This Man is Looking for Friends

SecuredownloadWhy would a young man set up a folding table near the entrance to Prospect Park in Grand Army Plaza with a sign that read: Friends?

Is it a performance piece? Desperation? A joke? A magazine project? A sociological experiment? 

A note on the desk asked, "Will you be my friend." The note explained that this 36-year-old writer, who currently works as a proof reader and copy editor, is looking for friends. There was also a sign-up sheet for potential girlfriends.

He listed his interests, which included books and writing. I can’t remember the rest. 

This man, who asked me not to use his name, said that he came to New York City five years ago from Philadelphia to work in finance. But now he works freelance in book publishing. He is looking for a full time job in the publishing business.

He does have friends, he explained. But most of them are in Philadelphia.

"Is this a writing project?" I asked. I was sure that there had to be another reason why he’d set up  this table with the sign-up sheets.

"No," he said. "But I do write."

"What happens if I sign up to be your friend," I said warily.

"I’ll probably call you. We can talk on the phone, have a cup of coffee," he said.

Well, readers. I signed up to be his friend. I guess I signed up for MY writing project: this blog. I told the friend-seeker that I would put his picture on my blog.

"Don’t use my name," he said.

Walking away I wondered if he’d really call. I hoped he wasn’t a serial killer or some kind of nut. Maybe he just wants to make some friends.

Sitting at a table at the entrance to Prospect Park: It’s certainly a novel way to do it.

6 thoughts on “This Man is Looking for Friends”

  1. Found that dream job yet? I have a business opportunity that might work,depending on his skills. Friendship with someone who’s not a total loon is good too.

  2. I dont care what you are, as long as i feel how you feel. i am also looking for a true best friend.I want someone to be there for me, someone to lean on when i needed the most attention, i want somebidy to know me and understand me and care for me at least as a friend.
    Hope your a good MAN. Please reply to me via e-mail once you read my comment. or if just some know you, i hope he/she will tell you that someone is waiting for a reply.

  3. Hey that’s me! No, I’m not a serial killer or nut. I will call Louise, honest.
    – Omar
    P.S. Thanks “rh”. Eddy, don’t get any crazy ideas.

  4. Well, speaking as a recent newcomer to Brooklyn after living the last 32 years in Colorado, I think I get it! Its so hard to meet people when you are new to an area, particularly if you have a busy work life with kids that require babysitters!

  5. This sounds like something I would do were I more apt to put myself out there. Yeah, it’s a bit sad, but good for him nonetheless.

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