Monthly Archives: December 2006
I LOVE STORIES LIKE THESE
This just in. A moving story from last year’s transit strike.
I will always remember the transit strike from last year. I was still living in San Francisco
and I got a call from my mom saying that my dad was in the hospital
getting prepped for triple bypass surgery. They were in "the city" and
because of the transit strike, they had to walk from Penn Station to
their evening activities – the theater, the restaurant. My dad was
quietly not feeling well but went along with the evening. He stopped
for some tums along the way. After the play, he told my mom that he’d
like to take a cab back to Penn Station. My mom, ever-thrifty, said,
"You know it’s $10 a person because of the strike?" He said, "I don’t
care." Knowing something was completely out of whack, she then asked
him if he’d rather go to the emergency room and he said yes. The
doctors said if he went home that night, there’s no telling whether he
would have survived the night.
So, in conclusion, because of the transit strike, my father’s heart
was under just enough strain to get it checked out but not enough to
send him into a full blown heart attack. His surgery on December 24th
was successful. He now feels like he has a new birthday on Christmas
which gives my family of Jews a real reason to celebrate!
ANYONE WANT TO MEET ME AT THE BOTANIC GARDENS?
The New York Times via the Brooklyn Record has the story of one cherry tree in full bloom. According to Patrick J. Cullina, the garden’s vice
president for horticulture, this early bloom isn’t a sign of a global warming-induced apocalypse. “This isn’t of any concern to us,” Cullina told the NY Times.
“This is serendipitous. We have hundreds of other cherry trees that
will flower in the spring. It’s just a nice surprise for people who
happen to be here today.” The Times also reports that Brooklynites can still look forward to "a magic carpet of pink petals in the garden come April."
Winter Looms, but One Tree Dresses for Spring [NY Times]
Photo by Daniel Barry for The New York Times
LAST YEAR ON OTBKB: FIRST DAY OF THE TRANSIT STRIKE
REMEMBER THE TRANSIT STRIKE LAST YEAR?
First day of the transit strike and the Slope feels busy and
festive. The public school kids started school two hours later than
usual. The parents I saw looked cheerful, happy for the extra hours of
sleep (if they didn’t have to schlep into the city themselves). One
friend in front of PS 321 said, "You’ve got a story for your blog
today."My personal angle: despite the extra two hours to get ready, OSFO was still a tiny bit late for school. It did seem that a lot
of people were late or taking it slow getting to school. The assistant
principal and the math specialist were standing at the entrance and
smiling as the kids and parents streamed in.Seventh Avenue was packed with people as if it were a weekend. At
11:00 this morning, Grand Canyon was full of leisurely breakfast eaters
(what? brunch on a Tuesday). At 1 pm, every table at the Park Diner on
Seventh Avenue between Berkeley and Union was full and there was barely
room for the waiters to move around.The Slope feels like a weekend this Tuesday with no subways or buses
working in the city. Not so sure about Bloomberg’s line: "The city is
working even if the subways and buses are not." He said it this morning
crossing the Brooklyn Bridge, having spent the night on a cot at the
Department of Emergency Managment, which is in Brooklyn.But it looks to me like people aren’t going into the office today.
The main difference between this strike and the one in 1980: we’ve got computers now and many of us can work from home.
The phenomenon of women wearing sneakers to work (keeping their
heels in their bags) started at the last transit strike. I wonder if
there will be any fashion breakthroughs this time around.Hepcat was supposed to start a new job today. Not. He decided not
to walk to mid-town. Teen Spirit’s school is already on vacation. Daughter
still has a few more days left before Christmas: and she really
appreciated the later start time.Overall, it’s probably a boon to local shops and car services. I
haven’t even TRIED to call Eastern Car Service today. I wonder if
they’re jacking up the prices.Hope not. I’d lose all respect for them if they did.
–Written on December 20th 2005
THE LITTLE SCHOOL OF MOVING PICTURES: ENROLL NOW
Barbara Ensor, director of the Little School of Moving Pictures, is offering CLAY ANIMATION CLASSES for 8-12 year olds and 6-7 year olds in PARK SLOPE. Enroll soon — the classes fill up quickly.
It is sooooo cool. Kids love her teaching style—Barbara really gets them turned on to making animated movies. For information about the classes email Barbara: barbara@barbaraensor.com
Barbara is a talented visual artist, an author, and a TERRIFIC TEACHER. Her new book is called, CINDERELLA: AS IF YOU DIDN’T ALREADY KNOW THE STORY.
if everyone doesn’t already know, Barbara Ensor has written for New York Magazine, Entertainment Weekly, Family Life, the Village Voice and numerous other publications and Web sites. Her illustrations have appeared in the New York Times, Harper’s Magazine, Self and Graphis, among others.
She
grew up mostly in London, England. Her first job after graduating from
Brown University was as a traveling puppeteer-which occasionally
required her to walk on stilts. Barbara Ensor is the mother of two
children and lives a fairy-tale life in Brooklyn, New York.
TRANSIT STRIKE REDUX: READERS COMMENTS
Last year I published reports from readers about the transit strike. I asked people to send me their stories via comments or email (louisecrawford@gmail.com). I was looking for human interest, commuting
nightmares, smart solutions, bike stories, walking, car pooling,
coping. Here is one from FAMDOC. I don’t know who he is but he is a
loyal reader and commenter:
The celebratory atmosphere extended from the Slope to the Brooklyn
Bridge this morning, where walkers and bikers seemed unfazed by the
inconveniences the strike created. Midspan was Mayor Marty (Brooklyn
Borough President Marty Markowitz) on a bullhorn, telling us how great
and resilient Brooklynites are (and on the way home this evening, there
he was again, proclaiming, "welcome back to Brooklyn."
You gotta love the guy. Tireless in his enthusiasm for Brooklyn, his
website even proclaims that all he ever wanted to be was BP).
The return trip was cheeful, but far more crowded. Bikers were forced
by cops and the density of the crowd to dismount and walk. Weaving my
way back to the Slope via 3rd Ave, I realized how on my guard I must be
if I am going to live through this strike on a bicycly. Every block
presented new challenges, in the way of potholes, parked cars pulling
away from the curb unexpectedly and moving vehicles driving without
regard for pedestrians and bikers. Back home, a hot shower and a cup of
tea for my achy, previously untaxed muscles.How long will we tolerate this? And for those of us who run our own
businesses, dependent upon customers, clients, patients, how long can
we tolerate this without going broke? In some strange way, for this
small-business owner in lower Manhattan, there are certain reminders of
mid to late September, 2001.–posted December 2005
BROOKLYN PIN-UP CALENDAR: INTERESTING
I finally took a look at the new I Heart Brooklyn Girls Pin-up calendar.
12 months – 12 neighborhoods – 12 scantily clad women in interesting costumes. Left to right: Miss Prospect Park, Miss Ditmas Park, Miss Bensonhurts, Miss Park Slope.
To look or buy got to iheartbrooklyngirls.com
DID NORMAN ODER’S SCOOP CAUSE SILVER’S SHIFT?
The big vote is today — it was postponed from yesterday. Some are saying that Sheldon Silver has financial questions about the project. Here’s an excerpt from the story on Streetsblog.org
Financial questions about the project have escalated since the discovery by Norman Oder, author of the Atlantic Yards Report, that nearly half a billion dollars in projected public revenues had simply vanished from the Empire State Development Corporation’s project plan. Oder reported:
The revised Atlantic Yards General Project Plan (GPP) issued last Friday by the ESDC contains one very significant change from the document released in July. Projected net new tax revenues have plummeted by $456 million. That’s almost a one-third decline from the $1.4 billion figure announced five months ago. That’s much more than a rounding error.
Oder was the only working journalist in New York City to notice the half billion dollar revision (though, apparently, Brooklyn Papers reporter Ariella Cohen was also working on the story which came out two days after Oder’s). His scoop was significant enough that even the New York Times deigned to give the blogger credit. In an article titled "Agency Cuts Atlantic Yards Revenue Estimate," the Times reported:
The new estimate was included in a statement and other documents issued by the development agency on Friday, but the difference went unremarked in both the brief board meeting that preceded the approval vote and the news conference that Charles A. Gargano, the agency’s chairman, held shortly afterward. Norman Oder, a journalist who has a blog devoted to the Atlantic Yards project, noticed the change later and wrote about it yesterday.
Granted, DDDB, community organizations and good government groups have been putting lots of pressure on Silver to delay the approval. And they cite a litany of reasons why the project needs a closer look. But you’ve got to hand it to Oder. If Silver does choose to delay approval of the project, Oder’s $456 million scoop may be a reason why.
SEEING GREEN SHOWS AY ALTERNATIVE DESIGNS BY STUDENTS OF ARCHITECTURE
Seeing Green today shows student alternatives to AY. Here are excerpts.
Architecture students at the University of Miami envision the Atlantic yards project thus,
under the direction of Professor John Massengale. He notes that there
is almost as much housing in this version as in the Ratner build-out.
You will note that this rendering displays a project that is considerably more in scale with the surrounding brownstone neighborhoods (above) as compared to the Ratner mega-lith (right):
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ATLANTIC YARDS VOTE DELAYED
Breaking news from the Brooklyn Papers:
Delay on expected Atlantic Yards vote because Sheldon Silver has questions about the project’s financing.
New York 1 is reporting that Assembly Speaker Sheldon Silver (D-Manhattan) has delayed Wednesday’s expected vote on Bruce Ratner’s Atlantic Yards mega-development because he “has questions” about the project’s financing.
The $4-billion project would require hundreds of millions in direct
and indirect public subsidies, but the actual size of the taxpayer
contribution to the project has never been released.Silver, who controls one vote on the three-man Public Authorities
Control Board, has been feuding with Gov. Pataki, who supports the
project. In the recent past, Silver has used his PACB vote to block
other Pataki “legacy” projects, including the West Side stadium and the
Moynihan Station project.Check brooklynpapers.com later in the day for the fully reported update.
SEEING GREEN SAYS GET OVER TO THE BROOKLYN MUSEUM
Seeing Green urges all to get on over to the Brooklyn Museum to see a not to be missed trio of artists at the Liebovitz’s "to-die-for
portrait of the glowering Cheney with the rest of the Bush cabinet." Now
thru Jan 28/Feb 11, 11-6, 200 Eastern Parkway.
Walton Ford’s hyper-realistic watercolors of animals and flora are "wry
and subversive comments on society,"… Ron Mueck’s
ultra-hyper-realistic sculptures of
brooding/angry/explicit men and women are extraordinary, if not as much
for their fine-artistic merit as for their level of detail and imagery. [images:
TAKE THE FAIRWAY
Someone is selling an SUV that is parked on Berkeley Place just east of Seventh Avenue. The flyer on the car says:
Quit the Food Coop and buy this car so you can drive to Fairway.
JAY STREET BOROUGH HALL EVACUATED MONDAY AFTERNOON
This from ABC News.
A Brooklyn subway station was evacuated Monday afternoon after two suspicious packages were found on a platform, according to the MTA.
There was no service through the Jay Street-Borough Hall station in Brooklyn Heights.
As of 4 p.m., A and C train service was suspended in both directions between the Utica Avenue Station and the Chambers Street Station. F train service was suspended in both directions between 2nd Avenue Station on the Lower East Side and the 4th Avenue-9th Street Station in Brooklyn.
NEW YEAR’S EVE AT ISSUE PROJECT ROOM
Issue Project Room is hosting a New Year’s Eve celebration in their silo on Carroll Street. I know Phil Niblock and he’s a legend in the world of avant garde music.
ISSUE Project Room
400 Carroll Street – Brooklyn, NY 11213
www.issueprojectroom.org
Telephone
718-330-0313
Sunday, December 31
new year’s eve celebrationw/
Phill Niblock
Katherine Liberovskaya
Rebecca Moore
Sarah Ibrahim; voice
Bradley Eros; visuals
Stephan Moore
Diana Slattery
Jim Pugliese Phase III8:00 p.m.; $30
NEW YEAR’S EVE AT SHEEPSTATION
I got this email in my inbox today:
Dear Louise,
My name is Jessica Applebaum and I’m a fellow Park Sloper.
My theatre company, One Year Lease, which is based out of Park
Slope/Windsor Terrace along with a good friend’s theatre company (also
Brooklyn based), The Sum of US, are going to be hosting a party at the
new Aussie Bar Sheepstation on New Year’s Eve. The bar is located at Fourth Avenue and Douglas Street.The owners are kind and generous and have offered to split the door
for the New Years Event with us to aid in our upcoming Spring
productions.I was wondering if you might consider posting a bulletin about the
party to fellow Brooklynites.
ABOUT BROOKLYN KNOWS ABOUT CHRISTMAS IN BROOKLYN
Wendy Zarganis, the woman behind About Brooklyn, has done her homework. She has the scoop on lots of Christmas and Hanukah activities in Brooklyn. Check out her list.
BROOKLYN CLIMBER STILL MISSING
This from New York 1:
Rescue workers said this afternoon that a missing Brooklyn hiker may
have fallen down a steep slope as he and his companions tried to
descend Oregon’s Mount Hood.Rescue crews found the body of one of the men in a snow cave near the summit yesterday.
He was identified as Texan Kelly James, who was declared missing
with two friends nine days ago, after they failed to descend from the
mountain.Authorities believe the two missing men, Brooklyn lawyer Jerry
Cooke and Brian Hall of Texas, left the caves to try and descend a
cliff. Searchers found ropes and anchors but no sign of the men. They
worry that high winds may have knocked them over. Still, they say
they’re not giving up hope."We’re real sad about one of our results, but we still have two
missing climbers and we’re going to keep looking for them," said Hood
River County Sheriff Joe Wampler. "Our search has narrowed from
totality around Mount Hood to basically the area in which they found
the caves."Outside Cooke’s home Monday, a makeshift memorial was set up. Neighbors say they’re not losing hope for his rescue.
"I’m sorry for what happened to him. I hope he’s OK. Listen, all
we’re hoping for is that we’re hoping he comes back," said one
neighbor."Really I keep praying early in the morning about the news. Once I
hear the news and the story I’m praying for him that they find him
alive," added another.Rescue crews say avalanche warnings make a ground search difficult so they must rely on helicopter searches.
BAR MINNOW OUT BROOKLYN BURGER BAR IN
Brooklyn Papers has the story. Bar Minnow out and Brooklyn Burger Bar in. Bar Minnow owner, Aaron Bashey, closed Bar Minnow when he moved to Los Angeles. Greg Murjani, who owns Greg’s Express Rubbish Removal, is the new owner.
Bar Minnow, best known for its fish-and-burgers menu, has been rechristened the Brooklyn Burger Bar — at least if you can believe awnings.
New, bright yellow “Brooklyn Burger Bar” awnings popped up this weekend over the shuttered space, at the corner of Seventh Avenue and Ninth Street in Park Slope. Bar Minnow had been closed since owner-chef Aaron Bashey moved to Beverly Hills to run The Prime Grille.
New owner Greg Murjani told us that he doesn’t eat fish, but he loves a good burger — and, in true Brooklyn spirit, he’s promising a mega-mound of meat called “the Fuggedaboutit.”
Beyond that Angus prime classic, Murjani’s Burger Bar will sell Kobe beef burgers plus the usual French fries and onion rings. There will be a full bar and a killer milkshake, he told us.
Murjani, who also owns Greg’s Express garbage service, is a born and bred Brooklynite and grew up in Park Slope, wants his place to be family friendly but also a late-night stop.
He will serve food from 11am to 2 am, and will keep the bar opened until 4 am.
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6:30 TONIGHT: MO WILLEMS AT BARNES AND NOBLE
Someone else who shoulda been on the list (ah next year)…
Tonight at Barnes and Noble: Mo Willems will be at the Park Slope Barnes & Noble to read from his latest book, Edwina, The Dinosaur Who Didn’t Know She Was Extinct.
6:30 pm. 267 7th Avenue.
SEARCH CONTINUES FOR BAY RIDGE HIKER
Hope dimmed for rescuers seeking a Brooklyn man and his two climbing buddies on Oregon’s Mount Hood yesterday when the body of one of the adventurers, Kelly James of Dallas, was found in a snow cave.
Searchers found a snow cave Sunday near the spot located by cell phone signals traced from James, who made a four-minute call to his family Dec. 10 just below the summit, said Jessica Nunez, a spokeswoman for the climber’s family.
The discovery was made just before sundown – a blow to rescuers who only hours earlier had what they thought was their biggest break in days.
“Our hearts are going out to the families right now,” said Capt. Mike Braibish of the Oregon National Guard. “We remain optimistic; we remain hopeful. We’re going to still collect information and we continue to proceed with this as a rescue for the two remaining climbers.”
The identity of the dead climber was not immediately released. The body was left on the mountain last night because darkness and subzero temperatures made it too dangerous to bring him down.
Rescuers will ascend the mountain this morning to recover the body and resume the search.
Crews began searching the area yesterday after a helicopter crew spotted a giant “Y” made of ropes on the mountainside and interpreted it as an SOS left by the missing mountaineers.
It was a heartening sign – one of the best in the week-long search. As families and friends waited for news, rescuers were airlifted to the cave. But it contained only equipment and a sleeping bag believed to be left by Jerry (Nikko) Cooke, 36, ofBay Ridge, and his Texas palsKelly James, 48, and Brian Hall, 37.
As searchers fanned out in the area, a second snow cave sheltering the body was found, Braibish said.
“Our climbers did get inside the snow cave and have confirmed that there is one fatality,” Braibish said.
Officials said footprints were spotted heading away from the snow cave, some tracks heading up to the summit and others heading down. But there were no other signs of the stranded men.
Sheriff’s officials said the two snow caves are in the area where James made a desperate cell-phone call to his family on Dec.9, saying he was in a snow cave. The last clue to the men’s whereabouts was a brief signal returned from James’ cell phone Tuesday.
Cooke, James and Hall began what should have been a two-day climb up the mountain on Dec. 7.
Tense family members gathered with sheriff’s officials last night and were told a climber’s body was found. The families, however, went to bed last night without knowing which of their loved ones died on the mountain.
Pacing during a morning news conference before the body was found, Hall’s father, Dwight Hall, said in a cracking voice that the families had “no reason to have other than high optimism in this operation.”
But the the three men’s relatives were riding an “emotional roller coaster,” added Frank James, Kelly James’ brother.
“The families remain prayerful,” he said.
Crews ascended the mountain beginning at 4 a.m. Pacific time on what turned out to be a clear, sunny day.
Air National Guardsmen piloted Chinook helicopters capable of flying at high elevations after wind kept rescuers from getting above 10,600 feet on Saturday.
The “Y” in the snow sent a charge through crews frustrated by days of dangerous weather conditions that limited rescue operations last week. But the abandoned cave raised questions about when the men left the signal in the snow.
“We don’t know when it was put there. It could have been there for a while,” said Sgt. Gerry Tiffany of the Hood River County sheriff’s office.
In Bay Ridge, neighbors were watching the news, praying that Cooke was among the two missing hikers still alive.
His tenant Freddy Herrera, 20, said he was “devastated and shocked” at the reversal of fortune on Mount Hood yesterday. But he remained optimistic.
“I have no doubt that Jerry will come back home alive,” he said. “They have enough food for one week.”
Colleagues of Cooke who know his fortitude were anxious as rescuers came off the mountain at sundown.
“This is extremely harsh news to receive now,” said Michael Jaffe, executive vice president of Countrywide Insurance, where Cooke works as a lawyer. “Irrespective of which of the three has unfortunately lost their life, we share the grief.”
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SEARCH INTENSIFIES FOR BROOKLYN HIKER ON MT. HOOD
The effort to find a Brooklyn hiker and two friends on Mount Hood in Oregon could intensify today if the weather breaks.
Rescuers are hoping for better conditions which will let them
search higher elevations. A National Guard helicopter with infrared
devices that can sense body heat has been circling the mountain. Other
helicopters are being brought in today to take rescuers closer to the
summit.
The group left behind a note saying they are equipped with fuel,
food, ropes, a shovel and insulated clothes, but they have not been
seen alive since last weekend.
A cell phone signal was picked up on Tuesday. Kelly James told his
family he was stuck in a snow cave and that New York trial lawyer Jerry
"Nikko" Cooke and Brian Hall went searching for help.
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REVERE SUGAR PLANT DECONSTRUCTED
For pictures of the Revere Sugar Plant in Red Hook go to Gowanus Lounge. Here’s an excerpt from his photo/post.
The Revere Sugar Plant in Red Hook
is being taken apart piece by piece, packed into huge dumpsters and
driven away, as a prelude to a much more dramatic tear down. The iconic
dome that defined Red Hook’s waterfront for generations, has already
had a half-dozen square holes cut in it. We will have more tomorrow,
but for today, here are a few photos fromDeath Rowthe site that developer Joe Sitt is clearing. The truck scene (above), theexecutionersdemolition workers and some onlookers.
ELLEN FRUDENHEIM
I got so many responses to the Park Slope 100 and many new names. One of the many who should have been on the list was Park Sloper, Ellen Frudenheim, the author of “The Brooklyn Guidebook” (a 500 page guide to Brooklyn). She has a new book out called “Queens: What to Do, Where to GO (and how not to get lost) in New York’s Undiscovered Borough”. She is truly New York City’sguidebook guru. I got this email from her yesterday about a book signing at Community Books on Sunday December 17th.
“I’d like to invite you all to my book signing at the Community Bookstore on Seventh Avenue across from Key Food for my book signing, a glass of wine and holiday cheer! DECEMBER 17, 4-6 p.m.
The new book is Queens: What to Do, Where to GO (and how not to get lost) in New York’s Undiscovered Borough—and I will also have on sale copies of my 500 page guidebook to Brooklyn!
Please tell —or better yet, bring your friends.
ART SALE FOR DARFUR AT ETHICAL CULTURE
A group of Brooklyn artists are selling their work to raise money to be sent to Doctors Without Borders for their work in Darfur. This sale is This is part of the big crafts fair at Brooklyn Society for Ethical Culture this weekend. I know one of the artists, Tom Keough, who does masterful paintings of Park Slope streets at night. They are stirringly beautiful.
Saturday, Dec 16
11 am to 4 pm
53 Prospect Park West
between 1st Street and 2nd Street
For information, 718-768-6171 or email tomkeough@tomkeoughartist.comwww.ramonacandy.com
SMARTMOM: A CONFUSED TIME OF THE YEAR
Here’s this week’s Smartmom from the Brooklyn Papers (brooklynpapers.com):
Monday night, Hepcat, Smartmom, and OSFO bought a Christmas tree from the gentle Canadian man, who sell trees in front of the CVS drugstore.
“The trees are from Nova Scotia,” the man told them. “But I live in Montreal.”
For seven years, he has been coming to Brooklyn, where he lives in a truck and sells trees 24/7 until Christmas Day, when he goes back home.
Smartmom felt funny picking out a tree. Growing up in a secular Jewish family on the Upper West Side of Manhattan, her family did celebrate Christmas — but a Christmas tree? That was crossing the line.
Sure, they thumb-tacked their red felt stockings to the non-working fireplace and left notes for Santa Claus. Her parents decorated the house with foil-covered paper bells and velvet ribbons. And Christmas morning was a gift fest — something she and her equally Jewish twin sister Diaper Diva looked forward to all year.
Smartmom’s romance with Christmas temporarily ended during college when she fell in with a band of Socialist Zionists with anarchist leanings. They rallied for a Palestinian state and planned to spend their lives on a kibbutz named Gezer, which means carrot in Hebrew.
Her Jewish consciousness was raised, thanks to friends who lived in a kosher house off-campus and lit Hanukkah candles to celebrate the Maccabean miracle.
Smartmom’s romance with Hanukkah ended years later when she and Hepcat were dating and he invited her to experience Christmas Hepcat-style. The family home in northern California was decorated top to bottom with Mexican creches, Advent calendars and a live tree festooned with handmade ornaments and glass balls from the 1950s.
On Christmas morning, Smartmom felt like she’d died and went to shiksa heaven. What magic, what fun — and what fresh baked cinnamon buns! Dressed in bathrobes and slippers, the adults watched as Hepcat’s nieces reveled in the delights under the tree.
After they were married, Hepcat and Smartmom never missed a Christmas in California. Soon they had Teen Spirit with them, who loved sitting by a roaring fire on Christmas morning as he and his cousins explored their voluptuous Christmas stockings.
However, the year Smartmom was seven-months pregnant with OSFO, the family didn’t go to California because her obstetrician told her not to fly.
She obeyed. But Hepcat was mighty cranky about it as it was the first time he’d ever missed Christmas with his family. Worse, Smartmom had no idea how to do Christmas in New York. As far as she was concerned, a New York Christmas was presents in the morning, a movie, and dinner at a Chinese restaurant.
If only for her beloved Hepcat, she had to figure out how to celebrate his special holiday 3,000 miles away from his home.
At the last minute, they decided to buy a tree, but they didn’t have any ornaments. They bought colorful lights and hung Teen Spirit’s action figures on the branches. On Christmas Eve, they hung their socks on the windows in the living room.
Smartmom spent too much time worrying that Hepcat and Teen Spirit would be disappointed. And in a way they were. Their Brooklyn Christmas seemed a cheap imitation of the one in California. They really hadn’t bothered to infuse it with their own special style.
Hepcat was relieved to return to California the next year, with baby OSFO in the Bjorn, and vowed never to spend Christmas in New York again.
Until last year.
Smartmom decided that she was sick and tired of spending every Christmas out in California. Gingerly, she brought it up with her man while he was cooking dinner.
“Well, I guess it’ll just be me, Teen Spirit and OSFO,” Hepcat said somewhat defensively. Smartmom was aghast that he planned to split up the family during the holidays, but she decided, uncharacteristically, to take a wait-and-see approach.
Teen Spirit came in from dining room, where he’d obviously been overhearing the delicate discussion.
“Dad, I wouldn’t mind spending Christmas in Brooklyn,” he said.
Hepcat had that stoic look on his face that usually indicates that he is in a great deal of pain.
“Well, I guess it’ll just be me and OSFO,” he said. Now he had that pleased-as-punch expression obviously confident that he could rely on his little girl to stick by him.
“No way!” OSFO screamed from the dining room. “I’m not spending Christmas without Mom and Teen Spirit.” At that, Hepcat looked dispirited.
“Well, I guess I’ll go out alone.”
The next morning at breakfast, Hepcat told them he wasn’t going to California for Christmas — that he’d never want to be without his family on that day. Group hug. Or at least that’s what they probably should have done.
For Smartmom, this was major turning point in their long marriage.
For the first time, Hepcat seemed to recognize that it was important to invent holiday traditions with his family in Brooklyn.
Last year, instead of trying to recreate a California Christmas in Brooklyn, they worked hard to make it their own.
On Christmas Day, which was also Hanukkah, they opened presents before going over to Diaper Diva’s, where they lit the menorah, ate lox and bagels with Ducky, Bro-in-Law, Groovy Grandma and their cousins. Afterwards, they went to see “King Kong” at the Pavilion.
After the movie, Smartmom was tempted to order from Szechuan Delight, but they had too much risotto left over from the previous night’s Christmas eve dinner.
To say they had it all ways at once would be an understatement. As a family they cobbled together a Christmas that was eclectic, eccentric and fun — just the way they like it.
MORE ABOUT YELLOW SIGNS THAT SAY ‘SIT’
I heard from Sarah, someone involved with the SIT project. She wrote, “Thankyou for noticing, we put those yellow flyers up. Here is what it is about. For our college project, we are promoting a social awareness campaign in the Park Slope area entitled, “SIT HERE”. This campaign aims to address the decreasing culture of social interaction formerly known as “Stoop Culture”. We need comments…It is helpful for us to learn what the neighborhood community is thinking, so please go to the comments webpage so you can rate and comment on our progress. Also, participate in our polls: www.freewebs.com/sit_here
The Brooklyn Papers (brooklynpapers.com) had something on it last week. I haven’t seen any SIT signs for a while.
HEART OF BROOKLYN HOLIDAY TROLLEY RIDE
I am so loving the lights on the arch at Grand Army Plaza. I’ve heard a few complaints that it’s tacky but I love it. It feels so festive and fun. And I get a kick out of the colori changing tree of light. I know I’m going to miss the lights when they’re gone, signaling the end of the holiday season and the beginning of the winter blues. But here’s an event in early January that sounds like fun.
Trolley Ride & Winter Mixer*
When: Thursday, January 4, 2007, 6:45 PM
Where: Heart of Brooklyn Offices, 789 Washington Avenue, Prospect Heights – Brooklyn
You’re invited to an early evening endeavour in post-holiday
festivity. Heart of Brooklyn will host a mixer of after-hour office
mingling, trolley riding, and hot cider & malt wine sipping.
Arrive at Heart of Brooklyn’s 789 Washington Avenue offices at 6:45pm
on Thursday, January 4. Meet, circulate and grab your drink of choice.
At 7pm the Heart of Brooklyn Trolley will pull up outside, and Eugene
Patron of Prospect Park Alliance will host the first 30 Trolley riders
on a free, narrated ride through Prospect Park in Lights, while Heart
of Brooklyn staff host office minglers at the 789 Washington-base. The
HOB Trolley will return to the base at 7:40(ish)pm and pick up riders
for a second loop.
Because the Trolley has a 30 person capacity, the Trolley Ride &
Winter Mixer is a limited capacity event.