THE O.C. IS ENDING: ONLY 6 MORE EPISODES

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Tonight I found out that there are only 6 more episodes of The O.C. That’s it. Kaput. It’s over. Needless to say, this girl from Kings County will really miss her dopey TV friends from Orange County.

The O.C. is my weekly does of dumb television. And I look forward to it. So much. Thursday is O.C. night. OSFO and I watch it together. I am, like, so completely sad about the fact that it’s ending.

Why you might ask? Well, er, ah, uhhh…

For some reason, I am very attached to the characters. I think the show is funny. The nasty characters are satisfyingly nasty. The cute characters are really, really cute (I have a crush on Ryan, pictured left). There’s some good acting. Some good writing. Some ridiculously bad writing. Some pretty bad acting.

I love that ditzy, crazy Taylor is going out with my Ryan. I love that Taylor speaks French and was briefly married to a French intellectual (who wrote a bestselling book about their sex life).

Ryan is the oh so troubled one. His great love, Marisa, died last season. He’s a child of the streets. A little bit tough. A little bit tongue-tied. Estranged from both parents, he was adopted by a rich lawyer and his wife. He’s raw. He’s shy. He’s hurtin’. He’s cute.

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I love Summer and her transformation from Newport Beach girl into envionmental activist at
Brown University until she gets kicked out for freeing the rabbits in
the science lab. And she keeps one and names it Pancake.

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I love funny, shy, comic-book artist Seth who is Jewish and in love with Summer.

I love Peter Gallagher playing a Jewish super lawyer, super dad. Plus, he did a great Jerry Lewis imitation tonight.

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I love Kaitlin for her utterly bitchy, "too cool for school", utterly debased and debauched high school attitude.

And then there’s Julie, the queen of mean. Heck, she’s running a
male (twenty-something men for middle-aged women) prostitution ring out
of the office she shares with too-good-to-be true-Kirsten. Yes,
Kirsten, the most plastic character on the show. Wise, womanly, above
the fray…

Whoa. Whoa. Wait a minute, Kirsten used to have a drinking problem
and went to rehab (that’s when I first started watching. She has
backstory, I forgot).

Wouldn’t you miss these characters, too. If you read The O.C. message boards, most fans think the show went to hell after Marissa died. This season’s plots have been very off the wall. The ship is definitely going down and some are glad that they’re ending the misery.

But what about: THE SOUNDTRACKS!!!

 

SHAKESPEARE’S SISTER IN CARROLL GARDENS

The Danish Fullbright Scholar mentioned Shakespeare’s Sister to me today. I said, sounds familiar, don’t know it.

Well I do. It’s that little shop next to the Sweet Melissa’s in Carroll Gardens. I’ve been there many times to look at their greeting cards.

Danish Fullbright Scholar told me that the owner, Aaron Barlow, is writing a book about blogging. Sounds interesting. More info anyone?

Turns out there’s a lot more going on in there. Here’s how they describe themselves on their website:

Shakespeare’s Sister, along with our gallery/crafts-mall The Artback, provides gifts a little more surprising, a bit more unexpected than what might be found at other gift stores.          

In business since 1994, Shakespeare’s Sister takes its name from Virgnia Woolf’s "A Room of One’s Own," where Woolf counters the argument that women are not as creative as men.  We believe creativity is found everywhere, among all ages, sexes, races, and nations.         

       

They also offer this interesting service:

Have you a book to publish? We at Shakespeare’s Sister are offering a new service, preparing manuscripts for print-on-demand publication. With our experienced compositor and cover designer, we can allow you complete control over how your final product will look–all for as low as $350.00.

If you then use a print-on-demand service such as that provided by lulu.com, your final book could be ready for as little as $400.00.

Soon, you will be able to do this completely online. For now, however, please call us: 718-694-0084.

270 Court Street
Brooklyn, NY 11231
718-694-0084

BROKEN ANGEL BROKERED A DEAL

75-year old Arthur Wood created the stained-glass windows in the now infamous Broken Angel building located at 4 Downing
Street in the Clinton Hill. They are made from all sorts of detritus: salt shakers, ashtrays and coffee table, bottles. From the inside, you can see the windows’ bright colors.

Yesterday, in a conference with the Brooklyn Supreme Court, the
Woods agreed to dismantle
the building’s 40-foot rooftop structure, the main violation.

FROM THE NY TIMES: The Woods
have also entered into a tentative agreement to share ownership with a
local developer, Shahn Andersen, who would turn most of the building
into condominiums, according to a spokeswoman for City Councilwoman
Letitia James. The Broken Angel, as the house is known, would include
some form of community space, along with living and studio space for
the Woods.

Wood wanted to raise the
money to bring the building up to code and keep it for himself. But he
was running out of time and afraid the buildings department would tear
down his home.

I NEED THIS

The Dorit Baxter spa in New York is offering Blackberry Thumb and Tech
Neck massages to help you release the muscular tension brought on by
your gadgets. I have both conditions.  Have started to use a mouse instead of the pad.

Is your Treo making your fingers ache and your face break
out with zits? The city’s high-end spas are selling fixes for such
ailments as “BlackBerry thumb,” “tech neck,’’ and “cell-phone clog.’’
“These are repetitive-stress injuries that people used to get in their
fifties and sixties; now they are afflicted in their twenties and
thirties,’’ says Dr. Thomas Scilaris, an Upper East Side orthopedic
surgeon. Dorit Baxter spa on West 57th Street offers “Tech Neck” and
“Tech Hand” treatments, recommended weekly at $59 per half-hour for
each, which combine hot compresses and acupressure to relieve
inflammation and “pins and needles.”

THE FOURTH GRADE TEST

Thursday is, thank god,  the final day of testing for New York City public school fourth graders. The ELA (English Language Arts) Test is a big deal because some middle schools require a certain score for admission.

For those who don’t know — NYC public school kids have to apply to middle school. It’s sort of like college…

Just to get into 6th grade. Fun. Crazy. Idiotic.

The kids have been doing test prep for months at PS 321 and they’re sick and tired of it. I imagine many of them will be relieved when it’s over. So will their parents. 

OSFO was stressed. She went to sleep early each night and struggled to fall asleep. She tried to eat a good breakfast — even if she wasn’t hungry. 

She was very worried that if she didn’t do well she wouldn’t be  promoted to fifth grade.

I told her not to worry. There wasn’t a chance of that. Not a chance.  I hate to see my girl so stressed out. I love her so.

JEWISH MUSIC CAFE IN PARK SLOPE

It’s on the calendar and I hope to actually get there — the Jewish Music Cafe at 8:30 p.m. I’m eager to check out the cafe, which is right acorss the street fro Barbes, the go-to place to hear slavic soul and all varieties of western and eastern European music often with accordians and horns.

The Jewish Music Cafe is located at 401 9th Street – right across the street from Barbes. In the synogogue. 

Klezmer, Israeli Trance, Hasidic Rap, Avante Garde Jazz – it’s all
there with Hebrew Beer, cheesecake, and Kosher cappuchino. 12 bucks
gets you in.

This Thursday, programmer Elie Massias presents two bands that new
music legend, John Zorn raves about. 8:30 p.m. Shows most Saturdays at
8:30. Anyone care to join me?

I AGREE WITH DOUGLAS RUSHKOFF

Here’s an excerpt from a recent post from Douglas Rushkoff’s blog. The post is called Sock Mobs — and I was very interested in what he has to say. And please — no nasty comments.

The Internet can be a nasty place – particularly online discussions and
the comments sections of blogs. But is the recent increase in online
hostilities really an indication of some groundswell of American rage,
or are there just a few bad eggs determined to make it look that way?

here’s a relatively new phenomenon occurring online these days – an
illusion of populist group hostilitiy I’ve come to call "Sock Mobs,"
after the "sock puppets" people use to feign multiple identities in
online conversations. It works like this:

An anonymous poster
picks a fight with his presumed enemy. Whether or not that enemy
responds, a number of other posters appear to chime in – agreeing to
whatever the accusation might be. "This guy is a commie." "This doctor
is a quack." "This guy wants Israel to be abolished." "This professor
is corrupting college students." The accusation comes along with
twisted supporting evidence. Every once in a while, an underinformed
but real person agrees with the accusations; after all, it appears from
the posts that this enemy of all things good and proper really might be
a threat. All this makes it look like there’s a lot of upset people.

Doug has 10, count em 10 books out. Wow he’s prolific. They include Cyberia,
                Media Virus, Playing the Future, Nothing Sacred: The Truth about
                Judaism,
and Coercion, winner of the Marshall Mcluhan Award
                for best media book. Rushkoff also wrote the acclaimed novels
                Ecstasy Club and Exit
                Strategy
and graphic novel, Club
                Zero-G
. He has just finished a book for HarperBusiness,
                applying renaissance principles to today’s complex economic landscape,
                Get Back in the Box: Innovation from the Inside Out. He’s now writing a monthly comic book for Vertigo called Testament.
               

               

SCULPTOR INTERESTED IN MENTORING A KID?

A friend writes:

Is there a Park Slope or Brooklyn
sculptor who would be interested in mentoring a  promising 12-year-old this semester for a big project at school.

She writes: "The sculptor I seek would need to have some studio space and be
willing to be available to challenge him into doing something involved
and more complicated than the average quick sculpting. Maybe something
in plaster or wire. But not too abstract. The 12-year-old could also help
clean the studio or something like that."

Please send replies to louisecrawford@gmail.com

 

BARBARA RUSHKOFF’S POST ON BABBLE ABT LEAVING BROOKLYN HAS MOVED

Barbara Rushkoff seems to have removed her post about her husband’s Christmas Eve mugging from  A Girl Grows in Brooklyn on Babble.

You can’t blame her. I’m guessing she was disgusted by the firestorm it set off. It’s obvious that the recent hoopla about Doug’s Christmas mugging post has caused both Barbara and Doug to rethink personal blogging.  

When I mentioned the mugging story on my  blog, there were a bunch of  needlessly nasty comments.

Still, I find this all very interesting. Doug’s site is, afterall, a promotional site for the brand of author Douglas Rushkoff. That’s pretty much what a blog is. Still, he has every right to feel violated.

Nothwithstanding, he did become a minor sensation overnight.

He was probably already famous enought. He has written ten really interesting sounding books (see my post I Agree with Douglas Rushkoff for a list of his books). But still. Not a bad marketing strategy. Maybe I should get mugged, write about it. Then I’d get an agent (did I just write that?).

Some say all publicity is good publicity. But people are nasty – especially in the anonymous sphere of blogging comments, where it seems to be all about personal attacks. Blog comments can truly be the dark side of blogging. The flip side of the free expression that blogging represents.

I totally agree with Doug on that point and I understand why this unwanted attention has made his family feel vulnerable to the anonymous personal jabs that
constitute unmoderated discussion these days. Here’s an excerpt from a recent post:

I’ll be closing out this blog and moving over to an open source something-or-other in the next weeks.

I’ll
also use this occasion to change the content, here. Although I’ve
usually made it a rule not to post anything personal here, I let that
slip recently, sharing my thoughts and feelings after being mugged on
my front stoop. I see that this was mistake, as it ends up making this
space more about me than about whatever it is I have to contribute. And
it also makes my family vulnerable to the anonymous personal jabs that
constitute unmoderated discussion these days.

There are enough
personal narrative blogs out there to fill an Internet, so I’m not
worried about hurting the supply. Meanwhile, sharing personal
information just gives more fodder to those who tend to turn all
discussions into personal attacks. I remember a while ago, my
suggestion that putting ads on a blog makes the blogger vulnerable to
market forces ended up leading to long tirades about the fact that I
take money for writing books. And while that’s quite a non-starter (my
books are certainly vulnerable to market forces), my using this space
for anything personal leaves the discussions open to such digressions.

See you on the other side.
 
 

NAMES OF ORGANIZATIONS THAT HELP HOMELESS TEENS

Does anyone have ideas for this reader whose daughter is organizing an event to raise money for homeless teens. Please send ideas to Susan.knightly@verizon.net or you can post as a comment.

We wonder if you could tell us the leading charitable organization for
homeless teens in Brooklyn . Our violinist daughter is organizing a
benefit concert of highly talented performing teens and is researching
the best places to donate funds to help homeless teens. We are a Park
Slope family and our daughter is 13! She has contributed to CHIPS for
many years and is narrowing this fund raiser to target homeless teens.
Please send ideas to: Susan.knightly@verizon.net

One suggestion I have is the New York Writers Coalition, (NYWC):

NYWC is one of the
largest community writing organizations in the country. NYWC creates
opportunities to be heard, through the art of writing, for formerly
voiceless members of society. Each year, we provide hundreds of free,
unique and powerful creative writing workshops throughout New York City for at-risk youth, adult residents of supportive housing, the formerly incarcerated, seniors and others. 


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SO HOW WAS THE DANYA KURTZ SHOW AT UNION HALL?

I can’t wait to hear from the man who won the ticket giveaway to the Danya Kurtz show at Union Hall. He was recently separated from his wife and is feeling a bit down in the dumps.

"(the separation) has broken my heart (never used that
phrase before, but now I know what it means, how it feels, so it seems
apt), and music is something (among many other things) that we have in
common – Emmylou Harris, Bob Dylan, Odetta, The Decemberists, Nanci
Griffith, Bach, Johnny Cash, Paolo Conte, John Prine, Nick Drake, to
name but a few of our favorites – so music is one of the few solaces I
have at the moment. I am still deeply in love with her, and would give
anything to overcome and heal the hurts and resentments and stupid
actions and behaviors that created the gulf separating us, but until,
and if, I ever am fortunate enough to have that opportunity, I will
attempt to drown my sorrow in music."

He asked for two tickets and I wondered who he was taking. A date? A friend?  I had a fantasy that his wife would show up at the show. They’d sit at the bar and  have a really, really positive talk about their difficulties. Maybe they’d even iron them out right there at Union Hall.

But I’m a romantic. And a child of divorce. I’m always trying to glue people back together. I am also incredibly curious (nosy?) so of course I’m wondering if they can "overcome and heal the hurts and resentments and stupid
actions and behaviors that created the gulf separating us."

Maybe he just went to the gig. Enjoyed Danya Kurtz’s deep, dark music of the soul and felt sufficiently wallowed by the spirit of her songs.

That would be enough,  wouldn’t it?

 

RAMEN, HEPCAT AND ME

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When we were dating back in the 1980’s, I visited Hepcat’s crowded studio apartment on East End Avenue. He had a nice kitchen connected to a room where he had a mattress on the floor, a desk covered with an Amiga Computer, manuals, and lots of paper and newspaper.

The place was kind of a mess. But I overlooked that because, well, I was in LOVE.

I remember on that first visit checking his kitchen cabinets. Just to see what my future mate (I had a hunch he would be my future mate) had in his kitchen cabinets. Call it nosy. I call it — important information.

Well, guess what was in there? Dozens of yellow and green packages of INSTANT RAMEN. Yes, Ramen. Seems that Hepcat used to live on Ramen. It’s bachelor food I reckoned.

"Do you buy in bulk?" I asked him.
"Yeah. I get big crates of the stuff," he said.

Truth is, Hepcat supposedly made up a great recipe for cold noodles with sesame sauce which used Ramen. There was also peanut butter in his fridge. And beer, I think.

He should have made me some then and there. That would have sealed the deal. But I was in love already.

All these years later,  Hepcat’s the cook around here. And we hardly ever have Ramen though our son has gone through Ramen binges.

So that’s my Ramen apprecation at the time of its inventor’s death. The laugh I had at all that Ramen Hepcat had in his kitchen cabinets when he was a bachelor.

Picture by Toyohara on Flickr

BUILDING BRIDGES

Last night after band practice, Teen Spirit came home with a bag of popsicle sticks and an assignment from his math teacher to create an 8 inch bridge using triangles.

He was super excited about the project and had even worked on it at school until they ran out of glue for the glue gun.

"We have  a glue gun, right? Cause I need to finish my bridge projet tonight," TS said as he came in the door.

Be supportive I whispered to Hepcat. This project really has TS turned on.

Hepcat who grew up with engineers on a farm in Northern California perked up as soon as Teen Spirit mentioned it. But he was dubious about TS’s initial approach.

Be supportive, I whispered.

He asked some helpful questions. I feared he might crush TS’s enthusiasm. Parents can do that. TS explained where he got the idea to use triangles.

"It was on our cross-country trip. Whenever we drove over bridges you explained to me that triangles are a very strong shape," he said

I could tell they were going to bond big time over this construction project. Not only was TS involved in a project right up Hepcat’s alley. He remembered something Hepcat told him five years ago in a car

The project progressed. A new plan was devised. The bridge needed torsion. Engineering terms were bandied about. Glue had to be borrowed from Mr. Kravitz downstairs. OSFO got involved. George Bush spoke on national television about sending more troops to Iraq.

"If there’s a draft let’s all move," Teen Spirit said. He’s less than three years from soldier age.
"We’ll go to Canada," I said.
"Why Canada? That’s always the cliche. How about Europe?" TS said. 

The family sat together as this bridge was built. Hepcat called Bush’s speech "gibberish." It was a sobering thought that there are soldiers in Iraq just two and half years older than Teen Spirit. So many have died. My heart ached for the American and Iraqi families, who have lost their children. The president said to expect more casualties.

For what? I thought to myself.

It’s a colorful thing this popsicle stick bridge. Hepcat was supportive — he probably did too much of the work but hey. Even OSFO applied some glue. When it was completed, three heavy books were placed on top to prove that it was strong (the teacher asked that it be able to support the math textbook)

TS looked stunned, pleased, proud of his bridge. Father and son proceeded to the couch to watch "The Knights of Prosperity," a new show on Fox 5.

PROGRESS REPORT ON PARK SLOPE ARMORY FROM GOWANUS LOUNGE

Gowanus Lounge has a progress report on construction work at the Park Slope Armory. He’s also got pictures. He’s got a photo, too. Go to GL for more story.

Work is going forward on the Park Slope Armory, and the facility seems to be on target to reopen as an athletic, recreational and education center in September. Local City Council Member Bill de Blasio estimates that the project’s cost will be $20 million
"when the smoke clears." (The original cost was said to be $16 million,
but Mr. DeBlasio used the $20M figure, so we’re not clear what wasn’t
included in the original estimate or what has changed.) The Armory is
located on Eighth Avenue between 14th and 15th streets. The renovated
facility will include track and field, basketball, volleyball, tennis,
gymnastics, badminton, boxing, fencing, judo, table tennis, tae kwon
do, handball, weightlifting, wrestling and aerobics. The renovated
facility also retains a women’s shelter. An RFP is going out soon to
select an entity to run the facility and everyone’s still trying to
find a balance between individual community users and use by schools
and youth leagues. The big redo is a partnership between Take the
Field, a nonprofit, and the Departments of Education (DOE) and Homeless
Services (DHS). The result should be a spectacular community facility
in the massive 110,000 square foot space.

NEW WEB SITE, NEW IMAGE FOR BROOKLYN PAPER

It’s official. The Brooklyn Paper has launched their new web site. Woo hoo. Check it out. They’ve also gone singular. No more Brooklyn Papers. It’s the BROOKLYN PAPER now.

There are other changes afoot. The Brooklyn Paper is renaming the local print editions:

Brooklyn Heights–Downtown Edition (DUMBO)
Carroll Gardens–Cobble Hill Edition (Red Hook•Boerum Hill)
Fort Greene–Clinton Hill Edition
Park Slope Edition (Prospect Heights•Sunset Park•Windsor Terrace)
Bay Ridge–Bensonhurst Edition
And more. The Brooklyn Paper will now feature two new pages. Each
week, Page 2 will include an expanded "Where to GO" calendar, with new
Editors Picks for the top events of the week. A civic calendar will
also be included on the page, with listing of community meetings and
"civic" events. An expanded masthead (a "who’s who" of Paper employees)
will be featured prominently on the page.
As of today the Web site — at www.BrooklynPaper.com, is LIVE. The new site will combine their three old sites  — Brooklynpapers.com, TheBrooklynBride.com, and
GO-Brooklyn.com into one state-of-the-art site.
The
new site will include every story that is in print, and will be updated
on a daily basis. It will also include paid advertising.
Anyone with links to old articles on the old Web sites will
automatically be redirected to the same story on the new Web site. They say that nothing will be lost during the transition.

Congratulations to the Brooklyn Paper for a huge job well done.

PARK SLOPE BOOK OF THE YEAR — SO FAR

PARALLEL PLAY, Tom Rafiel’s new book, is in bookstores NOW. It’s the Park Slope Book of the New Year. You will want to read about Tom’s female protagonist, Eve, and her edgy, realer-than-real approach to motherhood in Park Slope. Tom is spot-on with her female voice and the Park Slope mise en scene is tres perfect. You’ll want to pick up Rayfiel’s sometimes shocking, always honest, on-the-money take on Mommy-lit that’s hard-to-put-down thanks to Tom’s humorous and riveting writing style.

AND

Tom Rayfiel is reading at Park Slope’s Barnes and Noble at 7:30 on January 16th. That’s my father’s birthday. Anyone want to join me?

THE TIMING COULDN”T BE MORE PERFECT: INTERFAITH MARTIN LUTHER KING SERVICE

President Bush is set to announce his decision to send more troops to Iraq in a speech this week. This inter-faith service at Old First Church in honor of Martin Luther King comes at a perfect time. Come see leaders of many faiths put aside their differences and come together against the war.  It’s very inspiring.

Martin Luther King Holiday Observance: Citizen MLK
"Remembering Dr. King with Heart and Mind"

Jeremiads by this generation of clergy & leaders on inequitable and unjust policy abroad AND at home

Sunday, January 14th 4 PM sharp
Old First Reformed Church 729 Carroll St. @ 7th Ave., Park Slope

For more info: contact Brown Memorial Baptist Church at (718) 638-6121

or Old First Reformed Church at (718) 638-8300

Observe the MLK Holiday with our Pastors, Rabbis, Imams and leaders as they reflect on Dr. King, clergyman, countryman and war critic.

There will also be a discussion of the best way to practice democracy as a person of God. Stand together as one human family and tell our elected officials: Stop Recruiting Our Kids for Iraq.

Join us in a call to action concerning peace, justice and the re-distribution of our tax dollars for our local needs.

Featuring: Citizen MLK Juniors An Interfaith Youth Presentation.

Participating congregations:  Memorial Baptist Church, First Unitarian Congregational Society in Brooklyn, Lafayette Avenue Presbyterian Church, Congregation Beth Elohim, Old First Reformed Church, Concord Baptist Church of Christ, Council of People’s Organizations, Islamic Mission of America,“ Dawood Mosque, First Presbyterian Church of Brooklyn Heights and others

FOR FANS OF FONTS: AN EVENT TONIGHT

Areyou a font fanatic? Do you like Bodoni, Helvetica, Times Roman or maybe you’re more the Geneva type of person (excuse the pun)?  Then this exhibition and event is for you. Hey, all you graphic designers out there—

Explore the hidden meaning of typography at the
“Letter as Image, Image as Letter" exhibition at the
Society of Illustrators. Tonight, artists like Gerard
Huerta, who created the lettering for AC/DC, and Michael
Doret, who designed the Knicks logo, will discuss their
work. You’ll never listen to “Back in Black” the same way
again.

Exhibition, through Jan. 27, Society of
Illustrators
, 128 East 63rd Street, (212) 838-2560.
Talk, 7:30 p.m., Cooper
Union
, Wollman Auditorium, 51 Astor Place, East Village, (212) 353-4195; free.

STINK CLOSES F TRAIN STATION YESTERDAY

Officials still aren’t sure what caused the stink. One woman was taken to the hospital because of it. The odor affected the morning commute. Charles Seaton, a spokesman for New York City Transit, said the F train station at 6th Avenue and 23rd Street in Manhattan was evacuated at 9:47 a.m. because of a strong gas odor but it was reopened about 10:15. Everything seems back to normal for Tuesday’s communte.

ALAN ARKIN: WE LOVE YOU

Alan Arkin, one of the many great things about Little Miss Sunshine, is a Brooklyn Boy.

AP: You were born in New York. It’s hard to imagine your voice coming from anywhere but Brooklyn.

ARKIN: Hey! (in a Brooklyn accent) We moved to L.A. when I was about 11, but it never rubbed off. I never felt comfortable there. I understand it [in New York] more. There’s anger in both places, but it feels much more lethal in L.A. than it does here.

AP: What do you like about living in Santa Fe, N.M.?

ARKIN: It’s a small town. I go to restaurants there and I know everybody in the restaurant. I know all the artists who are waiting on us.

AP: Community or camaraderie with actors is also important to you. It’s something you stress in the acting workshops you teach.

ARKIN: The supportive aspect of it frees you to do better work than you ordinarily would. A lot of people I’ve known in film protect their own turf, but I don’t think it really does the work any good.

AP: How is that camaraderie between a cast built on a set?

ARKIN: Smaller, less comfortable trailers and a significant rehearsal period. We had that on “Little Miss Sunshine.” I can remember vividly the movies that had it and I feel like it shows. You often have little more than a cursory ‘Hello, how are you’ relationship with the people you’re having intimate scenes with — which is nuts. You can’t do it. It’s phony.

THERE GOES THE NEIGHBORHOOD: BROOKLYN A LONELY PLANET PICK

So, here’s some news thanks to Jeanne Ramirez, New York 1’s incredible Brooklyn reporter: Brooklyn is one of the must-see places in the world, according to Lonely Planet, the largest independent travel guide. In its 2007 Blue List, the Best in Travel edition, Brooklyn is on their “Go List” as a top destination, chosen by their global team of about 50 editors. This from NY1:

“They’re extremely open-minded in terms of what they’ve seen and how they compare and contrast. And you’re up against stiff competition when they’re assessing you against what they’ve learned about travel,” said Lonely Planet writer Ginger Otis. “So for them, for that team to have picked Brooklyn, is really quite a coup.”

Some of the editors’ standouts include Coney Island’s beaches, particularly when the Polar Bears take the New Year’s Day dip in the frigid waters. The neighborhood’s annual Mermaid Parade and Nathan’s Famous Hot Dog Eating Contest. The views from Brooklyn’s waterfront and most famous bridge and Jacques Torres chocolate treats are listed as some of the borough’s defining experiences. The Brooklyn Museum, the Brooklyn Academy of Music, Prospect Park, and Williamsburg nightlife are also featured.

Lonely Planet says a cultural movement has emerged and now Brooklyn is the hippest part of the city.

“I think Brooklyn is unique in that it’s got all the attributes of a really big modern city,” said Otis. “And yet it’s got all these pockets of hometown charm. But the home, of course, can be somewhere from Italy, the home could be in Pakistan. The home can be from anywhere. But there’s such intense nuggets of ethnic flavor, of regional flavor.”

Of course, Brooklyn Borough President Marty Markowitz says the recognition is well deserved.

“Bravo I couldn’t agree with them more. Thank you Lonely Planet. You’ve got it right,” said Markowitz.

Markowitz says the travel guide will really help bring tourism to Brooklyn – something he’s been pushing for over the last several years. In 2004, Markowitz set up this tourist center in Borough Hall as well as a website on where to go, what to see and even things to wear. But he was taken aback last year when he traveled to Europe to promote Brooklyn and travel agents didn’t know much about it.

“When I asked them what they thought of Brooklyn, there was no reaction, because many of them didn’t know what Brooklyn is, other than we have a bridge,” said Markowitz.

Well many will soon be learning about Brooklyn now. Lonely Planet publications have their largest number of readers throughout Western Europe and Australia.

Other U.S. destinations that made the “Blue List” are Hawaii and New Orleans. Finland, San Sebastian, Spain, and Northeast India are also included.

– Jeanine Ramirez

WORLD MUSIC MECCA ON NINTH STREET IN PARK SLOPE

You probably know all about Barbes, the go-to place to hear slavic soul and all varieties of western and eastern European music often with accordians and horns.

Now there’s the Jewish Music Cafe at 401 9th Street – right across the street from Barbes. Of all places. They’re both between 6th and 7th Avenue. But it makes so much sense now with Barbes, Colson Bakery and now this.

Klezmer, Israeli Trance, Hasidic Rap, Avante Garde Jazz – it’s all there with Hebrew beer, cheesecake, and Kosher cappuchino. 12 bucks gets you in.

This Thursday, programmer Elie Massias presents two bands that new music legend, John Zorn raves about. 8:30 p.m. Shows most Saturdays at 8:30. Check it out.

MAN INJURED DURING POLAR BEAR SWIM HAS DIED

THIS FROM NY DAILY NEWS:

A promising Manhattan journalist has died of injuries from diving into the water during the annual Polar Bear swim in Coney Island on New Year’s Day.

Mohan Seneviratne, 32, who worked for Esquire magazine, suffered severe neck injuries when his head apparently struck a sandbar beneath the waves in the 48-degree waters. Seneviratne died on Friday at Lutheran Medical Center in Brooklyn, said a hospital spokesman.

“The loss of Mohan’s gentle, thoughtful and compassionate ways make the world feel colder and emptier already,” Dave Seligson, a former colleague, wrote in an online tribute.

The son of Sri Lankan immigrants, Seneviratne attended Columbia University’s Graduate School of Journalism and worked for Penguin Books and MSNBC before Esquire.

Seneviratne joined more than 300 thrill-seekers at the annual Polar Bear plunge. He was pulled motionless from the waves after onlookers realized he was seriously hurt. His funeral is tomorrow at Carmon Funeral Home in Avon, Conn.

FLIGHT OO1 ON SMITH STREET

Flight 001 is a fantastic store where you can buy all manner of travel accessories: suitcases, maps, airplane comfort items, passport cases, guidebooks, etc. The shop started on Greenwhich Avenue in the West Village and recently opened a shop on Smith Street. Haven’t been yet but hear that it’s bigger than the original shop. Can’t wait to see. Here’s a New York Times interview with someone associated with the shop They also have stores in LA, San Francisco and Chicago and online.

What’s the right way to pronounce the store’s name?
Flight One, which was the first commercial trip around the world—a Pan Am flight in the fifties and sixties. Our stores are set up to be retro-modern, like right out of old Pan Am footage. This new Brooklyn store is a little bigger.

How have the recent flight regulations affected what’s in demand?
Our three-ounce clear-bottle sets in a clear bag are a huge hit, as are Search Alert locks. It’s a government-approved combination lock to which all airports have a universal key, so they can open the lock without snipping it. There’s a display that changes color from green to red if they’ve opened your lock.

What kind of luggage do you own?
Mine is Rimowa, a German company that I love. They’re the guys that started the original money-and-drug-laundering aluminum suitcases. Now they’re made out of a super-lightweight plastic composite that doesn’t bend, which is good because airport luggage-handlers are like gorillas.

Best travel guide?

The new Wallpaper guides have good destinations and comprehensive info, and they look nice.

What do you do for in-flight anxiety?
I take a Valium and do a shot at the bar. Klonopin works really well, too. I’ve made the mistake of taking it too early, passing out, and drooling all over myself while everyone else was boarding. So, twenty minutes before boarding is a good time to take it.