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New Lethem Slammed By New York Times: Will Read It Anyway

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Michiko Kakutani in the New York Times really didn't much like Jonathan Lethem's new book, Chronic City. I loved Lethem's Fortress of Solitude (and so did Kakutani), Lethem's opus about growing up in Brooklyn in the 1970's. So I have every intention of reading Chronic City even if it is about Manhattan. First I have to  finish Middlemarch and Big Machine by Victor LaValle.

…Mr. Lethem’s Chronic City seems like an insipid, cartoon
version of Manhattan: recognizable in outline (with snooty Upper East
Side dinner parties, a wealthy businessman turned mayor and all manner
of eccentric artists and has-beens, socialites and socialists), but
garnished with odd details (snow in the summertime, a tiger roaming the
streets, an apartment building for dogs) that feel more like whimsical
embroiderings than genuinely interesting or illuminating inventions

Oct 24: Launch Party for Greenlight Bookstore in Ft. Greene!

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It's happening. Greenlight Bookstore, Fort Greene's new independent bookseller is opening on Saturday. And they're inviting people to celebrate the launch.

Greenlight Bookstore is located at 686 Fulton Street (on the corner of
South Portland) and is the brainchild of Jessica
Stockton Bagnulo (Book Nerd) and Rebecca Fitting. They say they've got "a combined 25
years of experience in the book industry, an award-winning business
plan, a great retail space, and a shared vision of bringing a fantastic
independent bookstore to the neighborhood."

Take a look for yourself.

LAUNCH PARTY!
Saturday, October 24, 2009

* 10:00 AM: Kids' Story Time with Michelle Knudsen
* 7:00 PM: LAUNCH PARTY! Complimentary champagne…until we run out
* Giveaways and prizes for customers of all ages

Greenlight Bookstore
686 Fulton Street (at South Portland)
Brooklyn, NY 11217
(718) 246-0200
Subways: C to Lafayette, G to Fulton, any train to Atlantic/Pacific

Pepto Bismol House in the Daily News

An excerpt from the NY Daily News:

Bernie Henry, 92, has owned the famed hot-pink house on Garfield Place since 1961.

Park Slope's Pepto-Bismol house is on the market.

Bernie Henry,
92, gained fame and infamy in the neighborhood three years ago when he
slapped a coat of hot pink paint on the four-story Garfield Place
brownstone where he's lived for almost 50 years.

He put the house up for sale last month because the space is too big for him and his wife.

"I'm
92. It's time to get rid of it," he said. "It's a lot of money to keep
it up … I'm going to buy a smaller house around the corner."

Henry,
a retired tailor, said he never meant to get his neighbors' hackles up
with the brilliant hue: He was just trying to replicate the house's
more subdued shade of pink that it wore since the 1960s.

"They sent me the wrong paint," he said. "It was painted this color accidentally."

Still,
the bubblegum brownstone has its perks. "It made me a star," Henry
said. "I didn't know paint would get me on every TV station in New York."

The
asking price for the house is $2.3 million. Henry doesn't remember how
much he paid for it in 1961, but houses on the block at the time were
going for well under $50,000.

About 40 potential buyers have
viewed the brownstone so far – and that doesn't count curiosity seekers
who just wanted a peek inside the most colorful house on the block.

Pechefsky Says: Go To Ginger’s on Sunday Night at 7 p.m.

David Pechefsky who is running for City Council in the 39th district tells me that there's a good show at Ginger's Bar on Fifth Avenue on Sunday, October 18th at 7 p.m.

Jason West and Dykes On Mics

 
Says Pechefsky: "Jason West is the former Green Mayor of New Paltz, who took the
lead in marrying same sex couples back in 2004; Dykes with Mics do
stand-up."

 Dykes On Mics is produced by two hilarious New York
based comedians: Leah Dubie and Amy Beckerman.

 

Oh. That Was Rev Billy at Last Night’s Mayoral Debate

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I listened to the first half hour of Tuesday night's debate between NYC Mayor Mike Bloomberg and mayoral candidate City Comptroller William Thompson on WNYC. 

"What
are you doing here, Mike? We voted for term limits!" On the radio it sounded like it was quite a ruckus.

Turns out it was Green Party Candidate for Mayor Rev. Billy Talen.

Talen was not speaking from the stage, but from the fifth row in the
audience. Though Talen will appear on the ballot in November along with
six other candidates for Mayor he was not invited to participate in the debate. Only Mike Bloomberg and Democratic nominee Bill Thompson were allowed to participate in the one hour debate.

According to Talen: "the missing voice tonight
was the voice of New York City's neighborhoods, which Bloomberg and the
Democrats have victimized in their lust for the bubble-based economies
of tourism, chain stores and Wall Street. We will not forget about
Bloomberg's dismissal of term limits. He cannot spend enough to erase
Democracy."


Laytner’s Linen and Home Coming to Union Street in Park Slope.

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An OTBKB reader and tipster sent this in.

I just walked past the long-vacant 784 Union St. building between 6th
and 7th Aves. For the last few days, workers had been in and out of the
building, and today they unveiled a sign proclaiming the next tenant.
Park Slope is getting its very own Laytner's Linen and Home.

No more
trips up to the Upper West Side for comfy if expensive sheets. Thought you could use this on OTBKB.

Brooklyn Public Library: Immigrants and Epidemics in Cultural Perspective

Where: Central Library, Dweck Center
When: Saturday, Oct 17 4 PM
Audience: For Adults
In the midst of the recent influenza epidemic, some referred to the
illness as "Mexican Flu". New arrivals from Mexico were shunned as
disease carriers or encouraged to wear masks over their mouths and
noses. Blaming particular immigrant groups as responsible for epidemics
is a recurring phenomenon in U.S. history – the Irish for cholera in
1832, the Italians for polio in 1916. However, during the influenza
pandemic of 1918, also a peak period of immigration, no immigrant group
was singled out for blame in most cities. Why? Alan Kraut, Professor of
History at American University, explores the fascinating double helix
of health and fear. This program will last approximately 90 minutes.

In Time of Fear is part of a series titled The American
Experiment: How Immigration Has Created a Country Unique in the History
of the World, which is made possible with funding from Martin L. and
Rona Schneider.

Film at Barbes: “Fados 2007: Spain and Portugal”

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Saturday, October 17th at 5 p.m. at Barbes:

FADOS. 2007. Spain & Portugal. 92 min. A
fusion of cinema, song, dance and instrumental numbers, FADOS contains
homages to such legends as Maria Severa and Amália Rodrigues, as well
as stunning turns by modern stars like Mariza and Camané.

FADOS
completes the musical trilogy of award-winning Spanish director Carlos Saura’s
Flamenco (1995) and Oscar-nominated Tango (1998). Using Lisbon as a
backdrop, he explores Portugal’s most emblematic musical genre—fado.
Tracing its African and Brazilian origins up to the new wave of modern
fadistas, he ingeniously deploys mirrors, back projections, lighting
effects, and lush colors to frame a collection of performances that
survey a rich history of this art form. Under the musical supervision
of Carlos do Carmo.

So Percussion: Meditation on American Cities at BAM


So percussion big
Oct 14—17 at 7:30pm at BAM: 

In even the most forgotten corners and forsaken shadows, the city
seethes with life, splayed out in a symphony of sensations. In Imaginary City,
New York's powerhouse percussion ensemble Sō Percussion immerses itself
in everyday urban experiences, offering a multifaceted meditation on
American cities.

Inspired by Italo Calvino's ebullient descriptions of urban environments in his novel Invisible Cities,
the four members of Sō Percussion—all extraordinary musicians and
composers—join video artist Jenise Treuting and director Rinde Eckert
to give voice to the evanescent beauty of the metropolis. Homespun
sampling techniques harmonize with found objects cum instruments,
illuminating the patterns of urban life and turning the concrete jungle
into a cauldron of sensory experience.

BAM Harvey Theater
70min, no intermission
Tickets: $20, 30, 35

On the Cheap with Brooklyn Frugal Family Examiner

Park Slope's Wendy Ponte writes for magazines and newspapers on topics including
parenting and childbirth, travel, culture and lifestyles. She is a
Contributing Editor for Mothering Magazine and has written articles,
columns and essays for The Brooklyn Papers, the Newark Star-Ledger, the
Daily News and more. She is the co-author of Having a Baby, Naturally.
She lives in Brooklyn, New York with her family.

But now she's turning her attention to living the frugal life in Brooklyn. Check out her Frugal Family Examiner articles below:

Tuesday, October 13th, 2009

How can you save money on those humungous pumpkins your children love
to buy for Halloween? One thought is that you can head for a nearby
farm and…
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Friday, October 9th, 2009

There are a bunch of inexpensive, or even free, things to do in
Brooklyn this weekend. Friday, October 9 If you can find a sitter, The
Living Room…
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Thursday, October 8th, 2009

There aren't many weekends left before it gets too cold to have a
garage sale (or stoop sale, as it is referred to in many parts of
Brooklyn). So…
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Wednesday, October 7th, 2009

Few things personify romance more than a dinner out (sans children, of
course). Dinner for two is supposed to be a splurge–but there are
splurges and…
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Monday, October 5th, 2009

Auto insurance is one of those bills that you have to pay–but doesn't
offer any instant gratification. It's one of those "just-in-case"…
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Thursday, October 1st, 2009

Halloween costumes aren’t cheap these days—even though they sure look
cheap in terms of quality. Most costumes will cost upwards of…
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OTBKB Music: The Connecticut Muffin Gig

PA130121rotated There aren't all that many warm days left.  But it was sunny and in the
low to mid 60s on Tuesday afternoon.  That's when I can upon Park Slope
resident Dan Pearce with his new Dobro (a wooden guitar with a metal
resonator in the front over which the strings pass).  Dan jokingly
called this stint on First Street his "Connecticut Muffin gig."

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Going to The Poetry Punch on Thursday?  There's still some great music
to be had afterward as The Winterpills will be back in New York at The
Rockwood Music Hall
, 196 Allen Street (F Train to Second Avenue, use
the First Avenue exit), 11pm.

 –Eliot Wagner

Friday at 9:30 pm: Rocky Horror Picture Show LIVE at Lyceum

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Bring your black knit nurse corsets and heavy eyeliner down to the
Lyceum to relive the classic stage musical of the Rocky Horror Show.
Get into the Halloween spirit and come dressed to kill.  The Brooklyn Lyceum is the perfect location to hold all the campy suspense,
with its 3000 sq ft of exposed brick, old bathhouse architecture and
huge steel I-beams, the musical is practically asking to jump out of
its walls.

No other musical blends science fiction with trampy campy sexy
theatrics quite like Rocky Horror. By the end you’ll be humming along " …Crawling on the planet's face, tiny insects called the human race, lost in time, lost in space – and meaning."  Love and Light Productions brings the full production to life with a one-night stop at the Brooklyn Lyceum on their East Coast tour.
Director Alicia Starr and her talented full cast come ready to get you
shakin', singing along and primed for the Halloween week ahead.  More
info about the cast and production at loveandlightproductions.com.

The Brooklyn Lyceum,
known formerly as NYC Public Bath No. 7, is a performing arts and
cultural center in Park Slope. Originally opened in 1910 as an indoor
bathing facility, it once housed the largest indoor public pool in the
country. Reopened in 1994 as the Brooklyn Lyceum, the old bathhouse now
plays host to a range of performance events, festivals and cultural
activities, including the upcoming production of Bauhaus, by the
resident theatre company Nervetank. Its café is open to the public
daily and offers free wireless access. 

The show begins at 9:30 p.m. on Friday October 16th at the Lyceum: 227 4th Avenue in Park Slope, right atop the R train station at Union Street. 
www.brooklynlyceum.com.  718.857.4816

Elected Officials, Straphangers Campaign and DDDB Sue MTA for Sweetheart Deal With Forest City Ratner

Here's the press release from Develop Don't Destroy Brooklyn.

NEW
YORK, NY — The Metropolitan Transportation Authority (MTA) was sued
today for the June 24th deal it made to sell its 8.5-acre Vanderbilt
Rail Yard to developer Forest City Ratner for its proposed 22-acre
Atlantic Yards plan in Prospect Heights, Brooklyn. 
State Senator Velmanette Montgomery (18th District), Assemblymember Jim Brennan (44th District), Assemblymember Joan Millman (52nd District), NY City Councilmember Letitia James (35th District), NYPIRG/Straphangers Campaign and Develop Don’t Destroy Brooklyn filed the lawsuit. The suit was filed in State Supreme Court in Manhattan.
"While
the MTA is forcing service cuts and fare increases on the people of New
York, they are giving Forest City Ratner just about a free ride. We
have laws in this state that forbid these kinds of sweetheart deals.
You can’t short change the public to benefit a developer,” said lead
plaintiff, state Senator Velmanette Montgomery. “With the Atlantic
Yards, the MTA violated our legislation and the public trust. Their
sale of the Vanderbilt Yard to Ratner must be annulled."
The
suit seeks the annulment of the MTA’s deal to sell the rail yard to
Forest City Ratner because it violated requirements of legislation
meant to rein in the abuses of New York State’s public authorities. An
annulment  would disallow the transfer of the property, which the
developer requires for its project, including its proposed basketball
arena, until the MTA complied with the law.
The
petitioners charge, specifically, that the cash-strapped transit
authority violated the Public Authorities Accountability Act of 2005. 
Under that legislation, which former Governor Pataki signed into law in
2006, MTA was required to obtain an independent appraisal of the
Vanderbilt Yard and seek out competitive offers for the property. The
MTA failed to fulfill either of these legal requirements when its Board
approved its new deal with Forest City Ratner on June 24th, 2009.
"We
are asking the court to annul the MTA's agreement of this past June to
sell the Vanderbilt Rail Yard to Forest City Ratner, because the
agreement violated the procedural requirements of the Public
Authorities Accountability Act of 2005, which were put in place to
ensure that New York State's public authorities, including the MTA,
adhere to the highest ethical and professional standards when selling
their property. The MTA's deal to sell the Vanderbilt Rail Yard to Forest City Ratner did not meet those standards," said petitioners' attorney Randall Rasey of Barton, Barton & Plotkin.

Brooklyn Ink: The Life and Death of Spec. Kevin O. Hill

The Brooklyn Ink returns this morning with new stories,
new features, and with news. Today they feature the story of the life
and death of Kevin Hill, who was 23 when he was killed just days ago in
Afghanistan. His story also serves as a reminder of those from the
borough who have died in Iraq and Afghanistan.
http://thebrooklynink.com/featured/kevin-hill

BI has also expanded its Daily Roundup of news, which they say they will update throughout the day, to keep you up-to-date on news from the borough.

BI has also introduced a new daily feature — Here is Brooklyn —
vignettes that capture the moments that animate life in the borough.

Good to have you back.

Tonight: Hannah Tinti and Lev Grossman at Pacific Standard

First: what and where is Pacific Standard? In their own words:

It's a cozy, relaxed West Coast microbrew pub located at 82
Fourth Avenue between St. Marks and Bergen Streets in Brooklyn.

They've got a blog with bar news, an events
schedule, and their current beers on tap: www.pacificstandardbrooklyn.blogspot.com.

As reported in the New York Times:

Two authors who write for grown-ups but retain that
kid-under-the-covers-with-a-flashlight feel are reading at
Pacific
Standard
in Park Slope tonight. Lev
Grossman
’s best-seller “The
Magicians,”
follows a bunch of fantasy-obsessed
youth as they graduate into urban hipsterhood. Like a
“Harry Potter” for adults, it’s chock-full
of drugs, sex and ennui
. And Hannah
Tinti
’s debut novel “The Good
Thief”
, about a 19th-century grave-robbing
orphan, is “darkly transporting,” writes
Janet Maslin
, “an American Dickensian tale with
touches of Harry Potterish whimsy, along with a macabre
streak of spooky New England history.” B.Y.O.
flashlight.

Greetings From Scott Turner: See Times, Desperate and Measures, Desperate.

Here's this weeks greetings from Scott, the pub quizzer at Rocky Sullivan's in Red Hook. He also performs as RebelMart at places like Freddy's Backroom. This post is brought to you by Miss Wit, the t-shirt lady.

Greetings Pub Quiz Robocall Recipients…

Unless, of course, it's a real live person.  Which sometimes, you hope it is.

The National Rifle Association has been calling our house.  Thanks to Caller ID, I've seen their number come up time and again.  Probably seven or eight times.  It's a northern Virginia area code.

They're calling because they hate Mayor Bloomberg for his anti-gun stance.  Don't know if they realize they're asking voters to side with Bill Thompson or the Rev. Billy Talen.   Don't know if they care.  The NRA's pretty myopic.  Must come from generations of squinting through rifle sights.

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the NRA has many allies…

But they did perform the insanely impossible — made me side with Michael Bloomberg for once.

Instead
of telling them "I despise Michael Bloomberg.  I want you to understand
my full meaning when I tell you I'd going with him over you," this is
what the woman from the NRA was told: "I want you to know that my
father committed suicide with a handgun, and I don't appreciate you
calling here."

Desperate times require desperate measures.  Nothing of the sort ever happened to my father.  See Times, Desperate and Measures, Desperate.

Flustered but sticking to script, the NRA caller said "oh, well, we're very sorry, and, uh, we'll update our records."

Click.

Honestly, I'd have respected the NRA caller if she'd really
stuck to script and said "guns didn't kill your father — your father
killed your father."  As I've learned, respect and utter contempt
aren't mutually exclusive.  In fact, they can be touchy-feely
hand-holders.

But no — the NRA caller just punked out and disrespected the memory of Charlton Heston,
whose hands couldn't be colder and deader at the present juncture but
who would be aghast at the scripted niceties being doled about by
today's NRA.  Heston wouldn't take this attack on the NRA lying down.

…well, actually now he would.

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another
frustrated bitter gun owner realizing he'd have to vote for a black
liberal or an environmental anti-consumerist faux preacher with a big
church and a bigger hairdo.  Well, if that grip weren't so darned
tight…

And now, here in New York, we have the election-season
oddity of a wealthy immoral lobbying group trying to buy the election
from a wealthy immoral mayor who's trying to buy the election.

If I were feeling benevolent to the rest of the world, I'd chortle "only in America!"  But I'm not, and it's not.

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Breakfast-of-Candidates: Joe Nardiello (39th)

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Yeah, I was curious to meet the Republican running for Bill deBlasio's City Council seat in the 39th district. I mean it's audacious being a Republican in the People's Republic of Park Slope.

And I was sort of missing my breakfasts with the candidates. It had been months since I'd met with any of the 39ers or the 33s.

So I told Joe Nardiello to meet me at one of my usual BOC haunts: Donuts on Seventh Avenue near 9th Street.

Of course Nardiello knew all about Donuts because he's a Brooklyn guy from way back.

I have to say he doesn't look like a Republican. I was expecting someone clean cut, non-ethnic and very middle America (sort of like 39er Gary Reilly, who happens to be ultra progressive. So much for cliches).

Wrong. Nardiello, born and bred in Brooklyn, has dark eyes, dark hair and strong Italian good looks.

He had the Brooklyn childhood of legend.  "All we needed was a ball. My life was constantly filled with sports, resourcefulness, spending time with friends."

There was football and wiffleball on the Brooklyn streets. "Punch the ball, off the point, off the wall, corks, skellies," Nardiello recited a litany of the games he played as a kid.

In elementary school,  Nardiello was plucked out of St. Agnes in Carroll Gardens for a progressive study junior high. "When I found out it was for underprivileged kids I didn't know what that meant. I had to look it up." 

Clearly, Nardiello did not view himself as having an underprivileged background. It was a good life with a good family on the good streets of Brooklyn. "But I didn't know anyone who went to college in my youth. People went into trades and became union carpenters, longshoreman at the docks like their fathers."

Later he was placed in a special "Higher Achievement Program" at Xavier High School in Manhattan. He went to college at NYU. While there, he also worked part time at Citibank as a bank teller. "I'm from a blue collar background. If you're not working there's something wrong with you."

Ever the busy—and social guy, Nardiello started the NYU Social and Athletic Club, a club for students who didn't like fraternities and sororities. "I don't like exclusion. Something for the few and not for the most." There were 500 members and it was a place to give commuter students a sense of belonging," he told me.

At NYU, Nardiello majored in journalism he says "because I was a child of the 1960's up to Watergate. I wanted to be Woodward and Bernstein."

After graduation, Nardiello decided to go into advertising, where he found that he enjoyed the creative side. "I was making money. In my neighborhood if you made your age in salary you were a success. I had superstar status in the neighborhood. A wunderkind."

But he was restless and wanted to do something else after a while. "Nothing is ever about money for me. It drives my wife crazy. It's the challenge," he told me.

So he worked for advertising agencies developing business for companies like American Airlines, the island of Curacao, fashion accounts and even a Donald Trump board game.

And then he tried something else. During the Dinkins administration Nardiello became a member of an economic "think tank" led by Dinkins' Deputy Mayor Barry Sullivan. The mission of the NYC Economic Policy & Marketing Group, was to brand New York City was to support and develop the NYC economy during the recession of the early 1990s and to aggressively increase  tourism to "hundreds of cultural institutions."

In this capacity, Nardiello worked with the Economic Development Corp and Small Business Services from 1992 until 1995, where it was his job to review the budget of the NYC Convention & Visitors Bureau for Deputy Mayors.
"The idea was to apply a private-sector approach to efforts to promote NYC worldwide," Nardiello told me. He also managed the “Mayor’s Tourism Office” and recruited & directed seven of NY’s largest marketing agencies to highlight attractions in 10 designated “development zones."

Nardiello is proud of his work at NYC Economic Policy and Marketing Group: "We brought East and West Harlem together. They weren't communicating," he says. The group also helped Brighton Beach and introduced Big Apple Greeters and "New York City: Yours to Discover" program. "The idea was to focus on the city (and tourism) outside of Times Square."

After 9/11 it was this experience that inspired Nardiello to approach individual companies in Lower Manhattan to help them comeback from the devastation of the attacks.

Then I popped the million dollar question. Why is Nardiello, a Republican in a predominantly Democratic district, running for City Council? 

"I am giving people a choice. People  should understand that a man can be a strong candidate and look past the branding.

Looking at his website, I gather that Nardiello sees himself as a Theodore Roosevelt Republican, a Mike Bloomberg Republican, a Park Slope Food Coop Republican. He writes on the site:

"The GOP has to once again recognize support for social aspects, and drive causes. Locally, we have hospitals closing, immigration issues that are punted year after year, a 1-party system that’s fine with the status quo (which works for them) and it doesn’t necessarily have to solve problems as long as they keep saying they intend to. There’s also real mismanagement & carelessness about rates from public utilities and untouchable-Authorities that are affecting us – and we have to go full-bore right at the problems.

What would Teddy Roosevelt do with the MTA or even our NY State elected bodies?

Says Nardiello: "This is a moment in time in Brooklyn that we can finally focus on the underprivileged, the disconnected, those who need help who have no voice. People who need direction and assistance."

Funny, Nardiello doesn't sound like a Republican. But he is.

–I asked if he's pro-Choice and he said that he's 100% for women's rights. As to his actual view on abortion, he didn't say.
–I asked if he's for same sex marriage and he said "I don't think the government should decide what a family is."

-Did he vote for Barack Obama? Nope. He voted for McCain.

So Food Coop or no Food Coop he's a Republican, friends.

I asked Nardiello, who is likable, articulate and funny, about the  "Ah Ha" moment that inspired him to throw his hat into the ring.

So here's what happened: He went to the City Council candidate's forum at the Church of the Gethsemane in Park Slope in the Spring of 2009. Remember that? It was the one John Heyer refused to participate in because he was being "attacked" for his pro-life, anti-same sex marriage views.

But Nardiello was an audience member. When asked if they supported residential parking permits, which would require locals to pay for parking, all the candidates said "yes." He was shocked.

"This is year three of a great recession and these people have no connection to the recession. No business experience. No connection to what it's like to live in Brooklyn in these times," Nardiello told me. "You have to protect the people of your district. Everything has to be in the public interest."

Practically apoplectic, he decided there and then to run. And it wasn't easy in Brownstone Brooklyn to even find 400 Republicans who would sign the petition needed to get his name on the ballot.

About Atlantic Yards, Nardiello initially thought the plan to bring a professional basketball team to Brooklyn was a slam dunk on many levels, including branding and economic development. "However, I was surprised at the sheer size of the relating residences," he says.

From the sounds of it, Nardiello backs a more holistic approach to development. He believes that there must be a process of communication that includes the city and the councilperson and "not the developer, to share a comprehensive vision and address issues like the traffic on Atlantic Avenue," he wrote in an email.

At the end of 90-minutes I told Nardiello that it was time for me to go. My sister had dropped into Donuts and the three of us walked down to Third Street (it can be hard to shake a politician once they start talking).

It was fun to get to know this Food Coop Republican and the guy running against Democrat Brad Lander and Green party candidate David Pechefsky in the general election on November 3rd. 

As Nardiello told me in an email: "I'm running for our areas — which I will always live in. People have a
new, honest voice and the hardest working representative they'd ever
meet — if they want it. They have to vote the person, not the party to
wash-away partisanship in thelr lifetime, here and now! …I may have
just appeared on the political radar, but I've been here and doing my
best, day to day for quite some time."

photo of Joe Nardiello in Donuts on Seventh Avenue in Park Slope by Louise Crawford

Oct 15: Brooklyn Reading Works Presents Poetry Punch at Old Stone House

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So what is Poetry Punch?

It's BRW's annual fun poetry party curated by Michele Madigan Somerville. She's
put together a GREAT line-up. And I'm gonna read, too. My only regret
is that  Michele won't be reading but I hope she reads something by way
of her introduction. 

How about a nice poetry punch?

When is it?

On
Thursday October 15th at 8 p.m. Come hear Edmund Berrigan, Louise Crawford, Bill Evans Sharon Mesmer, Wanda Phipps, Joanna Sit, Michael
Sweeney
and Jeffrey C. Wright. It's an awesome group.

How about a nice poetry punch?

Where?

At
the Old Stone House. Fifth Avenue and 3rd Street in Park
Slope. Suggested donation of $5. includes punch, wine and snacks.
718-768-3195

How about a nice poetry punch?

This
is ALWAYS a fun, festive reading. A fun night out. These poets write
smart, interesting, juicy, and entertaining poetry. It's good stuff and
there will, of course, be good punch.

Smartmon: A New Couch is Smartmom’s Divan Life

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Smartmom is still stressing about the green leather couch. The
problem isn’t just that Hepcat doesn’t want a new couch. It’s that he
doesn’t want to do the thing that would give Smartmom pleasure.

In fact, this saga about the couch isn’t really about the couch at
all. It’s about something that is at the very center of any marriage
that makes it past the 10-year mark. Sometimes you not only have to do
what your spouse wants — and not just to make him or her happy, but
fully and without reservations.

That’s a good trick.

In other words, marriage can be Machiavellian; the ends (a happy
spouse) do justify the means (doing something that you don’t want to do
only because it makes your spouse happy).

Maybe that’s why Smartmom’s couch troubles have resonated with many of her readers and friends.

Over red wine at Bussaco, Best and Oldest shared the story of buying
her couch. She wanted a “shabby chic”-style couch, but her husband is
into black leather Modernist furniture. It took them two years to pick
out a couch that both of them liked.

And guess what?

That couch didn’t wear well and now — 10 years later — it’s time to shop for a new couch. Fun.

Church Rabbi, Smartmom’s friend who is pastor at Old First Church, e-mailed to say that he wants to come and sit on her couch.

“By the way, our Ikea couch is 18 years old. And it’s in great shape. No springs.”

Why was his couch in such good shape, Smartmom wondered? Must have something to do with God, she decided.

Even Divorce Diva had some helpful ideas for Smartmom.

“I just finished watching an ‘I Love Lucy’ episode on DVD and will
now put myself into Lucy scheming mode and figure out how to get rid of
your couch,” she texted. “You and I could dress up as burglars and
steal it.”

Smartmom loved the idea of the two of them masquerading as of
bandits sneaking into the apartment and taking the couch down three
flights of stairs.

But where would they put the couch? They’d probably have to walk it
a few blocks away and leave it in someone else’s garbage. Buddha knows
that if Hepcat found it in their garbage, he’d just bring it back
upstairs.

Divorce Diva had another Lucy-style idea: have Diaper Diva — who
happens to be a set decorator for movies and commercials — rent the
green leather couch for a set and just let it fall off a truck.
Accidentally.

Smartmom thought that was a great idea, too. But she wasn’t sure if
Diaper Diva would want to get into the middle of Smartmom’s living room
woes.

Still, Divorce Diva’s ideas got Smartmom thinking. Why didn’t she
just set the couch on fire or have Housing Works thrift shop take it
away?

Smartmom appreciated all the feedback from her friends. It helped to
put things in perspective. Indeed, thanks to Best and Oldest, she
learned that she and Hepcat weren’t the only couple who’ve ever had
trouble agreeing on a new couch.

And thanks to Church Rabbi, she learned that they weren’t the only people who had an Ikea couch that lasted 18 years.

She also learned that she wasn’t the only one who secretly
fantasizes about disappearing furniture — books, Hepcat’s clothing, old
magazines, you name it — from the apartment.

But disappearing the couch isn’t really the point. Truth is,
Smartmom knows she could probably twist Hepcat’s arm and get a new
couch, even the Andre, the mid-century modern one she picked out at
Room & Board.

So, what is the point?

Easy. Smartmom wants Hepcat to give her what she wants. She wants
him to bend over backwards — and even buy a couch he doesn’t love —
just because it would bring her pleasure.

It’s not enough to get what she wants. She wants Hepcat to
understand how much what she wants means to her. And to do so without
having to be told what it means to her.

It’s not that Smartmom wants to be treated like a queen. But she
does want devotion — and undying passion. Smartmom wants Hepcat to
shower her with love, appreciation and the Andre couch.

She doesn’t just want to win this fight, she wants him to give her
what she wants — and like it. Not the couch, of course, but the feeling
of doing something one doesn’t want to do simply because one’s spouse
wants it.

So Smartmom is a romantic at heart? You got it?

Some Gossip and Dinner at Moim

A friend wrote to say that she had a tasty dinner of gourmet Korean food at Moim, her favorite Park Slope restaurant and ran into various and sundry friends.

"I saw your "Slope
100" Auster and Hustvedt and family…also, Maggie G. at the Greenmarket,
and Leanne from Project Runway now lives in Park Slope. so; sorry we
lost Bettany and Connelly, but we have plenty of frisson-inducers here.
Now if we could only get them all to the Develop Don't Destroy Walkathon Oct 17!!!"

Develop Don't Destroy Brooklyn's annual walkathon to raise funds for the legal fight against the Atlantic yards is on October 17th. Register here.