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OTBKB Film by Pops Corn: Why So Serious?

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If you have teenagers, enjoy your freedom for a few hours while they flock to The Twilight Saga: New Moon.  And if you’re concerned that your children should pursue more serious endeavors, then you aren’t visiting enough multiplexes.  You see, nothing is more serious than contemporary blockbusters.

Indeed, Lady Gaga is not the only poker-faced entertainment in your teen’s lives.  Popcorn is served with heaping doses of sincerity now.  And it is not only palatable to the blockbuster-mentality crowd.  Critics and, even Oscar are eating it up.  So, if I may quote a decidedly non-comic supervillain named Joker, “Why so serious?”

Backing up we can perhaps trace the trend to comic books.  I’m not well-versed in comics, but series like The Dark Knight and Watchmen, both now successfully (and morosely) adapted to the big screen, brought bleak storylines and no-nonsense (ok, there was tons of nonsense, but not the fun kind) storytelling.  The face of the medium changed. “Dark” became critical codeword for “of greater value,” and film critics have followed suit.  When reviews hailed Christopher Nolan’s film version of The Dark Knight as the darkest comic book adaptation ever made, it was assumed you understood that meant the best.  How could corn like 1979’s Superman even compare?

Comic-inspired films seemed to kick off the trend in the movies, a medium that is rarely first out of the gate.  While Tim Burton’s Batman hinted at what was to come with its conflicted hero and goth-black production design, there was still some fun to be had with a goofy Joker and Prince songs like “Party Man.”  The first true trailblazers of the fun-sapped popcorn movies to me are the first two M. Night Shyamalan successes, The Sixth Sense and Unbreakable.  The latter, especially. Steeped in comic book lore, Unbreakable is a somber-toned thriller with a loser super-hero introduced to us, not as a larger than life figure, but as a flawed man.  To defend M. Night Shyamalan at this point is a little like defending George W. Bush in my circles, but I truly believe that these films literally set the tone. 

As these films ushered in a new era, we bid adieu to the sea of irony that mass-market commercial art had been drowning in.  Did anyone keep a running count of how many times one of Charlie’s Angels winked at us, literally, over the course of two features?  And Joel Schumacher became irony’s fall guy for crossing the line between inserting-fun-into and poking-fun-at the beloved Batman series; die-hards are still livid. 

In the wake of these works, Hobbits got Oscars, James Bond had to match Matthew Bourne’s grit, vampire teens got sullen and Judd Apatow even made lowbrow comedy serious. Most recently, Where The Wild Things Are emerged from a 30-page children’s book about rowdy monsters as a psychological study.

Got on the topic of Ben Stiller with a friend recently, and I thought about how Stiller’s ironic comedic style is out of sync with this recent development.  I then actually craved some of that irony (such a component of Stiller’s work that its very definition is discussed in his first feature, Reality Bites) if only to lighten the atmosphere. It was then I thought about putting this post together and how I would complain about the seriousness of the current cinema.  And while I have grown weary of the somber cinema and will never understand how the moviegoing public and critical wing can take some of these works seriously, I’m realizing now that I have been party to this movement as well and enjoyed a lot of the films that have kept our faces straight.  So don’t be surprised if that’s me knocking over your teen on my mad dash to New Moon.

Recycle Rechargeable Batteries and Cell Phones at Greenmarkets

Here's a press release from the Council on the Environment of New York City (CENYC) , which starting this week is placing collection boxes to recycle old rechargeable batteries and cell phones at select Greenmarket farmers markets across the city.

 
CENYC has joined the Recyclable Battery Recycling Corporation’s (RBRC) national Call2Recycle™ program which will help NYC residents conveniently recycle their cell phones and portable rechargeable batteries.   All of the materials collected through the Call2Recycle program are recycled and used to create other types of materials, including new batteries and scrap metal. None of the material broken down from the recycling of rechargeable batteries and cell phones makes its ways into landfills.
 
Residents can now easily recycle these items at eight Greenmarket locations in Manhattan and Brooklyn.  “By participating in the Call2Recycle program, we’re able to conserve natural resources and at the same time prevent harmful materials from entering our landfills,” said CENYC Executive Director Marcel Van Ooyen.  “This program is one of the ways we help New Yorkers recycle better, reuse more, and reduce waste.”
 
Rechargeable batteries are commonly found in cellular and cordless phones, laptop computers, cordless power tools, two-way radios, camcorders, digital cameras, and a variety of other portable electronic products. When the battery can no longer hold a charge, it can and should be recycled.  In fact, with the implementation of Local Law 97 of 2005, it has been illegal for NYC resident to discard rechargeable batteries in the trash since December 2006.  Additionally, the average American cell phone user has a total of 3 or more cell phones and 6 cordless electronic products in their possession.
 
“Community participation is a crucial part of our program because it puts us in touch with the public,” says Carl Smith, RBRC President. “Communities like New York City are helping to make rechargeable battery and cell phone recycling a reality, and that’s great for the environment.”
 
“We’ve seen how textile recycling programs at our farmers markets are a success and we are thrilled to add rechargeable batteries and cell phones to the list of materials we collect for recycling,” said Greenmarket Director Michael Hurwitz. “Our Greenmarkets are becoming the go-to resource for sustainable living—with many offering compost collections, textile recycling, and other community-based activities.”

Leon Freilich, Verse Responder: Humming in Prospect Park

HUMMING IN PROSPECT PARK

Keep your eyes peeled
For a green field
With a sky of burnished blue
Rim of roses
That encloses
A magical place for you.

Nothing stressful, only yesful,
On a gently sloping hill.
Robins winging,
Finches singing,
Otherwise the world is still.

It's your very own oasis,
The most personal of spaces,
Dominating the list of bests,
Reserved just for you and your guests. 

Need to find this rare location?
Set forth without hesitation–
Make for your imagination.

Watch your woes yield
At the green field
With the sky of burnished blue.
Rim of roses
That encloses
The magical place for you.

Making Parking Easier With Twitter & Texts

Have you seen the people in grey sweatshirts that say "Let's Make Parking Easier" giving out flyers on Seventh Avenue?  I got a dirty one that was left on the street. It said.

Park Slope is considered the worst neighborhood for parking in NYC. It takes an average of 27 minutes to find street parking. Approx. 67% of traffic is caused by drivers looking for a spot.

Parkingaroundme.com claims that they can make parking easier with a community-driven approach to finding street parking quickly.

I checked out the web site and it seems to be a free service that enables drivers tell each
other about available street parking through text messaging or Twitter.

They're starting in Park Slope Brooklyn (focused on the area around New
York Methodist Hospital) and plan to cover the rest of NYC very soon.

You probably have a lot of questions. So do I. Here's their FAQ:

  1. Why would I want to participate in this?
  2. How do I get/give parking spots?
  3. Do I have to give spots to get spots?
  4. What if I need a spot but Roadify tells me there aren't any available?
  5. What if the spot I claimed on Roadify isn't available when I get there?
  6. What if I spend a point for a spot but don’t get it?
  7. Isn’t txting, Twittering and the like dangerous to do when you’re driving?
  8. I get road, flight and mass transit info through other sources. How is Roadify different?
  9. Why does Roadify want my car's make and model?
  10. Why is Roadify good for our community, the environment and the like?
  11. How do you make money on this?
  12. When are you expanding beyond the New York Methodist Hospital area?
  13. When will Roadify include more than just parking information?
  14. How does Roadify protect my privacy?
  15. What if I have a question you’re not answering?

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Nov 21: Animal Songs with Jazzy Janine Nichols at Roulette

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I just got this email from vocalist Janine Nichols:

Hi there,

If you could, would you please make mention of the
show I'm doing for kids at Roulette on Saturday? The rehearsals are
going so well! The program: songs about animals from outside the
usual children's songbook —- songs by Nick Cave, Leadbelly, Timbuk 3,
Louis Jordan…. you get the picture!

ROULETTE is in Manhattan, I know, but the Trio is all Brooklyn!

Sat Nov 21  2pm
Roulette
Greene St north of Canal
$5

Young Writers Night Thursday at the Old Stone House

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YOUNG WRITERS NIGHT! This Thursday at the Old Stone House.

Brooklyn Reading Works presents its first ever Young Writers Night, an evening of
fiction, poetry and songs from young (ages 13-18) writers from across the city. The Old Stone House. Third Street and Fifth Avenue in Park Slope at 7 PM. $5 SUGGESTED donation includes refreshments. Curated by Jill Eisenstadt.

Hannah Frishberg
Maria Robbins Somerville
Ben Waldman
Avery Whitted
Lily Konigsberg
Henry Crawford
Lucio Westmoreland
Eli Greenhoe

Learn How To Blog with OTBKB: Three Wednesdays in December

Do you have something to share with the world ?Why not BLOG IT? Blogging for self-expression, business, social change or pleasure. Learn how at BAX!

Learn how to blog with Only the Blog Knows Brooklyn, in a hands-on
workshop covering technical, creative and conceptual issues. In this
class we will discuss blog design, how to write a great blog post,
top-ten tips for new bloggers, search engine optimization, social
networking platforms and more.

You don’t need to know a thing about blogging. All you need is the desire to blog!

Louise Crawford
runs Only the Blog Knows Brooklyn and is the Smartmom columnist for the
Brooklyn Paper. She produces the annual Brooklyn Blogfest and Brooklyn
Reading Works, a monthly literary reading series at the Old Stone House
in Park Slope. As a freelance writer her work has appeared in Newsweek,
the Associated Press and BKLYN Magazine. She has taught How to Blog
workshops at BAX, Adelphi University, Baruch College and at
Writers-at-the-Beach in Rehobeth, Delaware.

Wednesdays  |  December 2 – December 16  |  7:00 – 9:00pm

$45 for the workshop (no drop-ins)

Here's how to register:

by phone: call (718) 832-0018

by mail: download the registration form here, fill-it out and send it in with payment

in person: at the front desk

We accept Visa, Master Card, and Discover

For more information call (718) 832-0018 or email info@bax.org.

Thurs: Paper Love One-Year Anniversary Party

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A note from the lovely Alison at Paper Love:

Hello Paper Love Friends!

Drop by this Thursday night (the 19th) from 6 to 9
for our One-Year Anniversary Celebration!

20%-off Sale including very lovely Holiday Boxed Cards
20%-off Custom Holiday Card Orders
Sweet Treats
Super Cool Raffle Prize

Come get some Paper XOXO….

About Alison and Paper Love:

Me
Alison Alfandre, proprietor, is a former style editor
and writer at magazines like The Knot, Budget Living, and Organic
Style. She opened Paper Love in November 2008 to provide the people of
Park Slope with fresh and fun paper goods that would make their
fingertips twitch with the want to handwrite notes and letters again.

We
at Paper Love also believe that life's significant events like births,
weddings, and holiday greetings should be marked with the timeless
traditions of paper and envelopes and we'll find or create a superb and
affordable invitation just for you.

Alison
is an artist and hand draws anything from elegant barns to oak trees,
elephants, and lily pads for your especially customized invitation
needs.

See you there!
Paper Love
178A Lincoln Place
Park Slope

Brooklyn Reading Works Presents: Young Writers Night on Thursday

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Brooklyn Reading Works presents its first ever Young Writers Night, an evening of
fiction, poetry and songs from young (ages 13-18) writers from across the city. The Old Stone House. Third Street and Fifth Avenue in Park Slope at 7 PM. $5 SUGGESTED donation includes refreshments. Curated by Jill Eisenstadt.

Hannah Frishberg
Maria Robbins Somerville
Ben Waldman
Avery Whitted
Lily Konigsberg
Henry Crawford
Lucio Westmoreland
Eli Greenhoe

How To Blog with OTBKB: Three Wednesdays in December!

Do you have something to share with the world. Why not BLOG IT?
Blogging for self-expression, business, social change or pleasure.
Learn how at BAX!

Learn how to blog with Only the Blog Knows Brooklyn, in a hands-on
workshop covering technical, creative and conceptual issues. In this
class we will discuss blog design, how to write a great blog post,
top-ten tips for new bloggers, search engine optimization, social
networking platforms and more.

You don’t need to know a thing about blogging. All you need is the desire to blog!

Louise Crawford
runs Only the Blog Knows Brooklyn and is the Smartmom columnist for the
Brooklyn Paper. She produces the annual Brooklyn Blogfest and Brooklyn
Reading Works, a monthly literary reading series at the Old Stone House
in Park Slope. As a freelance writer her work has appeared in Newsweek,
the Associated Press and BKLYN Magazine. She has taught How to Blog
workshops at BAX, Adelphi University, Baruch College and at
Writers-at-the-Beach in Rehobeth, Delaware.

Wednesdays  |  December 2 – December 16  |  7:00 – 9:00pm

$45 for the workshop (no drop-ins)

Here's how to register:

by phone: call (718) 832-0018

by mail: download the registration form here, fill-it out and send it in with payment

in person: at the front desk

We accept Visa, Master Card, and Discover

For more information call (718) 832-0018 or email info@bax.org.

3 Sundays in December: Something To Do With Your Kids in Tribeca

“Bring Your Own Kid” to 92YTribeca every Sunday for great music that both parents and kids will enjoy. It’s the series designed with the hipster parent in mind, and a chance for their rock and roll offspring to let loose. There’s lots of space for kids to dance and for parents to schmooze over brunch and coffee (our cafe will fill all your culinary needs). So whether you ' re a mom, dad, or just the babysitter, pack up the posse and come on in for some tunes that will keep both adults and the little ones rockin’.

Sun, Dec 6, 11 am, $15
RANI ARBO & DAISY MAHEM
Fronted by triple threat singer-songwriter-fiddler Rani Arbo, daisy mayhem plays "neo old-timey music with cosmopolitan splashes of contemporary pop and jazz." Expect musical treats from a pre civil war song from the Georgia Sea Islands sung over a New Orleans style groove, to an old Irish fiddle tune with new lyrics, capped with a solo on a South American box drum. The group is also currently putting finishing touches on a new children's album.
www.92YTribeca.org/BYOK

Sun, Dec 13, 11 am, $15
PRINCESS KATIE & RACER STEVE
Get ready to rock out…royally! Princess Katie & Racer Steve bring their tremendously popular kiddie rock concerts straight from the Kingdom to BYOK. With their critically-acclaimed CDs, Songs For The Coolest Kids and Fast & Feisty chosen as Parenting Magazine’s picks for Best Music CDs, Princess Katie & Racer Steve offer cool takes on popular music sounds ranging from funk and swing to electric rock ‘n’ roll and pop.
www.92YTribeca.org/BYOK

Sun, Dec 20, 11 am, $15
SECRET AGENT 23 SKIDOO
Secret Agent 23 Skidoo is on a mission: Combine a love of hip-hop with storytelling, and bring a half pint dance party unlike any other. His tools: Funk, reggae, bluegrass, and creative rhymes, with some dragons, mermaids, robots and sea monsters thrown in for good measure. The result? “The best album of kid-oriented hip-hop you’ll ever hear.” Mission : Accomplished.
www.92YTribeca.org/BYOK

If You Love The Bell House: VOTE!

I've never been but I hear about it all the time. That's why I'm posting this request from The Bell House that you vote your opinion about the best club in NYC! Wow. That would be a pretty awesome honor for a 1-year-old club in the Gowanus nabe. This email is from Jinners at The Bell House

Thanks for all of your support over the past year. The Bell House
has been around now for over a year, and what a year it's been thanks
to the support of all of our friends! We are nominated for "Best Club"
in Paper Magazine's 5th Annual Nightlife Awards. We'd love it if you
could please take a second to vote for The Bell House. 

Brad Lander Picks Chief of Staff and Policy/Legislative Director; Still Hiring

Just got this email from 39th District City Council member-elect, Brad Lander. He's hired two important staff members and is looking for more.

As I gear up to take office in January, I'm pleased to report that
we've hired our first two staff … and to ask for your help in
recruiting a few others.
  • Rachel Goodman will
    be my Chief of Staff:  Rachel has great experience in both the
    political and not-for-profit world, and was a central part of our
    campaign team.  She'll be responsible for running the office, setting
    strategy, and keeping us on track to achieve ambitious goals we've laid
    out.

  • Michael Freedman-Schnapp
    will be the Policy/Legislative Director:  Many of you know Michael from
    his work as Volunteer Director during the campaign, or before that as
    Senior Policy Associate for the New York Industrial
    Retention Network.


I'm thrilled that they've both agreed to work with me.
We are looking to fill three more positions, and would really appreciate your help in recruiting great candidates for them:

Job descriptions for each position can be seen by clicking on the job titles (and can be reached from our website, at www.bradlander.com).  Interested applicants should send a resume and cover letter to resume@bradlander.com

Putting a great team together is, of course, one of the most
important steps in getting set to deliver on the goals and ideas we
talked about during the campaign, and to doing a great job over the
next four years.

Wed at Babeland: Sex and the New Dad

Wednesday, November 18, 07:00PM, FREE!
Babeland Brooklyn, 462 Bergen Street
 

This month’s event will feature Eric Garrison, a sexologist and
counselor, who will speak with men about the pre- and post-partum
changes going on in their partner’s bodies. Perfect for expectant dads,
new dads and anyone who would like to learn more about how hormones,
breastfeeding, and sleep deprivation can affect their partner’s body.
Complimentary refreshments will be served. This event is jointly
sponsored by Choices in Childbirth/New Space for Women’s Health, Bump
and Park Slope Parents.

OTBKB Music: Monday and Tuesday Nights

Brookylncard Stay in the nabe tonight and see a three-fer for free.  The Brooklyn
Songwriters Exchange
is holding its last show for 2009 at Union Hall.  Here's
what they say about it:

The show features great local songwriter and alt-country champion Matt
Keating
with his band, as well as Misra recording artist and
ambient/mazzy-star oriented songwriter Emily Rodgers from Pittsburgh
with her band and host Rebecca Pronsky will open the evening with her
trio, debuting some new tunes and playing a few old favorites.  All our
shows are FREE to attend.

The Brooklyn Songwriters Exchange, Union Hall, 702 Union Street at 5th Avenue, 7:30 doors, 8pm show, Free

********

Sasha Rockwood On Tuesday, OTBKB Music favorite Sasha Dobson will be playing at The
Rockwood Music Hall
.  Although Sasha is now part of the Norah Jones
Touring Band, she's taking the night off to play her own new material,
which will be on Sasha's new EP, due imminently, perhaps
at this show.  Although Sasha is going on late, it is well worth your
while to catch this talented artist.

Sasha Dobson, The Rockwood Music Hall, 196 Allen Street (F Train to Second Avenue, take the First Avenue exit), 11pm, No Cover

 – Eliot Wagner

I’d Never Been to Bushwick Before

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Saturday night we drove to Bushwick to see Bad Teeth at Good Bye Blue Monday.

At the recommendation of City Council member-elect Steve Levin we tried Northeast Kingdom at 81 Wyckoff Street. Our Google directions were quite good and we made the somewhat complicated route to the restaurant without any problems. We now think we could figure out an easier route on our own.

The restaurant was wonderful. You know when you have the feeling that you're making a great discovery of something wonderful and unknown in a neighborhood you've never been to.

Well, that's how I felt except the restaurant was packed and it's been open since 2005. So I'm a latecomer to the Northeast Kingdom thing.

Clearly the cozy, New England style tavern with wooden booths and tables has loyal fans and the food is fantastic. The menu runs the gamut from hamburgers (made with natural beef) to a specialty Chicken Pot Pie. A vegetarian entree with rolled collard greens was so good my mother-in-law asked the chef for the recipe.

And guess what? He obliged

Our waitress  was extremely nice and attentive, the service was fast and they've got a great wine and drink list plus a large list of beers of liquors (and a lounge downstairs).

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Afterwards we drove over to Good Bye Blue Monday, a funky cafe/bar/club with a main stage and a backroom/backyard for rock shows. Bad Teeth and Mother Courage were great.

Thursday: Young Writers Night at Brooklyn Reading Works

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Brooklyn Reading Works presents its first ever Young Writers Night, an evening of
fiction, poetry and songs from young (ages 13-18) writers from across the city. The Old Stone House. Third Street and Fifth Avenue in Park Slope at 7 PM. $5 SUGGESTED donation includes refreshments.

Hannah Frishberg
Maria Robbins Somerville
Ben Waldman
Avery Whitted
Lily Konigsberg
Henry Crawford
Lucio Westmoreland
Eli Greenhoe

Thurs: Jonathan Safran Foer Reading From Eating Animals At Old First Church

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There's a big event this coming Thursday –
Jonathan Safran Foer reading from his new book  Eating Animals at Old First Church,
with a reception afterwords at the bookstore.

According to Catherine Bohne, owner of the Community Bookstore, it was Foer's idea to read from the book at the church but to have the reception at the bookstore because he wanted to help raise funds for the
bookstore. That's why there's a $10 price tag. 
 

Foer and the Community Bookstore are hoping that people will want to hang out with this
favorite author and support the bookstore in the process.

Here are the 'tails (there's also a link to the CB website events page):
 
 

Jonathan Safran Foer
Reading from EATING ANIMALS
Thursday, November 19
6:30 p.m.
At Old First Church
Corner of 7th and President
 
Free reading, to be followed by a reception at the bookstore ($10
admission to the reception, with cheese and wine and the author and
more wine to be provided).
 

 

Voluntary Recall of MacLaren Umbrella Strollers: Fingtip Amputation Risk

We used to "drive" a Maclaren stroller:

Consistent with our unwavering commitment to child safety we are
providing U.S. consumers notice of a voluntary recall of all Maclaren
umbrella strollers sold in the U.S. In cooperation with the U.S.
Consumer Product Safety Commission, we are providing free of charge to
all affected consumers and retailers a kit to cover the stroller's
hinge mechanism, which poses a fingertip amputation and laceration
hazard to the child when the consumer is unfolding/opening the
stroller. The affected models include Volo, Triumph, Quest Sport, Quest
Mod, Techno XT, Techno XLR, Twin Triumph, Twin Techno and Easy
Traveller.

Maclaren USA's Umbrella Strollers meet all U.S. ASTM & JPMA
compliance standards. These certifications guarantee our umbrella
strollers meet the maximum safety standards available. The voluntary
recall is to alert the operator when opening or closing the stroller of
the possible risk of injury.

Safety is our first priority and through this voluntary effort we urge consumers to contact us immediately to obtain the kit which consists of hinge covers designed specifically to fit all Maclaren strollers.

Maclaren stresses all operators read the instruction manual prior to
use which contains valuable safety tips and service recommendations.

Neighborhoods Resisting the H1N! Vaccine?

The Upper West Side and Park Slope. Of course.

What has led to this new epidemic of fear? The answer is complex, involving a convergence of multiple factors: a lack of understanding of how science works, mistrust in medicine in general and in expert advice even more generally, mistrust in government oversight and the pharmaceutical industry, and a growing counter-culture trend, particularly in more highly educated socio-economic populations. The most common vaccine concerns can be summarized as follows:

  1. Vaccines have been linked to autism – While this is true, vaccines have been linked to autism, they don’t actually have anything to do with autism. I will not tackle this myth here, but suffice it to say, not a single shred of valid scientific evidence has ever been put forth to support a causal link between vaccines and autism. However, volume upon volume of excellent, peer-reviewed data has unequivocally shown no such a linkage [for a complete set of references, see the references section of this post from the Science-Based Medicine blog].
  2. Vaccine ingredients, like thimerosal, aluminum, squalene, and others can lead to immunological and neurological consequences in infants – Again, no valid data exists to support such a belief, and the existing science points us in the opposite direction.
  3. Too many vaccines can overwhelm an infant’s immune system, leading to a host of disease conditions – This is absurd on its face to anyone familiar with basic immunological principles. All of the childhood vaccines combined, are but a mere drop in the bucket compared to the immunological challenges an infant faces every day. Not only can an infant’s immune system easily handle the combinations recommended in the routine schedule, but the number of immunologic stressors, if you will, contained in the current schedule (that enormous, and growing list the anti-vaccine community complains so much about) has actually been decreasing due to improved vaccine technologies [2].

Smartmom: Life is a Circle Game

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Joni Mitchell wrote that life is a circle game and that “we can’t return, we can only look behind …”

But Smartmom has found that you can return when you have an adorable
5-year-old niece who gives you ample opportunities to re-experience
many of the pleasures of having a kindergartener without any of the
headaches.

This comes at just the right time for Smartmom, who feels like an
empty nester because her son is attending Gap Year University (OK, so
his dorm room is his childhood bedroom) and her 12-year-old daughter
has suddenly entered the “leave me alone” phase of adolescence.

Neither of them wants to spend much time with Smartmom.

But Ducky seems more than willing to be with Smartmom (or, more
accurately, Smartaunt). In fact, once a week, Smartmom picks her up at
PS 321, takes her to her after-school art class at Bernette Rudolph’s
Third Street studio, and hangs out with her at the apartment until
dinner.

Smartmom is thrilled to have a reason to enter the hallowed halls of
PS 321 again without feeling like a stalker. Thanks to Ducky, she
actually has a legitimate reason to be there.

Smartmom loves to enter Ducky’s kindergarten classroom, where she
spots Ducky sitting in her coat and backpack waiting at her desk. When
Ducky eyes Smartmom, she jumps up and runs to her.

Kiss, kiss. Hug. Hug. What joy!

Smartmom can still remember when Teen Spirit and OSFO were young
enough to do that. Not anymore do they jump up and run to Smartmom when
they see her coming.

Before going to Ducky’s art class, the two usually spend time in the
playground, where Smartmom helps Ducky practice her routines on the
parallel bars.

Later they go to the ices lady, who stands in front of the school.

Most of all, Smartmom appreciates that Ducky actually listens to what Smartmom has to say.

When Ducky hands Smartmom her backpack and asks her to hold it,
Smartmom just tells her to hold it herself. And guess what? Ducky puts
it back on.

When Smartmom tells her it’s time to leave the playground, Ducky
listens. Sure, she’d like to spend more time running around, but she
does as Smartmom says.

It’s been a long time since either of Smartmom’s children listened quite so attentively.

When they get to the art class, Smartmom can even pretend that Ducky
is her daughter. Smartmom looks exactly like her identical twin sister
Diaper Diva anyway.

In these ways and more, Smartmom’s Tuesdays with Ducky have been a win-win.

Halloween this year was also a special day to be with Ducky.
Smartmom was feeling a tad blue because she knew that OSFO had plans
with her friends that night and wouldn’t be trick-or-treating or going
to the parade with Smartmom. And Teen Spirit had tickets to see Weezer
at the Hammerstein Ballroom in Manhattan.

On Halloween morning, Smartmom, Diaper Diva and Ducky, who was
dressed as a very elegant Lady Bug, walked to the Farmers Market at
Grand Army Plaza, where there was a jug band and a puppeteer
entertaining children with a Humpty Dumpty puppet.

The trio continued into Prospect Park where they waited on an incredibly long line to do the Spook Walk.

At first, the three of them enjoyed seeing all the witches, ghouls
and vampires that were splayed around the woodsy area of the park.

But then Ducky got really scared. And the vampire who popped out of
a cardboard coffin really freaked Smartmom out, too. Luckily there was
a good fairy standing on the sidelines, who was quite adept at
comforting the children.

“Would you like to hug this teddy bear,” she asked Ducky sweetly.

“Are you a psychologist?” Smartmom asked the good fairy later.

“No, I’m a high school student,”

“You’re very good at this,” Smartmom told her.

Ducky told Smartmom that she never wanted do the Spook Walk
ever again. And Smartmom couldn’t blame her. They hurried out of the
Spook Walk area and Ducky felt much better when they were back on the
Park Drive heading for home.

When Smartmom got home she reflected on her Halloween with Ducky and
the circle game. Her own children were “going round and round on the
carousel of time.” They were too old for Halloween the way it used to
be and were now leading more independent lives.

This was hard to face. It made Smartmom feel old and sad because she
has great memories of all the Halloweens they’d spent together. Visions
of Teen Spirit as Quisp, Tin Tin and a “boy in a rainstorm” flashed
before her eyes as did images of OSFO dressed as just about every
Disney princess you can imagine.

That’s why Smartmom was so grateful to Ducky. It was fun to be her
aunt this Halloween, especially at this stage when her own children
seem to be moving on.

Next weekend, she’s going to take Ducky to the Prospect Park Carousel so they can watch “the painted ponies go up and down.”

Ducky is going to love it.

Monkey Business for Brooklyn Singles

Blush-Monkey
After 12 years in the corporate world, Sarah Blush was laid
off and at a turning point. “It was a do or die moment,” she says. She was
seriously overweight, miserable and desperate to start her own business.

  After much contemplation—and time at Crunch Fitness, Blush
lost 70 pounds and decided to launch Blush Monkey, a service for Brooklyn
singles.

  “I can’t cure cancer but I  decided that
love is a valid way to help the world," Blush told me. “How many people would be much
happier if they had someone to hold hands with?”

  So what is this dating service with the funny name?

 Blush organizes events for Brooklyn singles—straight and gay—and offers a different and less stressful of way of meeting. “Dating should be better,
easier and more fun,” she writes on the Blush Monkey website.

Blush Monkey events run from the “the highly targeted to
super inventive.” Designed to create an environment conducive to love, or like,
singles pay a fee to attend an event at a Brooklyn bar.

Blush tries to create a fun, friendly environment conducive
to low key communication. “I want people to open their hearts and talk to
everyone in the room,” she tells me. She comes up with fun questions that she gives everyone on
arrival. “What makes you laugh so hard it hurts?” might be one. In this way,
she gives people a conversation starter other than: “So what do you do for a
living?”

The goal is to take the awkward out of dating. "We
want to endear people to each other, make them laugh, and show off all
the brains! Welcome to dating that doesn't suck!

On November 27th Blush Monkey is sponsoring an event with NPR for Geeks and Freaks. This event is pre-paid only and the location for this event will be sent by email once your RSVP is
completed.

Blush writes: "Wear what you feel comfortable in. Be yourself, although unless
otherwise noted, shirts and shoes are required in most venues. We also
suggest you don't come right from the gym or as a total wreck."

If this approach turns you on,
check out the Blush Monkey website.  Blush will be thrilled to hear from you. “We love love,” she
writes. “So consider yourself invited. Take the bull by the horns and join us
for dating that includes targeted events and secrets at every corner.”

ILLUSTRATION BY ERIKA LOPEZ

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