EDWARD HOPPER NEVER HAD IT SO GOOD

Neither did Virginia Woolf. This room of my own on this island where I am is just PERFECT. I never want to leave. I already told Hepcat that. "I’ll send your things," he said.

I want to move here. The light is beautiful from the first light of dawn to the late afternoon glow. Twilight. Sunset.

And then the fog moves into making for dramatic, foggy nights. Something out of "Wuthering Heights." 

Who could ask for anything more than this room? I could LIVE here. Simple antique furniture. A table for a desk. A fan. Beautiful art on the walls. A deliciously comfortable bed.

Out my window: the ocean in one direction, a garden in another. Down below: two ponds and tall beach grass, reeds.

What more could I need? I rented a Raleigh 7-speed. I’ve got my trusty computer. There’s wireless on the island. A good Internet connection. An outdoor shower. Adirondack chairs. A hammock. A kayak. Many beaches just biking distance away.

A restaurant that serves amazing tuna and monk fish. Eating alone, I sit at the bar and don’t feel funny at all.

Even a movie theater (a huge mob of teens and tweens are lined up for the 9:45 Harry Potter screening).

I am in HEAVEN. Remember that Talking Heads song. "Heaven is a place where nothing, nothing ever happens.

I highly recommend going away by yourself. You can indulge all your idiosyncrasies. You don’t have to ask nobody what to do. You can do whatever you want. Eat whatever you want. Spend the whole day writing if you want. Take a bike ride, go for a run, meditate, read a book.

The Emperor’s Children is very good.

Go to sleep whenever.

Which isn’t to say that I don’t miss OSFO, Teen Spirit, and Hepcat a lot. I do I do. I’m just saying.
I’m just saying.

LAST YEAR ON OTBKB: JACKIE CONNOR CORNER DEDICATED

Last year, Jackie Connor’s Corner was dedicated early one Saturday morning in July.

Early Saturday morning, Fonda Sera, owner of Zuzu’s Petals, was
standing on a ladder attaching long, flowing puple ribbons to the lamp
post on Seventh Avenue and Carroll Street. As I walked by, a Zuzu’s
employee said, "Come back at 11 for the dedication."

An hour later, Council Members David Yasky and Bill DeBlasio,
Bernard Graham, members of the NYPD, FDNY, shopkeepers, and many
familiar Park Slope faces gathered to witness the unveiling and
dedication of Jackie Connor’s Corner, a street sign in honor of a very
special resident, which was covered with white paper until the moment
it was dramatically pulled down with a string.

Jackie Connor, who died in the spring, was sometimes called the
Mayor of Seventh Avenue. She used to sit on the steps of Old First
Church or push a shopping cart up and down the avenue. Some thought she
was a street person but she was really organizing, agitating, fighting
for the rights of the little guy, the streets, and the community of
Park Slope.

Civic minded doesn’t even begin to describe Connor, who cared deeply
about this neighborhood, which was where she was born and raised.
Everyone knew her and she knew everybody; she kept the police abreast
of what was going on on Seventh Avenue by cell phone. And she had her
pet peeves like flyers on lamp posts, which she waged a one-woman
campaign to remove.

Two years ago, Connor was on the street in front of Zuzu’s Petals
minutes after  fire that ravaged that store, Olive Vine and a Korean
market early one morning. Fonda will never forget Connor’s unswerving
support during what was a devestating time for her and her business.

Connor lived with with her husband in a Park Slope apartment and
raised her family here. Her daughter is a reporter for the New York
Daily News. She was at the ceremony on Saturday with her newborn baby.

After the ceremony, the event quickly became a photo op for the
politicians posing together and with members of the community. You
can’t blame them for trying to take the credit for getting the
approvals necessary to make this street sign a reality so soon after
her death. But the real credit goes to her family and friends who were
eager to memorialize Connor in a meaningful way.

But talk about immortality. In the years to come, people will walk
by that street sign and wonder who Jackie Connor was. Maybe there
should be a plaque that tells the story of her life. Then people will
know the person behind the name on the northwest corner of Carroll
Street.

AMY RIGBY’S GRANDE BOUFFE

Rocker and ex-patriot Amy Rigby writes about the longest meal she’s ever had. In France. Of course. Where she’s living. And eating. Here’s an excerpt from her blog, The Little Fugitive.

It’s the middle of the night and I can’t sleep.  Why?  Maybe because yesterday I had the longest meal of my life.

For
months we’ve been hearing about the neighbors’ annual get-together that
is held the first Sunday of July. It takes place in the barn directly
across the road and from what we understood it involved drinks, lunch,
and then some more food later in the day.

At about 10:30 AM I
was opening the shutters, and as I leaned out the window about ten
people greeted me from in front of the barn. They were already
gathering! Shit. This was going to be a little overwhelming. I mean,
since we got here everyone has been very nice. But they’ve all known
each other for years. Having lived in cities all my adult life, the
concept of neighbors is kind of alien to me.

Read the rest here.

STARRETT CITY DOES IT AGAIN

This from New York 1:

The federal government blocked a second attempt to purchase Brooklyn’s Starrett City housing complex Monday.

The U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development denied Clipper Equity’s request to buy Starrett City for a second time.

Clipper Equity submitted its proposal back in March, but on Monday,
HUD stated in a letter that it does not believe the buyer has the
financial capacity to keep the complex affordable.

Clipper Equity was looking to buy Starrett City for $1.3 billion.

It’s currently the largest affordable housing project in the country.

VETERAN SHOOTER IN PEERLESS SHOW: FROM THE BROOKLYN PAPER

Got this email from my wonderful editor, Gersh Kuntzman, at the Brooklyn Paper

For those of you who have been wondering, the Brooklyn Paper took a Fouth of July break. But now, they’re  back to work, busily editing the next edition of the Brooklyn Paper, copies of which will hit the Key Food (and the sidewalk outside of your home) on Friday July 13th or Saturday the 14th.

Our own irascible shutterbug, Tom Callan, who has been shooting Brooklyn for the better part of three decades, has opened up his files for a retrospective of his work opening next Friday in Red Hook.

Some of our favorite Callan shots — many of which first appeared in The Brooklyn Paper — will be on display, lining the walls of the equally irascible Sunny’s Bar on Conover Street.

More than one toast will be raised to Callan at the opening party at 8 pm.

SMALL TYPE: “Photographs by Tom Callan,” Sunny’s Bar (253 Conover St., at Reed Street in Red Hook), July 20, 8 pm. Call (718) 625-8211 for information.

I LOVE NEW YORK GETS NEW WEBSITE

This from the New York Times’

Back in 1977, the year Microsoft registered its name as a trademark and a state-of-the-art Apple
II had a full four kilobytes of memory, the “I Love New York” campaign
began with television commercials that featured its catchy, singable
theme.

Now “I Love New York” has finally moved into the
digital world. And the Empire State Development Corporation, the state
authority that oversees the campaign, hopes the online push will get
people to really love New York this summer.

The “I Love New York” Web site (www.iloveny.com) was retooled in the spring. Now the corporation has added a page (www.iloveny.com/getoutoftown)
aimed at last-minute vacationers from downstate New York and from
Toronto who do not want to deal with the troubles of flying this
summer. The new page lets them find vacation packages that they can
drive to. (Not all the destinations on the page are upstate. Long
Island and Westchester County are also among the choices for
destinations.)

      

PIPER THEATER’S MACBETH IN JJ BYRNE PARK TONIGHT

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Piper Theatre Productions’ home base is currently The Old Stone House in Park Slope Brooklyn and they are presenting Macbeth on the following nights.

  • Macbeth
    Directed by John P. McEneny, one of the Park Slope 100.

    • Wednesday, July 11th @ 8:00pm
    • Friday, July 13th @ 8:00pm
    • Saturday, July 14 @ 8:00pm
    • Wednesday, July 18 @ 8:00pm
    • Friday, July 20 @ 8:00pm
    • Saturday, July 21 @ 8:00pm

Please Note: Performances are free and open to the public, but donations are appreciated.

BLURB FROM PIPER THEATER: It
is our hope to provide even more cultural opportunities to the Brooklyn
and Park Slope neighborhoods by offering free and accessible theatre to
the community. With the enthusiastic support of the Old Stone House,
the community of Park Slope, and our local businesses, we are still
struggling to continue to provide accessible and dynamic drama.

Piper
works hard to develop emerging artists and produce artistic works for
the entire community. In addition, through mentoring and collaboration
with adults, we help young people to become creative, hardworking
members of society.

To provide a quality production with
dedicated professionals and amateurs we need to raise funds to make
sure the productions are dynamic, successful, safe, and challenging or
all participants.

To find out more, or to make a donation, please click to find out how you can help us build community through drama.

TONIGHT: EATING SUSTAINABLY

Anne Pope is not only a blogger but an event planner and a community builder. The three go hand in hand. YAY Anne. Tonight: A discussion about eating sustanably.


When:

Wednesday July 11th, 8pm

Where:
Vox Pop Cafe/Bookstore
1022 Cortelyou Road
Brooklyn, NY 11218
Q train to Cortelyou Road

For Event #4 Sustainable Flatbush is teaming up with the Green Edge Collaborative,
a Brooklyn-based organization dedicated to community education about
the impact of individual consumption choices on society and the
environment. Green Edge’s previous events have included Eco-Eatery
tours of local restaurants and Supper Club potluck-style gatherings
with an emphasis on local organic ingredients

Read more at Sustanable Flatbush.

GOWANUS LOUNGE HAS THE GOODS ON THE NEW PARK SLOPE BIKE LANE

On our way out of Brooklyn on Saturday, Hepcat and I noticed that the new 9th Street bike lane is painted on the asphalt between 5th and 6th Avenues.

GL says: Not to worry, folks. You can still double park. And he’s got the pictures to show it.

We post these photos to show two things. One is that the installation
of the bike lane markings and the new traffic patterns narrowing the
flow of traffic from two lanes to one is making quick progress (see
below). The other is to show that the bike lanes are not an impediment
to double parking. Yesterday morning, we counted four double parked
vehicles (three cars and one van) in the bike lanes between Seventh
Avenue and Prospect Park West. Plus one truck that was driving in the
lane.

READ MORE AND SEE THE PIX AT Gowanus Lounge.

PIZZA PLUS BENEFIT: JULY 13 AT SOUTHPAW

A friend writes:

A benefit for Pizza Plus staff and un-insured residents  of the building at 359 7th Ave will be held on Friday July 13th at Southpaw, 125 5th Ave, Park Slope.   

Entertainment includes: Captain Greech and the Shrimp Shack Shooters, The Teenage Prayers and Sam Champion (members of this band lived in the Pizza Plus building, I believe).

Admission is $10.    Doors. open at 7:30.

I am a neighbor and  a friend and just want to spread the word..    Work on the interior of Pizza Plus has started and Roz is looking forward to re-opening!

THE LADY EVE: TONIGHT AT BROOKLYN FILM WORKS MOVIES AL FRESCO IN JJ BYRNE PARK

Last summer, Reporter
Leon Neyfakh of the New York Sun wrote a nice article in the New York Sun about Brooklyn Film Works, movies al fresco in JJ Byrne Park. The second year of Brooklyn Film Works begins tomorrow night (July 11) with The Lady Eve  directed by Preston Sturges. The film will be introduced by Ty Burr author of The Best Old Movies for Families. 8:30 p.m. Free.

The
era of old-time Coney Island nostalgia may be all but over in light of
developer Joseph Sitt’s $1 billion renovation plans, but tonight an
open-air film screening in Park Slope’s JJ Byrne Park will give
Brooklyn residents a chance to revisit the amusement park’s storied
past.

"Coney
Island used to be totally nostalgia — faded glory," says Louise
Crawford, who organized tonight’s screening of Ric Burns’s documentary
titled, "Coney Island: The American Experience" as part of her outdoor
Brooklyn Film Series. "It was rusty and dirty. It just didn’t have its
former luster. What I feel now is that it’s a real and living place.
People have sort of rediscovered it."

In
light of that resurgence — marked most recently by the relighting of
the long-dormant Parachute Jump by Brooklyn president, Marty Markowitz
— Mr. Burns’s film may serve as a welcome history lesson as it traces
the park’s development since the turn of the 20th century.

This
is the second Coney Island-related film Ms. Crawford has shown in her
series, which had its inaugural screening last Tuesday with 1953’s
"Little Fugitive." That film, shot in black- and-white on the streets
of Brooklyn and Coney Island, follows a young runaway as he rides the
rollercoasters, plays with animals, and eats the hot dogs that made the
place such a glorious national attraction in its heyday.

The
screening of "Little Fugitive" was a collaborative effort, Ms. Crawford
says, made possible by a fleet of Brooklyn locals who helped secure and
set up the state-of-the-art projector, the 12-by-15 foot screen, the
garbage truck that supports it, and the lawn upon which the guests
spread their blankets and watched the movie.

"Nobody
had ever heard of the film, but they were game. It’s this big movie in
the park — our park!" Ms. Crawford says, estimating last Tuesday’s
turnout at about 100.

Ms.
Crawford hopes tonight’s screening, which will begin after sundown,
will attract locals curious to "learn the stories behind the Cyclone,
the Wonder Wheel, and the Parachute Jump."

Ms.
Crawford’s fixation on Coney Island, which until recently was
considered by some to be a rusty dump past its prime, is appropriate
enough considering the location of the screenings. JJ Byrne Park, Ms.
Crawford says, has enjoyed a renaissance of its own in the past two
years.

The
park, she says, situated on Fifth Avenue between Third and Fourth
streets in Park Slope, has benefited from the gentrification of the
surrounding area.

"Before,
Fifth Avenue wasn’t happening. It’s gone through this major transition.
As Park Slope’s star has risen, so has Fifth Avenue’s."

JJ
Byrne, she says, has traditionally been "a really poor cousin of
Prospect Park." In the past two years, the dust that used to cover the
park’s main area was replaced with a lawn, and a dog run was built off
to the side.

Now,
Ms. Crawford says, there are activities being hosted there "pretty much
three to five nights per week, whether it’s theater, readings, music,
or stuff for kids."


The
recent blossoming, she says, is owed in large part to the Old Stone
House, a museum dedicated to the Battle of Brooklyn that has, in the
past two years, started regularly opening its doors for community
events.


The director of the Old Stone House,
Kim Maier, came up with the idea for the Brooklyn Film Series Works. Ms. Crawford
says. The concept grew out of the Brooklyn Reading Series Works, a book club   reading series curated
by Ms. Crawford (note: and supported by the Brooklyn Arts Council).

SHE’S FAMOUS (CONTINUED)

By Guest Blogger Diaper Diva

I met my husband in the personals of Timeout magazine.
I can’t remember what his ad said exactly. I know that he mentioned that he was an architect which I found appealing. We met the following day for lunch and married one year later.

We  took the subway to Park Slope three days after getting engaged to  look for an apartment.
I had spent a lot of time in Park Slope, but it never looked more  beautiful to me than the day we found our Co-Op; we knew we had found the home we had both longed for. We married the following October.

Living in Park Slope near my twin has been  both wonderful and unnerving.
We hadn’t lived in the same borough for a long time, and I had forgotten how often we can be mistaken for one another.
Since she has lived here far longer, it was usually me who was mistaken for her.
At one point I thought of  wearing  a button that said, "I’m not my sister".

I found myself becoming irritated by the constant confusion. I began to really hate when people said that we looked exactly alike, and stared at us as if they had seen a UFO
Well, not exactly, I  would try to explain.

And it’s not like I don’t want to look like my sister,  after all we are identical twins, but if you really look: We are quite  different.

I’ve always hated being confused with my twin. When we were growing up, some of  our relatives referred to us as "the twins",  and didn’t seem particularly interested in distinquishing  between us.
So living in the same borough has brought back some of my earlier disdain for not being recognized for who I am.

To Be Continued…

ANYONE KNOW WHAT HAPPENED TO ANDY THE FRUIT TRUCK GUY?

A new reader of OTBKB sent me an email wondering where oh where Andy is. Does anyone know?  Do tell.

Any knowledge about Andy’s whereabouts this season?
We miss his produce, his friendly greetings, and the general mien of having our
very own Slope "fruit guy."  Is he o.k. or just v
egged out?
 
Geraldine
Prospect Heights
 
P.S. First time on this site– after seeing the
piece in this morning’s Times!

BEN GREENMAN READING AT BARNES AND NOBLE

Get a free compass at Ben Greenman’s reading at the Barnes and Noble in Park Slope. Yeah, that right: a compass.

Nothing fancy, mind you. Just a dime store compass: a handy thing to have when you need ind your way…

He gave out purple balloons at the last reading at the Community Bookstore. Now he’s gonna give you a compass because the book is called, "A Circle is a Balloon and Compass Both."

Just kidding. Just kidding. But the book, a collection of short stories, is supposed to be funny and smart.

But I’m not kidding about the reading at the Park Slope Barnes and Noble on Thursday, July 12 at 7:30 pm.

EXPLORING BROOKLYN BY BUS: GUEST BLOGGER RICHARD GRAYSON

Richard Grayson is the author of "To Think He Kissed Him on Lorimar Street" and "I Brake for Delmore Schwartz," as well as other collections of essays.

The issue of Brooklyn College alumni magazine that arrived last
week contained an article by Richard M. Sheridan, "Their Avenue of
Dreams: Brooklyn’s Polyglot Highway of Tolerance," about how BC
Sociology Professor Emeritus Jerome Krase and two colleagues propose to
continue their study of Coney Island Avenue and explore how the
different ethnic populations of that "polyglot highway of tolerance"
have managed to create a harmonious relationship among themselves.
It
reminded me of a 2004 front-page article in the New York Times, "On
Brooklyn’s Avenue of Babel, Cultures Entwine," which featured my old
buddy from BC in the early 70s, Eloy Cruz-Bizet, whom it described
(accurately) as looking "a little like a mulatto Allen Ginsberg," and
who makes use of his fluent Russian, French, Haitian Creole, Spanish
and English in the Coney Island Avenue printing business with his
partnerfrom Pakistan.  Even as a teenager, Eloy was friends with
everyone.   

Both
the Times article and Prof. Krase described the B68 bus as the perfect
vehicle for observing the multicultural thoroughfare.  Since I moved
back to Brooklyn a year ago, I’ve been trying to recreate my feat
(okay, neurotic obsessive compulsion) to ride every bus line in the
borough, but I’d been on the Coney Island Avenue bus only for some
relatively short hops, not the entire length of the street. 
 

I thought I’d rectify that on Saturday morning, so at 8 a.m. I started
out for the northern reaches of the B68, figuring I’d get off the F
train at 15th Street for the start of the route at Bartel Pritchard
Square or at Fort Hamilton Parkway to get to the start of Coney Island
Avenue proper by the Parade Grounds.   

 
But
due to weekend service changes, the F had decided to become the express
train everyone wants it to be, and after Seventh Avenue, it skipped the
next two stops and didn’t halt till Church Avenue.  Rather than go
backwards, I decided to get out and walk to Coney Island Avenue, or as
we oldtimers mysteriously refer to it, CIA.  Even us Brooklyn natives
can always learn something new, and until Saturday I had no idea that
Beverley (or Beverly, depending on what subway line you’re riding)
Road, parallel to Church Avenue for most of the way, actually
intersects with Church near McDonald.

There
was a bus stop at CIA and Church, just where Albemarle Road begins, and
out of curiosity, I walked down the street to see the first house,
which I’d remembered as an elegant Victorian Flatbush "mansion" where I
had weekly sessions with my psychiatrist from age 15 to 18 in the days
of the Summer of Love and Woodstock. 

Sadly, the house was in a
terrible state of disrepair,with peeling paint and hedges overgrowing
the path that led to the addition that was the doctor’s office, filled
with African masks and next to the hothouse where he kept his beloved
orchids.  Somewhat more incredibly, the faded "Dr. LIPPMAN" nameplate
was on the door.  Abbott A. Lippman, M.D., a pretty orthodox Freudian,
graduated NYU Medical School shortly after World War I and was an old
man crippled by arthritis even when I was his patient.  He must be dead
for at least a quarter of a century.

I
ran to catch the bus, one of the little squarish hybrids, and got a
window seat in the raised portion in the back.  Soon I could see, amid
the auto repair shops and double-parked vans, the diversity of the
street, told in its signs: the Jerusalem Palace, Pak-o-Hind Groceries,
"authentic" Chinese and Mexican restaurants, glatt kosher and halal
pizzerias, Turkish insurance agents, Bukharian bakeries, Italian ices
stands, a Chabad "Jewish Center" right next door to an "Islamic Center"
and day care center.  Signs were in Hebrew, Arabic, Yiddish, Urdu,
Spanish, Chinese, Russian, Turkish, Hindi, Punjabi and some languages I
couldn’t recognize.

As
the bus made its way south, with most cross-streets the lettered
avenues of southern Brooklyn, the neighborhood changed as Coney Island
Avenue made its way through the edges of Flatbush, Midwood, Kings
Highway, Sheepshead Bay, Homecrest, Gravesend and finally Brighton
Beach.  But the Orthodox Jewish, South Asian, Chinese, Latino (mostly
Mexican and Central American), Turkish, Slavic, and Arab stores and
businesses were never that far apart and often would be standing side
by side.

I was glad to see a revival in the
Pakistani community around Avenue I (the building on that street where
I took drivers’ education classes at the Yeshivah of Flatbush from my
Midwood H.S. economics teacher Mr. Mandel seems to have been
demolished).  After 9/11, residents were subject to harassment and many
fled back to Pakistan, but the immigrant community seems to be thriving
once again.

My
fellow bus riders reflected the diversity of the avenue.  My seatmate
wore the hajib and modest dress of a moderately observant Muslim woman;
we sat behind an elderly black lady and a Chinese teenager; a boy was
talking in Russian on his cell phone ("Da," he kept saying); and a
(married?) couple seemed to be having una disputa en espanol.  On the
street Orthodox familes were walking to Shabbos services and I could
hear the hip-hop music blasting from someone’s Lexxus.

I
passed some sites that I had personal associations with: the co-op
building of my friend Paul Schickler, who was my editor at the Brooklyn
College student government newspaper, where I stayed overnight after
attending my first Cyclones game; among the avenue’s many monument
makers and funeral chapels, my childhood friend Billy Sherman’s
family’s funeral parlor (I remember there was a "hot line" to the
mortuary in Billy’s basement), where I’d paid last respects to lots
of greata-unts and great-uncles; the 61st Precinct house, origination
point of the cops who came to investigate the considerable number of
times our family’s cars were stolen (sometimes with our, uh, knowledge,
but occasionally unexpectedly); my friend Stephen LiMandri’s house,
where his 14-year-old brother Joey decorated his bedroom with cut-out
pictures from Playboy Magazine; the Kings Highway store of my father’s
menswear customer Judd, who owed Dad so much money I was told to go
there and buy every item of clothing I wanted (I got a black leather
jacket that made me look so thuggish that elderly people wouldn’t get
on the elevator alone with me); and the only place near Coney Island
Avenue that I ever lived, off Avenue Z, on the next block, East 11th
Street, where I got to spend the summer of 1981 in my brother’s
basement after he had to hide out in his girlfriend’s parents’ house
due to an unfortunate dispute with a rival cocaine dealer (luckily some
Cubans shot my brother’s tormentor in the face and my brother decided
to move into a less lucrative, but more legal, line of work). 
And
after Avenue Z, with no more letters in the alphabet, the bus made its
way over the Belt Parkway and emerged in Brighton Beach (did you know
that there are streets named Brighton 10th Street, Court, Terrace,
Drive and Lane?), the Cyrillic signs and Russian stores announcing that
it was time for me to get off under the Brighton el in Little Odessa
and walk the last block of Coney Island Avenue to the boardwalk, beach
and Atlantic Ocean, passing elderly babushkas sitting out in their
folding chairs, two men talking Mandarin, and Hispanic workers eating
off of paper plates on the sidewalk outside the YMHA.  At a Brooklyn
College peace march in 1969, I’d carried what I thought was a whimsical
sign: ESCALATE THE BRIGHTON STATION, NOT THE VIETNAM WAR.  Well, they
finally took my advice.  I roamed the avenue and the boardwalk in
search of the perfect knish and strong tea. 
In a lot less than a hour, I’d covered a lot of the world.  And after a day at the beach, the bus ride back was even more fun. 
–Richard Grayson

AU CONTRAIRE: GUEST BLOGGER PETER LOFFREDO

A guest blog by Peter Loffredo.

I have
often considered that the reason so many cultures have traditional
blessings before eating meals was to aid in digestion. Entering into a
state of gratitude before a meal helps not only the enjoyment of food,
but the absorption of it and healthy use by the body of the nutrients.
Dr. Paul Rozin conducted a study of the attitudes towards food by the
French and Americans, and ade the link between guilt and anxiety about
food and obesity. Makes sense to me. Here are some excerpts from a
Times article on Rozin’s study:

"An American researcher is offering a possible new explanation for why
the French eat a diet richer than that of Americans, yet seem to suffer
fewer health consequences.

Where other researchers have offered reasons ranging from genetic
differences to the red wine that often accompanies foie gras, Dr. Paul
Rozin, a psychology professor at the University of Pennsylvania,
suggests that it may all come down to one’s state of mind. Simply put:
Could it be that if you think of that ice cream sundae you’re about to
wolf down as your friend — and not your vanquisher — you might be the
healthier for it?

"There is a sense among many Americans that food is as much a poison as
it is a nutrient, and that eating is almost as dangerous as not
eating," Rozin writes in a recent issue of the journal Appetite.

Rozin bases his theory on a survey he and his associates did of more
than 1,000 people, mostly in America and France, but also in Belgium
and Japan. Researchers questioned people at railroad stations and
airports and college students. They found that the French — only 4
percent of whom are said to follow diets in line with the American
recommended guidelines for fat intake — associate eating more with
pleasure than with health. Americans, on the other hand (and, overall,
women in all countries), not only associate food with nutrition but
worry about it, too. The Belgians and the Japanese tend to fall in the
middle.

"It is not unreasonable to assume," Rozin writes, "that when a major
aspect of life becomes a stress and source of substantial worry, as
opposed to a pleasure, effects might be seen in both cardiovascular and
immune systems."

In the end, the study may amount to little more than further evidence
that reducing stress — whether about food or anything else — is good
for one’s health. It is well established that a positive mental outlook
may not only ward off illness but even help bring about a cure. Still,
if nothing else, the article provides yet another illustration of how
Americans and the French differ over matters of the stomach.

To gauge people’s attitudes toward food and health, the researchers asked some two dozen questions.

Those interviewed were queried, for example, about which word they
associated with ice cream: delicious or fattening. About 31 percent of
Americans chose fattening, compared with fewer than 22 percent of the
French.

They were also given the words bread, pasta and sauce, and asked to
pick the one that did not belong. The French, presumably appalled at
the notion of dry noodles, generally gave the boot to the bread; a
somewhat higher number of Americans, dutifully grouping together their
carbohydrates, dispensed with the sauce.

People were even asked whether they would take a daily pill instead of
eating if it would safely satisfy their hunger and nutritional needs.
About 26 percent of the Americans said they would, more than twice the
percentage of French.

Rozin, who specializes in the psychology of food (his past work
includes trying to explain the near-mystical allure of chocolate and
why cultures differ on which foods are considered edible and which are
beyond the pale), said any number of cultural differences like income
and religion, which people were not queried about, could help explain
the differing attitudes, as well.

He also acknowledged that the "French paradox" — as the disparity
between France’s rich diet and general good health is often called —
will not be embraced by mainstream American nutrition experts to rush
to embrace his theory. "A good part of the American health community is
out to nail foods as good or bad for you," he said.
Rozin remains steadfast.
"
I really feel that there’s an important message to get to people," he said. "And that’s that they can enjoy good food."

BROOKLYN BLOGGING IN THE TIMES

Here’s an excerpt from Greg Beyer’s New York Times’ article about Brooklyn bloggers. Titled Cracker-Barrel 2.0, it was in Sunday’s City section:

ONE Monday morning, on the way to her office in the basement of the
Montauk Club in Park Slope, Louise Crawford passed a man staring up at
a tree. Lingering for a moment, she asked him what was so interesting.

It turned out that a yellow-throated songbird known as a Nashville warbler, in its northward
migration, had made a pit stop in the neighborhood and was perched on a
branch.

Not exactly a lunar landing. And even on a slow news
day, the warbler’s arrival seemed unlikely to attract the attention of
the news media. But Ms. Crawford, who writes a Park Slope-focused blog,
Only the Blog Knows Brooklyn, and whose role in the borough’s blogging
family most closely resembles that of the nurturing matriarch, was
elated.

“It’s a good story,” she said. “It’s an exclusive.”
Later that day, the post went up: a short account of the human
encounter and the bird sighting, tinged with Ms. Crawford’s
recollection of her father, an amateur ornithologist, taking her as a
child to Central Park on bird-watching excursions.

Such musings,
embroidered with the personal, are a critical element of “placeblogs”
like Only the Blog Knows Brooklyn, whose writers frequently and
sometimes obsessively punch point-of-view histories into their laptops
to yield sites that document everything from a neighborhood’s
significant quakes to its slightest tremors.

Or, as Placeblogger.com,
a Web site that promotes and tracks blogs with a hyperlocal focus, put
it: “Placeblogs are about the lived experience of a community, some of
which is news and some of which isn’t.”

In the past year, the
word Bloglyn has been cropping up a lot, a reflection of the fact that
Brooklyn, particularly brownstone Brooklyn, has emerged as possibly the
center of the placeblog world. Web forums serve as virtual town hall
meetings (complete with hecklers), and bloggers peer with equal
interest at controversial development projects, restaurant openings and
the most minute of neighborhood minutiae.

After tracking blogs in
about 3,000 American neighborhoods for six months, a study released
this year by the Web site Outside.in declared Clinton Hill the
“bloggiest” neighborhood in America.

No other Brooklyn
neighborhoods made the top 10. The people conducting the survey
acknowledged, however, that Brooklyn neighborhoods could have taken up
a lot of space on the list; as if wary of placing an entire ball club’s
roster on the all-star team at the expense of the rest of the league,
they chose Clinton Hill for the No. 1 slot but omitted the others. And
as Steven Berlin Johnson of Park Slope, a creator of Outside.in,
explained, in terms of socioeconomic makeup, the national top 10 and
the Brooklyn top 10 look a lot alike.

“On a per capita basis,”
said Robert Guskind, founder of the year-old blog Gowanus Lounge, which
he says gets 85,000 page views per month, “we have more bloggers than
any other part of the city, and more than anywhere that I know of. More
than in Manhattan, and way more than in Queens.” Mr. Guskind, who is
also the Brooklyn editor of Curbed.com, said he was not aware of any placeblogs in Staten Island or the Bronx.

Ms. Crawford is typical of the breed of individuals running these quirky byways of the information highway.

In
accordance with the unwritten rules of placeblogging, Ms. Crawford
considers her three-year-old blog an “informal portal” with no pretense
of objectivity and, by definition, an automatic interest in anything
that ever happens in or relating to Park Slope. This is why she
welcomes e-mail tips from readers sharing observations like “I think I
heard a gunshot” or questions like “What was that smell last night?”
For Ms. Crawford and her audience, absolutely nothing is too trivial.

The
quirks of her own life reflect her postage stamp of home turf. Ms.
Crawford, a mother of two, writes a parenting column called Smartmom
for The Brooklyn Paper, and observations on education and child-rearing
factor prominently in her blog. In a recent entry on her daughter’s
fifth-grade graduation ceremony at Public School 321, she wrote:
“Graduations. Parties. They’re going on all over the city. These are
the milestone moments that require Kleenex and a strong margarita
afterwards.”

Inspired by The Atlantic Monthly’s list of the 100
most influential Americans, last year Ms. Crawford compiled the “Park
Slope 100,” a list that included well-known Slope figures like the
writer Paul Auster and the actor Steve Buscemi, but also lesser-known
residents, like a stoic local barista who serves coffee and muffins
with a particular grace, and her therapist.

“I just kind of threw that in,” Ms. Crawford said of this last inclusion. “Nobody mentioned it.”

READ THE REST HERE.

DRY CLEANER CLOSES IN PARK SLOPE: WHERE IS MY WEDDING DRESS

Susan Leone needs help locating the owners of the dry cleaner on 1st Street and 6th Avenue so that she can locate her wedding dress. The shop closed about two weeks ago. If anyone has information, do tell.

I am not sure if this blog could be helpful in my pursuit but I thought that I would try.  This is my story:

There is a dry cleaner that used to be on Fifth Avenue at 1st Street , called Jordan Malachi cleaners.  This store closed down very quickly about 1-1/2 weeks ago.  They closed down without leaving any contact information. 

The problem is that they have my wedding dress!  I brought it to them last November to be cleaned.  The man behind the counter said that it would take about 6 weeks.  I went back at that point and he told me that it was not ready yet. 

Needless to say, I went back about 4 times, each time he said that it was at his other store and that he would bring it over.  Then he closed down.  I have talked with business owners on the block and they don’t have any information on what happened or where he went.  I even spoke with the mailman (such a sweet man!) who said that they did not leave a forwarding mail address. 

So I thought that I would try to reach out to others in the neighborhood to see if they are in the same predicament or have any contact information.
Thanks for reading and please let me know the best way to get the word out so that I can hopefully track down my wedding dress!

BREASTFEEDING A GO GO IN PARK SLOPE SAYS TIMES’ WRITER

All the hoopla about Greg Beyer’s article on Brooklyn Blogging and the other article about Park Slope in Sunday’s Times, Park Slope Parent Trap, practically fell under the radar.

Except it didn’t.

Even up here in Connecticut — and I don’t mean Connecticut Muffin. Diaper Diva called to tell me to read the article in the City section.

I finally got to look at it in a wireless room at the lovely "George Washington Slept Here" inn we’re staying at in Connecticut.

Love the photo — a stroller mom pushing up the Slope past Two Boots. Classic.

The article is by Samantha Storey, a long-time Sloper who became a mom in January. She’s finding out the truth about Park Slope. And it ain’t always pretty.  She writes.

I hated that my neighborhood was living up to its cliché of being chock-full of “annoying parenting types.”

Once her baby was born, it was time to write another "reasons to hate Park Slope" article. Well, having a baby does give you a new perspective on Park Slope.

Joining the scores of 30-something couples who seemingly move to
Brooklyn to breed, I discovered a whole new dimension of Park Slope.
With my son’s birth in January came three months of maternity leave,
and I got to see the neighborhood on weekdays.

I wasn’t surprised by the gangs of mothers, but I was shocked by the sheer numbers  — they were everywhere.

It’s true. There are sooooo many mommies. Back in 1991 we used to joke about stroller gridlock. But what were we complaining about? Comparatively it was so minimal.

But now….

I love Storey’s description of a breast-milk-klatch at Two Boots. To some it will sound weird. Barbara Walters would find it disgusting. Storey herself seems a little uncomfortable with it. But if you’ve ever breast fed, you might appreciate the open minded attitude toward breastfeeding that exists in Park Slope. I for one was grateful for it.

I had stumbled upon an assembly of breasts, mine
included, as I nursed my own baby. While I struggled to manipulate my
son’s head to cover as much of my breast as possible, these women took
their comfort with nakedness to a whole new height.

One woman had
her shirt completely unbuttoned, her pretty pink, lacey maternity bra
on display. Another had one breast lopped over the top of her tank top.
The third had twins. She wasn’t wearing a shirt — or a bra for that
matter — just a hoodie sweatshirt unzipped with a baby at each breast.
She walked around the restaurant with them in her arms, her body
swaying in a comforting dance.

If only I was a 14-year-old boy!
I admired their lack of self-consciousness but had to admit I was
uncomfortable — it was as if I had landed in a private living room, and
it felt as if I were privy to their intimacy unbeknownst to them.

GREG BEYER UNDER FIRE

That’s right. Reporter Greg Beyer is under fire over at Atlantic Yards Report for leaving out Atlantic Yards Report and No Land Grab.  in his article Cracker-Barrel 2.0 in the City section of the New York Times.

Yes, that is a serious omission when it comes to an article about the Brooklyn blogging scene. I mean COME ON: Norman Oder and Lumi Rolley are Blogging luminaries.

But I agree with Norman Oder who writes:

Some who attended the Second Annual Brooklyn Blogfest in May complained that there was too much emphasis on Atlantic Yards, given that two of the six featured bloggers (Lumi Rolley of No Land Grab and I) focused on Brooklyn’s most controversial project. It’s
not an illegitimate criticism; it depends whether you believe such an
event should encompass all who come–as did the debut event in 2006–or
some of the most prominent. (Next year, I’m sure I’ll sit it out.)

Reading Beyer’s article, I had the sense that he was correcting for that slant at the Brooklyn Blogfest and highlighting some of the blogs that are not single issue. His focus was something Beyer calls "place blogs."

I spent a couple of hours with Greg back in May soon after the Blogfest talking about my blog and my perspective on things. I think I may have emphasized my own appreciation of the idiosyncratic and eccentric side of blogging.

Hey, that was the morning I saw the Nashville Warbler. I was in a micro frame of mind. 

Needless to say, I am thrilled with the article and think it’s beautifully written. That said, one article in the Times’ can’t cover all the ins and outs of Brooklyn blogging. It seems to me that Brooklyn blogging is getting top big to be generalized about.

There are place blogs, personal blogs, real estate blogs, development blogs, artsy blogs, photo blogs, political blogs, etc.

We are a growing blogdom and we don’t need to fight over who gets space in a New York Times article.

We’re too big and varied for that   

 

OTBKB EXCLUSIVE: THE BRIDGES OF KINGS COUNTY, AS FEATURED IN NEW “WALKING BROOKLYN” BOOK

Footbridge_lundys_taken_on_the_brid Guest Blogger Adrienne Onofri shares some of her favorite walks from her new book Walking Brooklyn with the readers of OTBKB:

The first itinerary I developed for Walking Brooklyn features that most famous Brooklyn walk—across the Brooklyn Bridge (which is paired with the Promenade for a “Riverside Rambles” route). I wanted to include the other East River bridges too, especially since some New Yorkers had told me they didn’t even know you could walk on them. Walk 2 in the book goes over the Manhattan Bridge, then through Dumbo’s riverfront parks to the Ferry Landing. Those who take the Williamsburg tour begin by walking across the bridge from Delancey St. in Manhattan.

As noted in the book, the Manhattan Bridge has the most elaborate entrance of the three (heading toward Brooklyn), while the Williamsburg gives you the most striking view upon entering Brooklyn: an equestrian statue of George Washington, across from the Roman temple-like building of the old Williamsburg Trust Company.

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Walking Brooklyn spotlights other bridges as well. The Verrazano-Narrows is visible throughout the Bay Ridge walk, while the Fort Hamilton to Bensonhurst trip takes you under the bridge (and to see a monument to the man who got it named after Verrazano). You see the Marine Parkway Gil Hodges Memorial Bridge, linking Brooklyn and Rockaway, from Manhattan Beach, and I point out the two bridges over the Newtown Creek on the Greenpoint walk—named, appropriately for that Polish neighborhood, after generals Pulaski and Kosciuszko. You cross the Gowanus Canal via the 1889 retractile bridge on Carroll St. on the Gowanus/Carroll Gardens walk, and the Sheepshead Bay marina via a charming wooden footbridge built in 1882. Brooklyn’s oldest bridge? That’s on the Prospect Park walk. It’s Endale Arch, designed by Frederick Law Olmsted when the park was created in the 1860s.

AU CONTRAIRE: GUEST BLOGGING FROM PETER LOFFREDO

Here’s
some excerpts from an article in the New York Times last week about the state
of Eros in relationships today. It was called: "The Shelf Life of
Bliss" by Sam Roberts (Published: July 1, 2007)

Roberts starts with this:


"Forget the proverbial seven-year itch. Not to disillusion the half
million or so June brides and bridegrooms who were just married, but
new research suggests that the spark may fizzle within only
three years."

A bit later, he goes on to say this:


"Everyone knows the first blush of love is the strongest…"

And finally, in a most depressing finale, he leaves us with:


"But a dissipation of that all-enveloping rapture is no reason to give up on a relationship."


Well, as a person who has and is experiencing long-term bliss in a
relationship, and as a psychotherapist who has worked with many couples
in therapy seeking to sustain or recapture that bliss, I would like to
respond to Sam Roberts with some genuine "in-the-field experience."
Yes, "Eros" (bliss, in-love-ness, rapture, whatever you want to call
that amazing rush of feeling when two people come together and it’s
"right") does indeed very typically "fizzle" after an initial "free
sample" is used up (ranging from 3 months to 3 years) . However, this
doesn’t happen because that initial surge of Eros is the strongest, as
Roberts suggests. On the contrary, it fades because people rarely do
the inner work necessary to keep the channels open that would allow
that wonderful state to continue AND GROW EVEN STRONGER!

Yes, that’s
right. Love and sex are not naturally the best in the beginning
of a relationship. Love and sex are best when year after year, you
continue to reveal yourself to your lover and explore your partner’s
inner world in deeper and deeper ways, including romantically and
sexually.

Roberts proposes that the "dissipation of that all-enveloping
rapture" should be accepted and not be used to"give up on a
relationship." Well, I would agree with the last part of the statement
if the not giving up means doing whatever self-work it takes to
rekindle that spark, if possible. I definitely do not agree, however,
that it is anyone’s best interest – not the partners or the children of
such a partnership – to hunker down and settle for a passionless,
Eros-deprived relationship.
The "honeymoon" doesn’t have to ever give way to the "old ball and
chain," folks, not if you don’t want it to, and not if your partner is
willing to go there with you.