Monthly Archives: May 2008
Park Slope Food Coop Votes To Ban Plastic Bags
The Brookyn Paper calls it an environmental triumph. Unlike OTBKB, BP’s editor Gersh Kuntzman stayed until the end of the meeting. So he got the scoop.
In one of the most lopsided votes since the re-election of Chairman Mao in 1954, members of Brooklyn’s famously progressive supermarket, the Park Slope Food Co-op, voted nearly unanimously on Tuesday night to stop making plastic shopping bags available at the checkout counter.
In doing so, the 14,000-member grocery store is now in good company with bag-banning locales like Rwanda, Uganda, Bangladesh, China, San Francisco and the Republic of Whole Foods.
It was the second environmental triumph for the Co-op in as many months; in April, the Union Street supermarket voted to stop selling bottled water.
In both cases, the well-being of the planet was cited as the motivation — like water bottles, plastic bags are made from petroleum — and the notion of customer convenience was dismissed.
(Full disclosure: I’m not only The Brooklyn Paper’s Park Slope Food Co-op beat reporter; I’m also a member.)
“I will be so happy to see the plastic bags gone, gone, gone!” said Jane Bayer, a 34-year member of the Co-op, using her allotted three minutes at the Tuesday night meeting to thunder against America’s “addiction” to the thin-plastic bags.
“We don’t need them. Some people say they reuse them, but how many times? Once, twice? That’s no big savings. It will be hard to give up plastic bags, but we can do it. We don’t need them! We can do it! It should be done. It must be done.”
It was a night of passion, persuasion and props.
Hospital: A Book About Brooklyn’s Maimonides
I heard Julie Salamon, the author of this book, on Brian Lehrer this morning and it sounds like a very interesting book. She is also the author of “The Devil’s Candy” about the making of the film, Bonfire of the Vanities. Her new book is called, Hospital: Man, Woman, Birth, Death, Infinity, Plus Red Tape, Bad Behavior, Money, God andDiversity on Steroids. Here’s the blurb from Amazon.
Most people agree that there are complicated issues at play in the delivery of health care today, but those issues may not always be what we think they are. In 2005, Maimonides Hospital in Brooklyn, New York, unveiled a new state-of-theart, multimillion-dollar cancer center. Determined to understand the whole spectrum of factors that determine what kind of medical care people receive in this country, bestselling author Julie Salamon spent one year tracking the progress of the center and getting to know the characters who make the hospital run. Located in a community where sixty-seven different languages are spoken, Maimonides is a case study for the particular kinds of concerns that arise in institutions that serve an increasingly multicultural American demographic. Granted an astonishing “warts and all” level of access by the hospital higher-ups, Salamon followed the doctors, patients, administrators, nurses, ambulance drivers, cooks, and cleaning staff. She explored not just the action on the ground—what happens between doctors and patients—but also the financial, ethical, technological, sociological, and cultural matters that the hospital community encounters every day.
Jamie Livingston Polaroid-A-Day on Very Short List
Lots of traffic expected. Here’s the story on Very Short List. The Jamie Livingston site seems to be holding up well thanks to Hugh and friends in Minneapolis.
When that itch surfaces to revisit all the big moments in our lives (the proms, weddings, births, European vacations), we naturally reach for the photo album. But where are all those other days — that Tuesday in March, say, when, as far as we can recall, nothing happened? The New York–based cinematographer Jamie Livingston found something worth photographing that day, and the next, as he meticulously (and miraculously) chronicled twenty years of his life in Polaroids before succumbing to cancer in 1997, on his 41st birthday.
Photo of the Day is the beautifully sad website erected by Livingston’s friends to catalogue his prodigious output, with 6,697 captured moments ranging from the mundane to the sublime. There he is napping in one, and newly engaged in another. His lovely gesture of toting around a camera to immortalize the everyday, every day, feels oddly prescient. After all, that cell-phone camera you carry everywhere? Maybe use it or lose it, forever.
More On Public Pre-K Letters
My Sidewalk Chalk has some phone numbers you can use if you need help navigating the Department of Education.
Yikes, the Pre-K letters are coming in and from the anecdotal evidence on the yahoo neighborhood groups there are some in-zone families with siblings that are not getting their placements. This may be an indication of errors in the system. Just in case this isn’t a limited problem, I have listed a couple of contacts here to try and get answers. It would also be helpful to know when families start receiving acceptance letters…
There are new unconfirmed reports from the yahoo groups. Parents that contacted the Enrollment Office this afternoon said that if you come to the Office on or after June 23 you can receive an informational booklet that will contain a list of schools with remaining available seats and a new application. The new application will have a due date to go through the process all over for the remaining open seats.
Food Coop Membership Votes on Plastic Bags
I was at the general meeting tonight but I had to leave early. A lot of people came out for the meeting, which was at Congregation Beth Elohim; a number of people I spoke with acknowledged the historic nature of the vote. The Food Coop voting no on plastic bags would, like the vote on plastic water bottles, send a message loud and clear that they are serious about environmental issues.
I am not sure what the outcome of the vote at tonight’s meeting was but I am guessing that the membership present voted to ban plastic bags: an important move on the part of the Food Coop.
No Words Daily Pix: Photograph by Hugh Crawford
Granddaughter of Woody Guthrie at Union Hall

On May 28, Sarah Lee Guthrie & Johnny Irion will perform an acoustic duo set at Union Hall in Brooklyn, NY. The duo tours in support of their debut collaborative album, Exploration, and Irion’s recently recorded solo effort, Ex Tempore. Show is at 702 Union Street at 7:30. $12/$14 bucks gets you in.
The granddaughter of legendary folk music icon Woody Guthrie, and daughter of Arlo Guthrie, Sarah Lee Guthrie and her songwriter-guitarist husband Johnny Irion (Dillon Fence, Queen Sarah Saturday) team up for an essential collection of unadorned American roots songs on their critically acclaimed debut duo release, Exploration. A follow-up to their simultaneously released 2001 solo records (Sarah Lee Guthrie, Unity Lodge) on Arlo’s Rising Son label, Exploration marks an inspired contemporary folk-rock album drenched with sweet caressing harmonies, high-lonesome folk melodies and an incredibly rocking rhythm section including members of The Jayhawks, Son Volt and Tift Merritt’s band. The release is produced by Gary Louris (The Jayhawks) and Ed Ackerson, and mixed by Tom Rothrock (Beck, Elliot Smith), featuring 11 original compositions and a previously unrecorded Pete Seeger composition, "Dr. King."
Jamie Livingston Polaroid-A-Day Site is Back Up! Again

The Huffington Post traffic caused the Jamie Livingston Polaroid-of-the-Day site to crash over the weekend.
But as of today (Tuesday May 27th 2008), it back up. After much, much, much, much work, Hugh fixed the site with many thanks to the kindness of strangers.
"A really nice guy in Minneapolis has put the site up on a server there and thinks that it can withstand the onslaught. It’s the 2nd most popular site on Digg this week. Jamie’s site is now on its very own machine at a big Internet company. They’re pretty sure that it can take whatever sort of beating it’s going to get. We’re very confident and hoping for the best," says Hugh.
Brooklyn Heights Demolition Shocker

Brooklyn Heights Blog has the story and pix about the "demolition by dereliction" of a building on Monroe and Clark Street in Brooklyn Heights. Here’s an excerpt from this shocking story:
And it’s pretty certain that Penson has
deep enough pockets to have done the right thing and preserved this
structure. Clearly, Penson’s desire to rid 100 Clark of its renters is
most likely at the heart of this unforgivable act of destruction in one
of New York City’s best preserved neighborhoods
Mr. Brownstoner’s Reaction to NY Mag Article
Brownstoner would be nuts not to be happy about his New York Magazine cover story. Still, he wishes the writer had focused on some of the more positive aspects of the culture over there. Here’s an excerpt from Mr. B’s reaction:
Our only major gripe was that it played up the importance of one
egomaniacal commenter over some of the more constructive aspects of the
community. In the end, though, it did include one belief of ours that
we’ve clung to from the beginning: That as messy as many of the threads
get, the tough issues that underlie much of the change that Brooklyn
has experienced in recent years—class, race, gentrification—are at
least getting discussed, and often among people who wouldn’t otherwise
be mingling offline. The conversations could be a lot more polite, but
at least they are happening.
What’s A Tooth Going For in Park Slope?

Is it true that Park Slope kids get Webkinz or Shining Starts web stuffed animals for a tooth from the Tooth Fairy. Pricey, pricey. This morning on Park Slope Parents, one mom (aka tooth fairy) wonders what is the going rate for a tooth is these days?
What does the tooth fairy leave now a days? Quarters,silver dollars or a small gift? My
husband & I remember getting coins for each tooth left under the pillow, but my
daughter is under the impression that the fairy leaves webkinz or shining stars for
each tooth (which I’m afraid will get kind of expensive). So I’m wondering what is the
general consensus on tooth fairy gifts?
WNYC Street Shots Challenge
Here’s the deal from WNYC. They are sponsoring a street photography challenge:
We want your street photography. The challenge: get out there and get clicking.
In the coming weeks, we’ll post notable images on Street Shots,
WNYC’s online festival of contemporary street photography. After June
20th, we’ll select one winner from this group’s photo pool whose work
and story will be featured on our website.This week on Street Shots, head out on the streets with Bruce Gilden, an old school stalker of anonymous characters on the city sidewalks, and Sandra Roa, who focuses her lens on the lives of day laborers in Queens
Before joining our group, please read the rules for the contest.
In order to be selected for the online video feature, entries must be received by 11:59 p.m EST. on Friday, June. 20, 2008.
Your street shots must be taken within the 5 boroughs of NYC, and we
ask that you limit your entry to your 20 best street shots.
The Oh-So-Prolific-One: Leon Freilich/Verse Responder
Sodden morning near Brooklyn’s
Glistening Borough Hall,
People rush to subway
Through a grayish squall.
Dripping, smiling man
Hawks his suitable wares,
Passengers reach for
MTA-card fares.
At his stand the vendor
Sings to passing fellas
Sweetest baritone note,
Sunshine-splashing "Umbrellas!"
Pre-K Rejection Letters Causing Brouhaha
I got the word from Joyce at My Sidewalk Chalk that the public school Pre-K rejection letters started arriving on Saturday.
Pre-K is not mandated by the state and public pre-school programs tend to be small. Hence parents must apply for coveted spots. Apparently there were a lot of unexpected rejections this year and parents are up in arms. At some schools, siblings are automatically accepted. Not this year. Here’s what Joyce had to say:
The Pre-K rejection letters started arriving on Saturday and according to the anecdotal evidence on the yahoo groups, there are some funky rejections. Families of sibs were supposed to be given priority.
In- zone sibs would seem to have been guaranteed spots especially in schools with several pre-K’s like PS 282, but reports say that they have gotten rejections. A parent has written me that the refused are starting to organize to get accountability. I have a couple numbers to call on my blog, including the Public Advocate.
Joyce Szuflita
www.mysidewalkchalk.blogspot.com
Bloomsday at Ceol Pub in Cobble Hill

Fantastic. Michele Madigan Somerville is organizing a reading of James Joyce’s Ulysses at Ceol Pub on Smith Street.
The reading is on Bloomsday, of course: June 16th from 8-10 p.m. The novel’s protagonist is named Bloom and June 16th is the day the novel takes place on.
For years Symphony Space has done a full reading of Ulysses on Bloomday. But nothing in Brooklyn. Until now. Somerville is filling the void. Thanks for the correction Leon.
Yay for Michelle, who also does a monthly reading series at this pub—next up June 4th with Sharon Mesmer at 6:30. She sent out this note this morning and is calling out for readers. If you are interested, email her at mmsomerville(at)mindspring(dot)com.
If you are getting this note, it’s because you are one of my favorite
writers, thinkers, Ulysses fans and I want to invite you to join a
program of reading from the book aloud on Bloomsday, June
16th in the back room at Ceol Pub in Cobble Hill Brooklyn from
about 8 until 10:30 or so.Though my great fantasy is to one day do a "real time" reading (an
experiment my beloved Stein the Medievalist attempted in 1978 as part of the
original NYC collective effort to read Ulysses aloud on Bloomsday in real
time!) I thought I‘d start small, with about ten readers reading short
sections.If you are interested in reading something — pick a section and about 5-10
minutes and get back to me by email.If you love the idea, but feel that you don’t "know" the book well
enough, write back and we’ll discuss and figure something out —
especially if you are likely to be an exciting reader. I’ll set you up.If you are interested but unable to commit, just plan to come. If time
permits, we might be able to squeeze in impromptu readings.This is an informal reading. It is not a "performance."
I’ll do literary air traffic control — I’ll devise a slight structure
— so as to attempt to get as many books of the epic as is possible
represented. If there’s a section you are dying to claim, get back to me
quickly.I plan to read the final page or two of Penelope.
We need someone good (and prompt) to render the beginning Introibo
altare Dei. .So write back and say I said "Yes I will."
Feel free to pass this on to any Joyce mavens known to you. Some
of you are, I know, unavailable, but you may have pals who’d love to do this.
Slainte,
Michele
New York Mag Cover Story About Brownstoner
Subtitled "A mischevous online bogey man is haunting the dreams of new Brooklyn," the article is mostly about the tone of the discussion over at Brownstoner—what writer Adam Sternbergh calls "the unique undertow of anger in Brownstoner comments."
The NY Mag story also focuses on a commenter named "The What" and his obsession with the coming Brooklyn apocalypse.
I can’t tell if this article will be of interest to anybody/everybody.
Snarky commenter, The What, is the real story here. But the article does talk about John Butler, and his blog, the Brooklyn Flea and all the rest (Upper East Side childhood, Princeton education, MBA from NYU, Hedge funder, who blogged onthe side…) They sure do love Brownstoner over at New York Magazine. Here’s an excerpt:
"Butler’s adopted borough has proved to be especially fertile soil
for blogs, as many of its recent transplants have, like Butler, been
eager to chronicle their experience in dispatches sent out to the
world, like homesteaders mailing letters back from a new frontier.
Among these sites, though, Brownstoner holds a distinct and exalted
position, thanks largely to Butler’s acumen in staking out the happy
middle ground between citywide Websites like Curbed and Gothamist and
the dozens of Brooklyn microblogs and message boards where people
gather to rant and rail and cheer and commiserate about the foibles and
frustrations of their neighborhoods. Brownstoner covers the whole
borough (although the objections here of residents of Bay Ridge,
Canarsie, and other outlying regions are duly noted), but it covers the
whole borough as though it were one big block, where everyone has
gathered to gossip on their stoops.
"As
such, Butler’s become not only a fairly well-known blogger (the site
draws 150,000 visitors a month, and he was introduced to the world in a
2007 Observer article headlined BROWNSTONER: IT’S ME!), but
also a kind of virtual developer, someone who doesn’t literally rebuild
neighborhoods but who has the power to shape the way those
neighborhoods are perceived. By uncovering derelict architectural gems
in Prospect-Lefferts Gardens, or trumpeting the opening of an inviting
new bar in Crown Heights, Butler has introduced Brooklyn’s far-flung
neighborhoods to people who would otherwise never consider visiting
them, let alone buying a house and settling there. On Brownstoner, the
bridesmaid borough is now the bride. The site celebrates what’s
sometimes called New Brooklyn: a vision of the borough as a diverse and
lively enclave of flowering neighborhoods, all jammed with engaged
homeowners, reborn blocks, and gorgeous and stately and (by Manhattan
standards) bargain-priced real estate, waiting to be polished up under
a tasteful eye. Brownstoner didn’t create the Brooklyn renaissance, of
course, any more than a weatherman creates a storm. But, like a
watchful forecaster, the site has tracked the course of the weather
pattern—in this case, the vortex created by rising real-estate prices
that sucked in a fresh batch of hopeful residents, drawn by the promise
of more space and tree-lined blocks and safer streets and majestic
brownstones and ample sunlight and the borough’s sudden,
self-perpetuating cachet…"
Joshua Light Show At Issue Project Room
Some will remember the Joshua Light Show from the days of the Filmore East and West; they were the lighting effects designers for Jefferson Airplane, Janis Joplin, The Grateful Dead, Jimi Hendrix and other great bands of the 1960’s and ’70s.
Well, Josh White is still at it. And he’s part of an interesting—and avant garde line-up—at Park Slope’s Issue Project Room this week. Wednesday through Saturday night at 8 p.m. $20 gets you in.
First up: Wednesday May 28th: Marina Rosenfeld, Ikue More, Lee Ranaldo and Zeena Parkins. Check the Issue Project Room site for the other nights.
New Alternate Side of the Street Signs Appear with a Surprise
A note from our friend Eliot.
New alternate side parking signs have started to appear on Eighth Avenue. But there’s a surprise for anyone who thought that all that would happen was that the three hour street cleaning period would be shortened to 90 minutes. Eighth Avenue between Third and Fourth Street was formerly in the Thursday- Friday zone. The new sign shows that the alternate day on the east side of the street will now be Tuesday.
Only the Blog Links
I wish I could eat your cancer when (Blognigger)
Spinning Plates at the Russian Circus in Queens (Brooklynometry)
Siblings fall from Kensington window (NY1)
Babies switched at birth at LICH (NY1)
RIP: Film Director Sydney Pollack (Daily News)
Brooklyn Bridge on the big screen (Daily News)
Someone on Smith Street has been to Ikea (Pardon Me for Asking)
No Words Daily Pix: Photograph by Hugh Crawford
Streetsfilms Presents: Sunday’s Bike Tour of Brooklyn
Southern Girls Baking and Bitching in a Brooklyn Kitchen
Last night, Mrs. Kravitz and Mrs. Cleavage were baking and bitching in preparation for the building’s first BBQ of the season. Mrs. Kravitz was rolling dough for her pies. A pecan blend and bright red and pink cherry halves in a sugary mix waited in white bowls.
The scene was was like something out of a quaint Southern kitchen. Two southern girls (one from North Carolina, the other from Texas) transplanted to a tiny Brooklyn kitchen channeling their southern childhoods spent in kitchens baking pies.
Or so I imagine.
Mrs. Cleavage’s also prepared a delicious looking pasta salad with snap peas; she wasn’t happy when people wanted previews.
"I’m going to have to make another one tomorrow if people don’t stop taking bites," she threatened.
The conversation moved seamlessly from one juicy topic to another (husbands, ex-husbands, children, parents, neighbors, friends provided friendly fodder). But mostly it was food talk—a running commentary on what was being prepared.
In the dining room Mr. Kravitz and a friend were trying to figure out how to make a proper mojito. After much trial and error—and probably too much to drink—he settled on a recipe he deemed perfect. He plans to make a pitcher for Memorial Day.
Mrs. Kravitz sliced up one of the pecan pies. It didn’t look like any pecan pie I’ve ever seen.
"it needs more sugar," Mrs. Cleavage said.
"Too many eggs. It’s too eggy," Mrs. Kravitz said tasting the pie.
"It needs more sugar," Mrs. Cleavage said again.
"So eggy. It’s like a pecan quiche," Mrs. Kravitz said chewing slowly.
"It needs more sugar," Mrs. Cleavage said one more time.
"I forgot the sugar. I forgot to put sugar in," Mrs. Kravitz gushed.
"What do you think I’ve been telling you," Mrs. Cleavage told her seriously.
Don’t worry. Mrs. Kravitz’s Memorial Day pecan pie will have plenty of sugar. Lesson learned. Bitching, baking and drinking Mojitos…
Summer and Smoke: Prospect Park on Memorial Day
Not surprisingly, Brenda of A Year in the Park, was in the park yesterday. Here’s an excerpt.
The blessed sunshine of an early Memorial Day weekend was still in abundant supply at 7:30 p.m. While the evening was a little too cool to feel quite like summer, the air over the picnic grounds near Ninth Street was thick with the perfume of starter fluid and charred meat. And the ground was thick with people and their mobile campsites, many of which included balloons celebrating various events.
No Words Daily Pix: Photograph by Hugh Crawford
Sons of Slain Dry Cleaner: Determined To Keep The Store Open
On Saturday, members of the Windsor Terrace community planted a tree to memorialize Kyung-Sook (aka Lindo Woo) who was murdered last week; it was planted outside of her dry cleaning store where she lost her life.
The family is determined to continue operating the store, Eden Dry Cleaners in Windsor Terrace. This was on the Park Slope Parents list-serve on Sunday morning.
My family dropped by the dry cleaner to pay our respects. To our
astonishment, the dry cleaner is open and operating. We spoke with
Mr. Woo, one of Ms. Woo’s two sons who were there. He spoke of the
family’s determination to keep the store operating ("My mom would
want this."). I was inspired by the family’s hard work and
determination.He went on to speak with gratitude about the support community has
shown the family. He proudly pointed to the tree which was planted
just this morning ("They rushed it.")!
Here is information about the Linda Woo Memorial Fund
On the morning of May 16th, 2008, beloved Kyung-Sook "Linda" Woo, 63,
who owned the Eden Dry Cleaners at 10th Avenue and Windsor Place in
Windsor Terrace, was found dead in her store. Mrs. Woo had owned the
shop for years after moving here from Korea and used to live across
the street with her family before moving to Queens. Jamal Winter, 22,
is being held without bail in connection with the death. He was
arraigned on first and second degree murder charges and first degree
robbery. At the time of this tragedy, Winter was out on bail on
another robbery case and was scheduled to go on trial for that case
in June.Thanks to Robert Bello Landscaping for donating the tree, to The NYC
Parks Department for arranging a speedy tree planting, and to Clieve
Christian and the Prospect Park Commerce Bank for generously helping
set up the Linda Woo Memorial Fund. The fund will pay for a plaque to
be placed under the tree and for a fence to enclose the tree’s base.
After these items are paid for, any additional funds will be given to
Mrs. Woo’s family to use at their discretion.There are several ways to contribute to the fund:
1) Checks can be made out to the Linda Woo Memorial Fund, placed in
an envelope marked "Memorial Fund" and dropped in the mail slots of
either 243 Windsor Place- beginning Tuesday May 27th, or 18 Reeve
Place- beginning immediately.2) Checks can be made out to the Linda Woo Memorial Fund and mailed to:
The Linda Woo Memorial Fund
c/o Brenna Beirne
711 Greenwood Ave.
Brooklyn, NY 112183)You may go to www.paypal.com and donate to this account
community11218@gmail.com which has been created specifically for this
memorial fund -note that the purpose of your donation is for the
Linda Woo memorial fund. Paypal accepts major credit cards.
Smartmom Knows An Edgy Mom
Here’s this week’s Smartmom from the Brooklyn Paper
Last year, Smartmom organized the first “Edgy Mother’s Day” reading
at the Old Stone House because she noticed that quite a few women were
writing about motherhood in interesting and non-sanctimonious ways.
It
was a great reading — a nearly three-hour marathon of stories about
life in the trenches of mommydom featuring Susan Gregory Thomas, author
of “Buy, Buy Baby: How Consumer Culture Manipulates Mothers and Harms
Children”; New York Magazine writer Amy Sohn; Sophia Romero, author of
the novel “Always Hiding” and the blog “the Shiksa from Manila”; Mary
Warren, author of the blog “Mrs. Cleavage’s Diary”; Alison Lowenstein
of “City Baby Brooklyn”; poet Michele Madigan Somerville and others.
About a month ago on a rainy Sunday on Seventh Avenue, Smartmom ran into Sohn, who proposed doing another Edgy Mom’s reading.
Smartmom
didn’t think twice. Despite the fact that she was busy organizing the
Brooklyn Blogfest and writing a book proposal, she said, “Sure” without
batting an eye.
Smartmom was pleased that the Edgy Mom Reading
concept has a life of its own. And she knew that Sohn, the ultimate
edgy mom, would be the perfect partner in crime.
Within days, Sohn had managed to attract a top-notch group of writers.
The
May 15 reading, at the packed Montauk Club in Park Slope, was a
stunning success. Christine Clifford, who stars in a one-woman show
called “BabyLove” at the 45 Bleecker Theater, entertained and even
shocked the crowd with a monologue about, yes, masturbating while
breast-feeding.
Midway through the monologue, Smartmom spotted the Oh So Feisty One sitting in the front row.
“I can’t believe there’s a girl listening to this,” she said covering her eyes.
This
embarrassed the 11-year-old OSFO more than Clifford’s tales of
vibrators and breast milk and she walked out of the reading with her
aunt, Diaper Diva. Smartmom was sorry that Clifford made a fuss. OSFO
probably would have stuck out the evening and even enjoyed Amy Benfer’s
Juno-like story about giving birth to a daughter at age 16 and deciding
to raise her alone — with the help of her mom, dad, and various
friends. Her daughter, who is now 18, was in the audience — there was
not a dry eye in the grand parlor of the Montauk Club.
Smartmom was up next with a column about the similarities between raising kids and growing mushrooms.
Afterwards,
Smartmom introduced the always-controversial Sohn, who regaled the
crowd with a hilarious tale about her ill-fated efforts to get her
daughter into Brooklyn Heights Montessori pre-school.
Poet
Michele Madigan Somerville delighted the crowd with her sassy, virtuosic
poem about Elmo. Sophia Romero, read a wonderful excerpt from her blog, "The Shiksa from Manila, and Louise Sloane read from her memoir, “Knock Yourself Up: A Tell-All
Guide To Becoming a Single Mom.”
Finally, Lenore Skenazy read her
column from the New York Sun about the time she let her 9-year-old ride
the subway. For Smartmom, it was thrilling to see her hero laugh along
with her own words.
“Was I worried? Yes, a tinge. But it didn’t
strike me as that daring, either,” Skenazy said. “Isn’t New York as
safe now as it was in 1963? It’s not like we’re living in Baghdad.”
After
the reading, Sohn and Smartmom raffled off goody bags donated by
Babeland, the sex toy store that will open in June on Bergen Street
near Fifth Avenue.
Smartmom isn’t sure if Skenazy appreciated the gift. As she left, she handed it to Divorce Diva and said, “I don’t need this.”
Smartmom doesn’t think she was offended. A few days after the reading she sent this note:
“The
event was stupendous in that everyone (except me) wrote about something
so intimate, so openly that it made anyone worried about being TOO edgy
feel like, ‘Well, at least I’m not hiding my vibrator under the
doormat!’ It also made me realize that there are at least seven great
women writers out there, bringing everyday life into the world of
glittering yet supremely accessible prose — and poetry.”
Over drinks after the show, Smartmom and crew tried to define “edgy mom.”
“She’s
a mom who views imagination (both living it and imparting it) as
integral to child-rearing, which flies in the face of the holy ‘mom’
idea, whereby one is supposed to grow out of being imaginative,”
Somerville said.
“She is unconventional; she views the world
through a different pair of lens than what she was raised with,” said
Romero. “She is resolute in this pursuit and does it with a great sense
of conviction, purpose, and doesn’t need to apologize to anyone, least
of all her own mother.”
Romero added that an edgy mom isn’t afraid to expose her frailties and vulnerabilities to her children.
“I allow them to express their anger, frustration and disappointment with me without fear of recrimination,” she said.
Best
of all, like Smartmom, Romero watches “Gossip Girl” with her daughter.
Unlike Smartmom, she still snuggles with her teenage son and watches
re-runs of “Star Trek Voyager.”
Teen Spirit would rather die.
Later
that evening, Smartmom explored her goody bag from Babeland. Inside,
there was a hot pink vibrator, a mojito and peppermint-scented candle,
a container of Babe Lube (whatever that is), and a silver, egg-shaped
vibrator with a controller that looks like a dimmer switch.
Smartmom
isn’t sure what all this has to do with being an edgy mom, but she does
know that a major tenet of edgy momdom is that a woman’s desire for
creativity and pleasure doesn’t stop when she has kids.
In fact, it’s a great time to explore who you really are.
Jamie Livingston Story on Huffington Post; It Travels The World

The Jamie Livingston frenzy continues. It was on the Huffington Post yesterday. The story continues to travel the world. Here it is on a Greek blog. To see 18 years of Polaroids by this special artist, go here.
Σε ένα μυστήριο ιστότοπο βρέθηκε μία συλλογή από φωτογραφίες Polaroid,
ήταν τραβηγμένες σε καθημερινή βάση (Μία κάθε μέρα) από τις 31 Μάρτιου
του 1979 έως τις 25 Οκτωβρίου του 1997. Παρατηρώντας τις φωτογραφίες…
Μείναμε έκπληκτοι από αυτό που ανακαλύψαμε.
Οι φωτογραφίες αρχίζανε συστηματικά από το 1979,με φωτογραφίες φίλων,
πικνίκ, δείπνων και διαφόρων άλλων δραστηριοτήτων. Δείτε μερικές
φωτογραφίες από τις 23 Απριλίου 1979 ( Ο Φωτογράφος πρέπει να είναι ο
άνδρας στα αριστερά της εικόνας).This photo is by JL from May 27, 1983.
No Words Daily Pix by Hugh Crawford
A Tribute to Brooklyn’s Photo Bloggers
Finally. Here’s the Tribute to Brooklyn’s Photo Bloggers that was produced for the 2008 Brooklyn Blogfest by Brooklyn Optimist.
It includes many but not all of Brooklyn’s great photo bloggers.
Many thanks to Morgan at Brooklyn Optimist and all the photographers who sent their photos.





