucumber mignonette sauce), and serving up bowls of “BLT soup” (bacon,
escarole, tomato and chicken stock), a “Sidecar burger” with fries, and
the popular buttermilk fried chicken.

BROOKLYN FOR PEACE: NEW NAME FOR ACTIVIST GROUP

After 23 years of working together as Brooklyn Parents for Peace, the group has  chosen a new more
inclusive name: Brooklyn For Peace. And don’t forget to capitalize the For.

Our concern for future generations continues to unite us.

Please note: For is spelled with a capital F! We want to emphasize the
positive, what we are FOR.
Abbreviate to BFP, rather than to BP. To help maintain our name
recognition and respect for 23 years of work in Brooklyn, please
identify us as: Brooklyn For Peace (formerly Brooklyn Parents for Peace.)

PARTY FOR THE PEOPLE AT THE YARD IN GOWANUS

The Yard, formerly the site of Issue Project Room, is shaping up to be quite the site for community happenings. I just got word of this October event.

Here’s the press release about  Party for the People, an event on Saturday, October 6, 2007  1pm-9pm at The Yard located at 388-400 Carroll Street (between Bond & Nevins) in the Gowanus neighborhood of Brooklyn:

Brooklyn, NY – Party for the People, a celebration of community empowerment designed to build community awareness and engagement, will take place at The Yard in Gowanus on Saturday, October 6, 2007.  Free to the public, this Brooklyn-based event will feature workshops covering various modes of community participation as well as performances by socially active musicians and spoken-word artists.  Prominent activists and local community leaders will give presentations on different elements of social involvement.  Throughout the evening, a wide range of Brooklyn-based community service and activist organizations will maintain involvement opportunity displays. 

Party for the People employs a unique approach to community organizing which brings together social activists and service organizations from various geographic areas of Brooklyn, as well as different fields of social service, to celebrate in the name of community development and social progress.  Participants will include featured speaker New York City Councilman Charles Barron, performers such as M1 of Dead Prez, Stephanie McKay, Judah Tribe, Mental Notes, the Readnex Poetry Squad, Blitz the Ambassador, Vocab, American Hero, Safahri, and Head-Roc.  Organizations such as Brooklyn For Peace (formerly Brooklyn Parents for Peace), Malcolm X Grassroots Movement, the Red Tent Women’s Project, Brooklyn YWCA, Idealist.org, Innocence Stolen Innocent Still Foundation, Trees Not Trash, Center for Anti-Violence Education, the Audre Lorde Project, Groundwork* and others will be present to provide information about their programs.

This event offers the opportunity for newcomers to Brooklyn as well as long-time residents to become more socially informed and active in their communities.  Workshops will provide information about current local issues and initiatives.  The showcase of speakers and performers will serve to inspire and empower people to become involved.  The exhibiting local organizations will give people direct access to ongoing programs in Brooklyn. 

Party for the People is produced by a collective of grassroots activists and organizers working together toward the common goal of triggering community awareness and deepening people’s connections with and contributions to one another.  The organizers of Party for the People believe that the revival of community values on a local scale sets the stage for greater societal progress.  Party for the People aims to create a space for the acknowledgement, development, and celebration of community participation.

To join forces with the Party for the People organizers, participate in the event, or simply obtain more information, contact:  Chief Organizer Stephanie Rooker at stephanie.rooker@gmail.com or 917-623-4388.

TIMES SAYS QUOTES ABOUT BERKELEY CARROLL WERE UNSUBSTANIATED AND SHOULD NOT HAVE BEEN INCLUDED IN CITY SECTION ARTICLE

The New York Times’ agrees with me that comments about drinking and drug use at Berkeley Carroll  (and at schools on the Upper East Side of Manhattan) were unsubstantiated and should not have been included in the article, Our Year Is the Most Competitive Year in the History of College Applications. Or Something Like That."

Last Monday I wrote: 

Did you see the City Section piece by
David Helene, a 17-year old Packer student, who lives in Cobble Hill?
Wonder what they thought of it over at Berkeley Carroll? I guess it’s
just one kid’s opinion but it seemed pretty ridiculous to me. Wonder
why the Times’  kept it in?

Well, the Times’ is now saying that the quote SHOULD NOT have been included. I kinda knew that. Here’s the Tmes’ correction or something like that.

A first-person article last Sunday, based on a transcription of an
interview with a 17-year-old who lives in Brooklyn and attends Packer
Collegiate Institute, included comments by the teenager that there were
drinking at the Berkeley Carroll School in Park Slope, and drug use at
Berkeley Carroll and at schools on the Upper East Side of Manhattan.
Those remarks were unsubstantiated and based in part on hearsay, and
should not have been included in the article.

ONE MILLION CRIBS RECALLED

This may be old news, but one million cribs have been recalled from Graco and Simplicity. Since there are so many babies around here I thought it prudent to post this from MSNBC:

WASHINGTON – About 1 million Simplicity and Graco cribs have been recalled after three children became entrapped and suffocated.

The
recall was announced by the Consumer Product Safety Commission on
Friday, more than two years after a California lawyer says he alerted
the federal agency about a 9-month-old who died in a faulty crib.

IT’S LIKE TIMES SQUARE OUT THERE

Hepcat said it and it’s really true: "It’s like Times Square out there."

He was referring to Third Street between 6th and 7th Avenues at 3:40 a.m. in the morning on a Saturday night. It’s the non-stop noise of loud people walking east toward Seventh Avenue after the bars close.

What time does The Gate close?

Truthfully, I kinda like the noise. Especially if I’m up late writing or something. It’s lively. Sort of. Our bedrooms are in the back so it doesn’t wake up the kids. And we’re already up. It’s the sound of tired people having fun. They’re not doing anything wrong really other than talking loudly: bar conversations taken out on the street.

Sometimes there are fights or rowdiness. But not often.

How do other people feel about it?

A GOOD NIGHT FOR RUDOLPH DELSON AT BROOKLYN READING WORKS

Rudy Delson’s reading at Brooklyn Reading Works at the Old Stone House really was SPECIAL. There were over 100 people there and there was a palpable sense of good feeling and excitement for Rudy’s debut novel, Maynard and Jennica.

Benjamin Kunkel, co-founder and co-editor of N+1, played rabbi at this Bar Mitzvah of a reading and spoke eloquently about Delson’s ambitious book that has 35 narrators.

Rudy read excerpts from the book, which is really a series of monologues, with his agent and editor. Not only were they great readers, but their faces couldn’t hid their sense of pride and accomplishment about this masterful and funny book.

Rudy called his editor and agent the book’s midwives. It was a beautiful and truthful acknowledgment of the collaborative nature of book publishing. Something that is rarely acknowledged, I think.

Rudy also read sections of his book solo like the stand up comic he could be. He’s dramatic, funny and really ON when he reads and that really makes the book’s fictional interviews come alive.

I missed some of the reading because I was so nervous that we didn’t have enough open bottles of wine. I went downstairs and starting corking wine bottles and pouring glasses. Rudy brought a delicious selection of cheeses from the Coop ("only cheeses I’d never heard of," he said) and two lovely women from  Community Books were selling books.

The party went on until 11 p.m. Rudy asked everyone to sing Happy Birthday to the person that the book is dedicated to, who happened to be there. The book was released on his birthday last Tuesday. An appropriate coincidence. Rudy  mentioned that in his thank you speech, in which he thanked just about everyone in the room. Not really.

But it was a gracious night. And a special one.

SUSTAINABLE FLATBUSH CREATING A NEW NEIGHBORHOOD PARK TODAY!!!!

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Sustainable Flatbush is organizing an event in conjunction with National Park(ing) Day, where artists, activists, and citizens collaborate to temporarily transform parking spots into “PARK(ing)” temporary public parks. TODAY.

Interesting concept. Sure to infuriate the parking-obsessed here in Park Slope. Like, it’s all well and good to be anti-car but don’t mess with my parking space.

But in Flatbush, Sustainable Flatbush is bringing Park(ing) Day to
Cortelyou Road, between Argyle and Rugby (that’s Brooklyn, baby)! Her park will have grass, plants, seating, and games! Hours will be
approximately 10am – 6pm.

And she’s inviting everyone: Musicians (bring instruments!), artists (bring
paints!), kids and their parents, pets and their owners, picnickers,
bloggers (we’ll try to find a spot with wi-fi),
crossword/sudoku/backgammon/yahtzee players … you get the picture. Hang
out and keep us company as we create a new neighborhood park for the
day.

Above left: That’s the blogger and activist behind Sustainable Flatbush wearing the black t-shirt that says: Fl@bush. She’s a real Brooklyn hero and a great blogger.

THE BROOKLYNITES: THE COFFEE TABLE BOOK

With photographs by Seth Kushner and essays by Antony LaSala, The Brooklynites is a nice coffee table book about Brooklyn residents famous and unknown.

Kushner and LaSala, both born and bred Brooklynites, have created a portrait of the borough that they love, featuring Paul Auser, Spike Lee, Steve Buscemi, Rosie Perez, Sufjan Stevens, John Turturro, Casey Spooner, Steve Schirripa, Matisyahu, and Jonathan Lethem and regular folks too.
 

They also visited the Brooklyn Academy of Music, the Brooklyn Botanic Garden,
Peter Luger’s Steakhouse, the Coney Island Aquarium, Brooklyn College,
the Prospect Park Zoo, Totonno’s Pizzeria, the Brooklyn Navy Yard, the
Coney Island Freak Show, or the Brooklyn Museum.

Looks like fun.

IDENTICAL STRANGERS: THE TALE OF TWINS SEPARATED AT BIRTH

In this week’s Brooklyn Paper, Paula Bernstein talks about writing “Identical Strangers: A Memoir of Twins
Separated and Reunited” (Random House) with her twin sister, Elyse Schein, which will be released on October 24th. Paula and Elyse interviewed me and my sister for inclusion in the book. They told us that they wanted to meet some twins that weren’t separated at birth to compare notes. It was a fun tea at Sweet Melissa’s and the two writers capture it beautifully in their book. I am honored to be a small part of this fascinating and poignant memoir. Here’s an excerpt from Paula’s P.S. I Love You column in the BP. In it she worries that maybe she was too honest in the book.

I made a concerted effort to
portray myself realistically, warts-and-all. Now I worry that perhaps I
was too realistic. Maybe not everyone — even my longtime Park Slope
neighbors — will find my “character” sympathetic. They might not
understand my initial reluctance to be a twin or my hesitance to seek
out my biological family.

With the memoir about to hit bookstores
— and the requisite reading at the Barnes and Noble on October 24 — I
am trying to reconcile myself to the fact that strangers, acquaintances
and friends will know as much about me and my hang-ups as my therapist.
Of course, I want people to read the book, but I am wary of the
attention my newly gained notoriety will inevitably bring.

Am I
prepared for my favorite waitress at Two Boots to ask if I am still
taking anti-depressants or for the helpful saleswoman at Otto to
analyze my relationship with my sister? I dread the thought of
neighborhood moms shaking their heads and clucking behind my back at
Tea Lounge after reading all about my abandonment issues.

MACBROOKLYN: TRUE OR FALSE?

The Brooklyn Paper did some investigating and called Apple Headquarters (in Cupertino) and got a denial. Bloggers, once again, are blamed for spreading false rumors.

But the award-winning newspaper did manage to drum up a former Apple store employee, who would agreed to speak annonymously. He told the Brooklyn Paper that there’s been talk of a Brooklyn
shop for at least a year.

“A lot of the higher-ups were asking us
‘cool kids’ what area of Brooklyn we thought would be best [a year
ago],” she said. “I thought either a small store on Bedford Avenue or a
store in Park Slope.”

The bloggers agreed, bandying about
possible sites for Brooklyn’s own enormous cube of a building on Smith
Street, in DUMBO, Downtown Brooklyn, and Williamsburg.

A YOM KIPPUR MESSAGE FROM RABBI AND BLOGGER BACHMAN

I found these insightful words on Andy Bachman’s blog. He is the rabbi at Congregation Beth Elohim in Park Slope. 

Be kind and honest in how you look at yourself. The Fast is enough
inflicted punishment for one day. Allow the Fast to allow you to focus
on what truly matters: your actions in the last year; your intentions
in carrying out those actions; and what you may do to improve (not
miraculously solve) those relationships in need of healing in the year
ahead.

May each of you have a Meaningful Yom Kippur Fast and
emerge at Havdalah tomorrow evening with Eyes Wide Open and Hearts
Prepared to bring more justice and peace to our World.

WHEN ALICE WATERS CAME TO BROOKLYN

Alice Waters came to Brooklyn recently to make lunch in that apartment of Kim Severson, who writes for the New York Times. They shopped at the Union Square  Greenmarket and cooked in a Severson’s brownstone kitchen. I wish she’d visited the Food Coop. Here’s the New York Times’ article.

Did anyone see Alice, the great restaraunteur slow food/local ingredients revolutionary, who owns Chez Panisse in Berkeley, when she was here?

Also, read Alice Waters’ first blog post on the Times’ diner’s journal.

WHEN Alice Waters is coming over to cook lunch, the first thing you do is look around your house and think, I live in a dump.

Then you take an inventory of
the pantry. The bottles of Greek and Portuguese olive oil, once a point
of pride, suddenly seem inadequate. And should you hide the box of
Kellogg’s Raisin Bran and jettison those two cans of Diet Pepsi?

At
the end of the afternoon, when the last peach was peeled and my kitchen
was stacked with dirty pots, it didn’t really matter. Ms. Waters was
either too polite or too distracted to mention what was in my cupboard.
It turns out she travels with her own olive oil, anyway. And homemade
vinegar. And salt-packed capers.

Ms. Waters had agreed to spend a
hot September day shopping with me at the Union Square Greenmarket and
schlepping back to my first-floor apartment in brownstone Brooklyn to
make lunch.

AU CONTRAIRE: THE OCCASIONAL NOTE FROM PETER LOFFREDO

Here’s the latest from our pal Pete:

ATTENTION ALL PARENTS! This is a disaster that is already in the making for your kids! Beware of teachers and medical professionals who want to diagnose your child as having a “social anxiety disorder” — a so-called affliction of children and adolescents that, such dubious clinicians argue, is spreading.

Right. Read this piece in today’s NY Times on the subject and BE SCARED! As I’ve said before, psychiatric medications for children are first and foremost about money, and secondly about convenience. I have worked with school-aged children for years and seen far too many young people’s emotional lives nullified for the sake of conformity and arbitrary measures of performance. PLEASE read on.

Here’s some shocking truths from the Times piece by Lane: "Levels of the stress hormone cortisol are consistently LOWER in shy children than in their more extroverted peers. This discovery upends the common wisdom among psychiatrists that shyness causes youngsters extreme stress."

Woah! What does this mean? It means that children who aren’t overtly aggressive, who observe first rather than act, and who have active INNER lives are actually kids with LOWER amounts of stress. Yet, this is unacceptable to those who believe that children should be pushed to outperform their peers, gratify the ego needs of their competitive parents and prepare to meet the economic needs of the corporate world.

Okay, check out how the medical profession, the pharmaceutical companies and the educational professionals have colluded to create a new epidemic: "In 1987, the revised third edition of the Diagnostic & Statistical Manual (the Bible of psychiatric diagnoses) expanded the list of symptoms for social anxiety disorder by adding anticipated concern about saying the wrong thing (a trait known to just about everyone on the planet.). The diagnostic bar was set so low that even a preschooler could trip over it. Self-help books and magazine articles further widened the definition of social anxiety disorder to include symptoms like test anxiety, aversion to writing on the blackboard and shunning of team sports. These ridiculously loose criteria led to more diagnoses, until social anxiety disorder in children began to look as if it were spreading like the common cold among second graders."

Now, here it comes, parents, and if this doesn’t alarm you, you should really reconsider your worthiness to be a parent: "Then, having alerted the masses to their worrisome avoidance of public restrooms, the psychiatrists needed a remedy. Right on cue, GlaxoSmithKline, the maker of Paxil, declared in the late 1990s that its antidepressant could also treat social anxiety and, presumably, self-consciousness in restaurants. Nudged along by a public-awareness campaign (“Imagine Being Allergic to People”) that cost the drug maker more than $92 million in advertising in one year alone ($3 million more than Pfizer spent that year promoting Viagra), social anxiety quickly became the THIRD MOST DIAGNOSED MENTAL ILLNESS in the nation, behind only depression and alcoholism. This diagnosis was frequently made irresponsibly, and it also had human costs. After being prescribed Paxil or Zoloft for their shyness and public-speaking anxiety, a disturbingly large number of children, studies found, began to contemplate suicide and to suffer a host of other chronic side effects. This class of antidepressants, known as S.S.R.I.’s, had never been tested on children. Belatedly, the Food and Drug Administration agreed to require a “black box” warning on the drug label, cautioning doctors and parents that the drugs may be linked to suicide risk in young people. You might think the specter of children on suicide watch from taking remedies for shyness would end any impulse to overprescribe them. Yet the tendency to use potent drugs to treat run-of-the-mill behaviors persists, and several psychiatrists have already started to challenge the F.D.A. warning."

The real epidemic here, and the unconscionably tragic effects of it, is greed. Pure, unadulterated, psychopathic greed. It’s time for today’s parents to give up on their childhood fantasies about kind-hearted doctors like Marcus Welby, M.D., who only want to make children well and feel better, or super-dedicated teachers like Mark Thackeray (Sidney Poitier’s character in "To Sir With Love") whose lives revolve around guiding their charges to higher wisdom, no matter how difficult the student’s behavior may be. No, folks. Wake up! Today’s doctor’s specialize less and less in family practices, where person to person contact and genuine human concern might be expected of them, and instead specialize more and more in cosmetic surgery because that’s where the big money is. And teachers? It’s become all about control and about meeting the criteria of standardized testing, not about finding and bringing out the hidden jewels in an otherwise "shy" student. "Who has time for that?" I have heard teachers say. "How sad is that?" I say. How very sad is that

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