GREAT MORNING, GREAT RACE

The adrenaline was flowing at Thursday morning’s Turkey Trot, when more than a thousand people gathered at the Oriental Pavillion ready to run: fancy sneaks, iPods, stop watches, water…

A gun shot and then they were off. A thick throng of runners ran through the middle of the park by the side of the Lake and then around the loop. Five miles in all.

What a race. What a GLORIOUS day. It was an exhilarating run for all. And now let the feast begin.

TURKEY TROT AROUND PROSPECT PARK

The Park Slope Track Club’s most challenging event of the year, runs through the park loops
   on Thanksgiving Day, Nov.22nd at 9 a.m.
   Click here for race details and registration confirmation.

   
   

  • A Prospect Park  tradition for eons
  • The major source of PPTC funds to subsidize member activities throughout the year
  • Over 1,000 runners
  • Massive volunteer mobilization
  • A bonding club experience
  • Chip timing
  • Benefit to Bishop Ford H.S. track teams
  • A definitive statement as to the caliber of our team resources

MODERNIST LIT BOOK CLUB: THEY LOVE NEW FACES

Got this quick note from Josh Millstein at the Community Bookstore, organizer of many of their incredibly interesting sounding book clubs. Don’t let the names scare you, you don’t need an MA or be a member of the MLA to understand what’s going on. These groups are for EVERYONE.

This is just a quick reminder that the MODERNIST LITERATURE BOOK CLUB will be meeting next Wednesday, Nov. 28th, at 7:30pm. If you haven’t picked up a copy of Mikhail Bulgakov’s Master and Margarita, now’s your chance! Stop in and pick up a copy from the store today, just in time to read it over the holiday.

We love new faces, so don’t be afraid to come out! Hope all is well.

Thanks for your time,
Josh Milstein
Community Bookstore

RUN OFF THE POUNDS BEFORE YOU EVEN EAT

I will be running in the Turkey Trot tomorrow. Looks like I should register today. I’ve always wanted to do it: it seems like a great way to start Thanksgiving: run off the pounds before you even eat.

Our T-giving isn’t until 6 p.m. so I will have plenty of time to rest up after the race. And I’m not even cooking.

The trot begins at 9 a.m. on Thursday near the Oriental Pavillion in Prospect Park. You can pre-register on Thursday morning between 7:30 and 8:30 am. at the Kate Wollman Rink.

Thanks to GL, I hear that there is pre-registration from 4-6 p.m. at Jack Rabbit Sports on Wednesday night. Jack Rabbit is on 7th Avenue between Garfield and Carroll. If you don’t wanna run, you can walk (or trot).

The event supports Bishop Ford High School and it costs $16 or $18 dollars depending on whether you pre-register or not.

THE PORTABLE QUEER AT BARNES AND NOBLE

Got an email this morning from Erin McHugh, author of The Portable Queer. There’s a reading on November 27th

I was pointed your way — or towards Only the Blog Knows Brooklyn — by Samantha, the events person at the Barnes & Noble on Park Slope. I’m reading there on Tuesday night, November 27, at 7:30 p.m. and when I told her I had few friends in the neighborhood, her first words were, “Get on the blog, babe!”

So let me tell you just a bit about my books, THE PORTABLE QUEER, and perhaps you’ll toss in a mention of my B&N reading — I would be most grateful. In fact, they’ll be appearing in th Holiday Gift Guide in TimeOutNewYork this week, so they’re getting some great attention.

THE PORTABLE QUEER is a trio of smart gay gift books: one is a book of quotes, one vignettes of gay history, and the third full of biographical sketches. They’re $12.95 each, and you can take a look at them on Amazon (they recently reached #1 in the category’s hot new releases) or bn.com in all their glory. I was featured on Larry Flick’s show on Sirius Radio the other morning, too, for those of our friends who were driving around looking for a parking space!

EDGEnewyork.com, a terrific gay site, called them “A great choice for the upcoming holiday season” in a fabulous review last week:

Somewhat postcard sized with brightly colored covers sporting what could easily become the new queer crest (think Hogwarts!), The Portable Queer is a collection of very concise coffee table (or pocket, or Christmas stockings) books that contains a clever and didactic compilation of data that you should already know but of course don’t because you have been too busy “reading” PerezHilton.com.

The series, put together by Erin McHugh, balances a great deal of information both from the annals of history and from the more mundane stocks of pop culture, you know, all the stuff we gays are made of. Many of the phrases or characters presented here you have probably already run across at some point of your varying-degree of rainbow colored life, but it is great to have our own version of Cliff notes in such a fun, bite-size way.

McHugh creates the perfect middle ground for both the bookworm and the tabloid fan, with all the variations of queer readers in between, but the biggest merit of The Portable Queer is how useful it can be to introduce friends and foes, fag hags and gay bashers to queer culture.

BROOKLYN PAPER: FOES OF CONEY PLAN SHUT DOWN MEETING

I love getting these BREAKING NEWS emails from the Brooklyn Paper. It’s very cool. Yesterday they dug into the story of the Coney Island information meeting that was cancelled. Here’s an excerpt from Adam F. Hutton’s piece, which focuses on Senator Carl Kruger of Bensonhurt. Read more, of course, at the BP.

A state senator who opposes Mayor Bloomberg’s Coney Island redevelopment plan claimed victory at the first public hearing on the proposal Monday night, boasting that he was able to shut down the meeting by bussing in hundreds of people to the event.

“Score one for the good guys,” state Sen. Carl Kruger (D–Bensonhurst) shouted to his supporters after the Coney Island Development Corporation hastily canceled the meeting. “We won the ground war. You made a point tonight, and that is that Bloomberg isn’t going to push his Manhattan plans on Brooklyn without hearing from Brighton Beach, Coney Island and Sheepshead Bay.”

More than 150 people had RSVP’d to attend the scheduled meeting at Coney Island Hospital, where officials from the City Hall-run CIDC planned to show off Bloomberg’s proposal to residents for the first time.

But Kruger was ready. Days before the meeting, he said Bloomberg’s vision was similar to “many failed plans” to revitalize Coney Island considered over the last 50 years and predicted it was “headed for the file cabinet.”

He also raised the central question many are wondering about the mayor’s proposal: How much will it cost to buy out developer Joe Sitt, whose Thor Equities has spent somewhere between $100 and $200 million to buy land in Coney’s amusement zone — land that the mayor now wants to buy, rezone as parkland, and have an outside theme park operator develop as an all-year attraction.

SUSTAINABLE FLATBUSH: BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE

News from Anne at Sustainable Flatbush:

WHAT: Sustainable Flatbush Monthly Meeting
WHEN: Monday December 3rd at 7pm (please note this meeting will NOT
be on the 10th as previously discussed)
WHERE: Chez Levy, 462 Marlborough Road (between Ditmas and Dorchester)
WHY: we will be meeting once a month, on the first Monday of the
month, until further notice,
IDEA: to brainstorm and plan upcoming projects, including our
participation in FDC’s Newkirk Plaza Holiday event and a Post-Holiday Electronics Recycling Collection.

WHAT: Newkirk Plaza Holiday Event (sponsored by Flatbush Development
Corporation), a multi-kulti winter celebration!
Sustainable Flatbush will host a recycling table with info on how to recycle ANYthing the holidays may bring you
WHEN: Saturday December 8th from 1pm until 5pm
WHERE: Newkirk Plaza (Newkirk Avenue between Marlborough and East
16th Street)

The Flatbush Development Corp is asking for donations of holiday wrapping paper and ornaments for this event, a good way to “recycle” any extras you have around! Bring yours to the FDC office at 1616 Newkirk Avenue (between E16th and E17th Streets) or to Almac Hardware in Newkirk Plaza.

WHAT: Imagine Flatbush 2030 Stakeholders Meetings
WHEN: December 12th (this will be the second of four meetings, one
per month)
WHERE: at Brooklyn College (exact location TBA)
WHY: I attended the first meeting last night and it was VERY exciting. This is a great opportunity to participatein planning for the future of our neighborhood, preserving its strengths and addressing its challenges. Like they say, be the change you want to see!”

PARK SLOPE 100 TO BE ROLLED OUT ON DECEMBER 6

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The Park Slope 100 will be rolled out on December 6th. So if you have any nominees, send them in now. This year’s list has a different feel from last year’s.

Last year’s was foundational. It had all the "obvious" choices—ZuZu’s Petals, David Yassky, the Dinnersteins, Paul Auster, Chris Altman, Debbie Almontasser, Al Di La, Pastor Meeter, Rabbi Bachman, Susan Fox, Kim Maier, Daniel McEnney, Daniel Goldstein, etc. —with some interesting "unknowns" thrown in for good measure.

Last year, I called the list a highly opinionated, inherently flawed, subjective, obviously controversial list of talented, energetic, ambitious, creative
individuals with vision in the Greater Park Slope area who reach
outward toward the larger community and the world to lead, to help, to create, to teach, to
improve, to enhance, to inform, to network, to make change.

The people chosen for last year’s list were community
activists, entrepreneurs, volunteers, spiritual leaders, publishers,
bloggers, leaders of organizations, social workers, therapists,
artists, writers,
educators, politicians, chefs and restaurant owners and whatever else
I’ve left out.

This year’s list is just as far reaching and just as interesting. To me, it feels more topical—many of the people on the list have been mentioned on OTBKB.

Last year’s list may have included a disproportionate number of people connected with education and/or parenting. Last year, there were a lot of bloggers, activists, and politicians.

When all is said and done, I don’t know how it will play out but I know it’s going to be a great list with great people and great stories.  If you have nominees please send them in ASAP.

Best of all, the Park Slope 100 now has a spiffy logo designed by Elizabeth Reagh of Good Form Design.

CITY SCALES BACK LED LIGHTING FOR PROSPECT PARK

Target? The Daily News? Anyone out there with money want to make Prospect Park all pretty for the holiday season.

What fun it was last year when all the entrances to the park were festooned with attractive LED lighting. What a lift. The LED display was such a pleasure to behold last year.

Gowanus Lounge writes today that (and I quote) "the LED display that lit up all the park entrances last year won’t be going up.
We checked on them yesterday and were told that an announcement about
Grand Army Plaza will be forthcoming from the Mayor’s office, and that
a lighting ceremony is scheduled for December 3rd."

Our friend over at GL goes on to report that it has something to do
with budgetary concerns. Understandably we’re all a little
disappointed. Last year, it was so tastefully done, not gawdy or
glitzy at all. Festive and fun are the words I would use.

LED lights, will, thankfully, grace Grand Army Plaza. But last year’s
was special because it included all corners of the park and that felt
very, well, inclusive and connecting.

So come on. Any corporate sponsor out there want to help? Call the Mayor’s office and write a big check.

ALMONTASER SUES THE EDUCATION DEPARTMENT, CHANCELLOR, AND MAYOR

Debbie Almontaser, the founder and principal of the Khalil Gibran International Academy filed a federal lawsuit today against the
city’s Education Department, Schools Chancellor Joel I. Klein and Mayor
Michael R. Bloomberg.

She is charging that they violated her right to free
speech and denied her the chance to return to her post as principal f the school, which is located in Boerum Hill.

BAN ON PLASTIC BAGS BEGINS IN SAN FRANCSICO TODAY

Starting today, it is illegal for large grocery stores in San Francisco
to use traditional plastic bags. Stores can use a special compostable
plastic bag or a brown paper bag made of 40% recycled paper. Shopper
are, of course, free to bring their own tote bags. A city ordinance
passed earlier this year becomes law today.

If San Francisco can do it, can’t Park Slope give it a try? What would it take to get plastic bags outlawed around here?

In SF, pharmacy chains will also have to comply in 6 months. The
policy will be the first enacted in the US. Oakland passed
a similar ban that goes into effect early in 2008.

Only retail businesses and smaller grocery stores will still be able
to hand out bags.

CONEY ISLAND INFO MEETING CANCELLED

So what does the future hold for Coney Island?

Well, a big crowd showed up tonight for a "Community Information Session" on the proposed Coney Island zoning. The purpose of the meeting was to begin a community dialogue about the proposal.

But the public didn’t get to hear about the state-of-the-art amusement parks, rides, hotels, bowling alleys, restaurants, parks, and whatever else is planned for that historic part of Brooklyn.

That’s because the meeting about the  future of Coney Island at Coney Island Hospital was abruptly  cancelled due to the size of the crowd.

Were they expecting a small crowd? That doesn’t make sense. This is a very controversial matter, a very emotional matter, a very big deal in Brooklyn.

They organizers plan to reschedule the meeting in a larger venue sometime in the near future. I’m sure they can find someplace, that will hold 400-500 people interested in hearing about the plan, asking questions, and giving feedback.

For more information and pix go to Kinetic Carnival.

 

CLEVER DOC WANTS TO KNOW: ARE YOU REFRESHING YOUR BODY AND SPIRIT?

   The latest from Clever Doc. Her latest question is this: How many times in the past week did you spend more than one hour
refreshing your body or spirit (not counting eating or sleeping)? If you missed the previous 7 questions, here they are:


Do You Laugh Enough
?
Are You Still Learning?
How Angry Are You?
Do You Feel Trapped?
Do You Talk to People?
Are You Eating Right?
Are You Taking Risks?

This is the deal: It is not selfish to take care of yourself. It’s self-preservation.

Why?

Because we have things to do, things to accomplish: raise the kids, write the novel, change the world. And life is a marathon, not a sprint. It’s an adventure, not merely a “journey”. Think immigrants; think explorers; think newly-weds; think people who’ve gotten bad news; think all of us with missions and goals. We need to be in good shape because we face plenty of unknowns and downright perils.

Somehow we have to stay up — resilient, open, creative. (“Motherhood is the necessity of invention,” I’ve always thought.)

Change will seek us out, whether we welcome it or not. We need to be on our toes like a good soccer goalie faces a tricky offense.

The only way we can keep on keeping on with enthusiasm and effectiveness is to take care. (“Take care!” we say to others. How about us?)

If we were engines, our smart owners would maintain us, make sure we have fuel, keep us looking spiffy. We are the smart owners of our own bodies and sprits. Barreling along 24/7/365 is trendy but not sustainable. Running on fumes, we’re bound to break some important parts, such as ideas, health and dear relationships.

When you answer question #8, write down the specifics. Maybe it would be good to spend more time on them.

EIGHT:  How many times in the past week did you spend more than one hour refreshing your body or spirit (not counting eating or sleeping)?
6+  (4 points)
4 – 5 (3 points)
2 – 3 (2 points)
1 (1 point)
It was more than one week ago (0 points)

LIFE LESSONS AND ZUZU’S FIFTH AVENUE SHOP TURNS 3

Today is the third anniversary of the opening of Zuzu’s Petals new shop on Fifth Avenue. And for the occasion, Fonda, Zuzu’s owner has started a blog called,  Zuzu’s Petals, a delightful addition to the Brooklyn blogging community from that most Brooklyn of shops.

For those who don’t know, Zuzu’s Petal’s Seventh Avenue location burned down a few years ago. With a great deal of personal and professional resilience, combined with the love and support of their customers, the Zuzu’s team gathered together seed money and planted a new shop on Fifth Avenue.

What a difference a few years make. They’re thriving in their Fifth Avenue shop. They even have a blog, which brings alive the stories, people, plants, and pets of that Park Slope institution. Here Fonda writes about her first Thanksgiving at the new shop.

This morning i will take bear to the new shop on 5th
avenue. it is full of flowers for thanksgiving. i have a picture in my
mind of later today …families and friends gathered around their
tables, heads bowed together before the meal to say some sort of prayer
of thanks…and in the center my flowers once again there to grace the
moment.

the lesson?…. life can change drastically at any
moment, something can be terrible and wonderful at the same time. loss
and grief can make you strong, everyday is a lesson.

most of
all…what goes around comes around and something like that last line
from abby road….the love you take is equal to the love you make.

a prayer of thanks from all the zuzus for all of you who have become  part of our family.
and now…let’s eat!

fonda

BROOKLYN ON FILM: YOU WON’T WANT TO MISS THIS

On Thurdsay November 29th at 7 p.m. there’s a screening of
Brooklyn-focused Documentaries at the Brooklyn Historical Society in
Brooklyn Heights. The program is called, Brooklyn on Film, 1899-2007.

This screening will present documentaries showing the lives of Brooklyn
residents from different communities in Brooklyn, including Haitian
Voudo rituals in the Flatlands area of Brooklyn, Hassidic community
life in Crown Heights, gang members breaking into rap music in the
Albany Housing Projects in Crown Heights, and development controversies
in Prospect Heights and Greenpoint.

The program will also show turn-of-the-century filmed footage of
Brooklyn of Coney Island celebrants and the Brooklyn Bridge in 1899 –
1903,  as well as Sarah Bernhardt addressing a crowd in Prospect Park
in 1917.

This event is part of the Brooklyn Film & Arts Festival which hopes
to help bring awareness about the different communities in Brooklyn by
illuminating their social and cultural histories and current-day
realities.

DOUBLE DUTCH FROM RICHARD GRAYSON

It’s always an honor to have Richard Grayson’s columns on OTBKB. An English and composition instructor in numerous colleges around the city, Grayson is author of "With Hitler in New York" and "I Brake for Delmore Schwartz," as well as other books.

This column is about the annual celebration of Dutch culture in New York City. He wrote me, referring to my recent column about cleaning out the basement, "Of course you’ve been ‘sweeping memories away’ but we need to hold on to some stuff, too, I hope."

Sunday was the last day of “5 Dutch Days, 5 Boroughs” – the  annual celebration of Dutch culture in New York City.  The day’s events included a morning service at the Old First Reformed Church on Carroll Street and Seventh Avenue as done in its congregation 300 years ago, using the Netherlands Liturgy of 1619, and an afternoon family exhibit at the Vander Ende-Onderdonk House in Ridgewood to show kids what life was like for young people in the early years of the city.

Four centuries ago, of course, Brooklyn was part of the great Dutch commercial world empire, but traces of Dutch Brooklyn have all but vanished in my lifetime along with the dirt roads like Mill Lane I used to walk and the wooden planks that preceded sidewalks in my little corner of what had been Nieuw Amersfoort.

When I was born, about 70 Dutch-American farmhouses stood in Brooklyn.  Today only 14 are left.

On Sunday afternoon, I was at the Lefferts Homestead for “Disappearing Dutch Brooklyn – Where Have All the Houses Gone?” — a presentation by anthropologist and archaeologist Christopher Ricciardi, who showed slides from his dig at an old house I know well, the Hendrick I. Lott House on East 36th Street, down the block from my friend Ken Falk’s house in Marine Park not far from where I grew up.

Living in this Dutch Colonial farmhouse from 1720 until 1989, members of the prominent Lott family participated in the Revolutionary War, supported abolition – freeing their slaves as early as 1801 and then hiring them as paid servants – and may have later used the house as a stop on the Underground Railroad.

In 2001 Ricciardi and his colleagues from the Brooklyn College Archaeological Research Center discovered the slave quarters, a windowless, cramped garret room roughly ten feet square.  A tiny space – a closet within a closet, its door hidden behind coat hooks that would have held a curtain of garments – may have been a way station for escaping slaves.

Ricciardi acknowledged that just as many 18th century houses claim that George Washington slept there, most pre-Civil War houses in the North claim to be a stop on the Underground Railroad.

But two different descendants of the Lott family, who didn’t know each other, both remembered the same story when given tours of the old homestead. “They said this was where they kept their runaway slaves,” Ricciardi said.

Although southern Brooklyn Dutch farmers were quite wealthy, Ricciardi noted, apparently they were not materialists like their equally rich counterparts in Manhattan and what is today brownstone Brooklyn, who had more opulent homes.

The dig proved that the Lotts lived frugally, with plain dishes, glasses and pipes and no fancy materials in the construction of their house.

The Lott House is one of four Brooklyn sites owned by the Historic House Trust of New York City, along with the Lefferts Historic House Museum (c. 1783), the Old Stone House (1699), and the oldest structure in New York City, one I can recall my first girlfriend’s mother, an East Flatbush community planning board member, fighting to save in the late 1960s: the original portion of the Pieter Classen Wyckoff House on Clarendon Road and East 58th Street, which dates from 1652.
The Wyckoff Farmhouse Museum now looks a lot better than the old dump with a caved-in roof sporting a crooked TV antenna I remember from that day in August 1970, when Mayor Lindsay presided over a ceremony marking the start of its restoration.

In a fascinating Q&A session following his presentation, Chris Ricciardi said that it’s hard to get New Yorkers interested in southern Brooklyn’s old Dutch farmhouses because they’re a bit out of the way. But, he concluded, it’s important to respect our borough’s past and preserve our common heritage.

MOONEY ON MOONEY’S: NICE PIECE ON PARK SLOPE PUB IN NY TIMES

Here’s an excerpt from Jake Mooney’s column:

I had always seen the place and wondered about it, whether there was
some distant family relationship. If there is, it is distant enough
that neither Kevin Mooney nor I know about it; he was born in County
Galway, in Ireland, whereas my grandfather’s family came to New York
from Scotland in the early part of the 20th century. It’s definitely an
Irish name, though, so it seems as my family’s Mooneys did some
bouncing from island to island long ago. So you never know -– I read
once that, mathematically speaking, we can all claim descent from Nefertiti and Confucius anyway.

TOBY PANNONE IS AN AMAZING LITTLE BOY

Despite the excruciatingly painful treatments that Toby Pannone’s is receiving for the neroblastoma, a relatively rare and fierce cancer that has taken over his body, Toby is still able to enjoy the few days when he is not in the hospital. Recently he enjoyed time in Prospect Park and at the Brookyn Children’s Museum.

He and his parents, Mooki and Stephen are managing to stay strong and hopeful despite the living hell that they inhabit. Mooki’s writes, "Living with neuroblastoma is so singular, isolating and overwhelming,
that I feel like my words don’t even come close to describing what is
really going on in Toby’s life."

Recently Toby started a painful—but potentially helpful—treatment called 3F8, which is described here by Toby’s mom, Mooki on the family’s blog.

3F8 is mouse derived monoclonal antibody that is injected into the
bloodstream where it finds neuroblastoma cells, attaches to them and
then signals the patient’s own white blood cells to kill the
neuroblastoma. The white cells are boosted into “killer” cells through
daily injections of GM-CSF. With time, as Toby’s own immune system
recovers from chemo and becomes stronger, the 3F8 treatments may help
his body learn to fight tumors on its own. The aim is to give repeated
3F8s for up to two years, on a cycle of one week on, two to three weeks
off.

The main side effect of 3F8 is pain because it also attaches to a
marker on nerve cells. And the pain is excruciating. I can barely
describe it. And that’s the real reason why I haven’t been able to
write in two weeks. All I wanted to do by Friday was crawl into a dark,
quiet place, and not relive the experience by putting pain into words

COOKIES FOR CANCER: VOLUNTEERS NEEDED TO FIGHT NEUROBLASTOMA

I got this yesterday from a Park Sloper parent, who’s child is in remission from neuroblastoma. She is part of a volunteer effort called, Cookies for Cancer, to raise money for the development of a desperately needed new treatment. Organized by the Sloan-Kettering Neuroblastoma families, they are selling homemade gourmet holiday
cookies (recipe from the new cookbook Cookies by Sally
Sampson).

If you’d like to VOLUNTEER, here is Shirley’s email: staplesvangel(at)mac(dot)com

Hello, I live in Park Slope
and am the parent of a 14-year-old who was treated for Stage IV Neuroblastoma (a deadly cancer with a 30% survival rate) at
Sloan-Kettering 1998-2001, and who is now in remission and in the 8th
grade. 

There is another child in Park Slope currently in treatment for this cancer [Toby Pannone].

To
raise money for the development of a desperately needed new treatment,
the Sloan-Kettering Neuroblastoma families are selling gourmet holiday
cookies (recipe from the new cookbook Cookies by Sally
Sampson). If you can help, get in touch with her at staplesvange(at)mac(dot)com

Exciting new research indicates this promising treatment, if
available, could help save the 70% of children who do not survive. ( I
KNOW — it’s very hard to believe that NO funds are available for this and that these
parents feel they have to sell cookies to help save their children.)

Volunteers — especially those with culinary expertise  — are needed (age 15 and over) in Brooklyn during the week of December 1-9 to help bake and package 96,000 cookies!! 

All will be done in a commercial kitchen on Washington Ave., 3 blocks from the Brooklyn Museum.
Volunteers from the culinary world (Food Network, French Culinary
Inst., ICE, etc) will be on hand to direct the baking.
Indeed,
virtually everything, including ingredients and culinary expertise, has
been donated, so nearly 100% of proceeds will go to Sloan to develop
the new treatment!!

At
this point we have just half the volunteers needed, and the biggest
need is for the weekdays.  Is there any chance you could post the
attached Volunteer Flyer on the Only the Blog Knows Brooklyn??  I just
learned about this blog from another Slope mom this weekend, and I am
wondering if it could help get more volunteers for this great
bake-off.  I’m not sure how I would post this myself, or if it is
permitted. Please let me know if you need more information. 

THANKS!!!

Best,

The correct email for ShirleyStaples  is staplesvangel(at)mac(dot)com and not: staplesvange(at)mac(dot)com

PIGEON LADY: STAY ON POINT AND STOP RANTING

This pigeon thing is getting to be a lot of POOP. It’s one thing to have a passionate opinion. But it’s important to communicate it reasonably and with a modicum of civility.

I think the Pigeon Advocate is beginning to cross the line in terms of the way she is presenting her ideas. 

Less is more in my book. And endless attacks on those who disagree with you and/or portray you in a way not to your liking are pretty ridiculous.

This is about the pigeons and NOT the Pigeon Advocate or the term Pigeon Lover, or a newspaper editor or anything else.

Advice to the Pigeon Advocate:  stay serious and on point. Your rants are beginning to fly off in unrelated directions that help no one, most especialy the pigeons you purport to love or yourself.

EDWIDGE DANTICAT INTERVIEW ON THE WRITTEN NERD

The Written Nerd works at an independent bookstore in New
York City’s SoHo neighborhood and hopes to someday own a bookstore of her own.

TWN loves reading books, talking about books, and "being
where literature hits the streets." She lives in Park Slope with her ALP (Adorably Literate
Partner). She publishes these great Brooklyn Lit Life interviews. Friday, she posted an interview with Edwidge Danticat. Here’s an excerpt. Read the rest at the Written Nerd.

Why do you think Brooklyn has such a
dense population of writers? Is there something particularly literary
about Brooklyn?

Brooklyn
lacks the craziness of having to be all business all the time
publishing wise, plus it offers a community. I think that’s very
appealing to writers.

HOW MEDIA SHAPES US AND OUR CHILDREN: A TOWN HALL MEETING AT THE Y

I got an email this morning about this event featuring the education diretior of the Learning About Multimedia Project, It Sounds VERY interesting and WORTHWHILE.

I’d like to tell you about an upcoming event a the Park Slope YMCA on 9th Street, that would probably be of interest to many of your readers. 

On
Thursday, Nov. 29th at 7 pm
, Dr. Katherine Fry, education director of LAMP (Learning about Multimedia Project) is giving a talk about media in our lives and how media shape us and our children. 

The discussion will be mostly a town hall format, with Katherine Fry
moderating. 

This media town hall is the culmination of a series of media workshops for adults, children and teens that the LAMP has run this fall at the Y.  P

Parents and educators are especially encouraged to attend.

Space is limited, so those who are interested should contact
Katherine Fry at katfry(at)thelampnyc(dot)org or Lisa Solomon at the Y at
(718) 768-7100 ext. 115.

PARK SLOPE BICYCLIST KILLED ON MANHATTAN BRIDGE

The New York Times reports that 27-year-old Sam Hindy of Eighth Street in Park Slope  was killed after taking a wrong turn on the Manhattan Bridge and flippng over a retaining wall, which caused him to fall 15 feet to the lower level, where he was hit by a car.

A computer engineer with Double Click in Manhattan, Hindy suffered massive head trauma. His father is a founder of Brooklyn Brewery.

SMARTMOM, HEPCAT SWEEP MEMORIES AWAY

Here’s this week’s Smartmom from the Brooklyn Paper, of course.

Smartmom and Hepcat spent a weekend afternoon going through 13 years of basement storage deciding what to keep and what to throw away.

A rubbish hauler was booked to arrive first thing that Monday. They’d put this off long enough. It was time.

Hepcat, who would rather have a colonoscopy than go through his beloved storage, did at least get in on the act. Something compelled him to do it this time.

Perhaps it was the nagging — or the threat of divorce and dismemberment if he didn’t comply.

Or maybe it was the fires in Southern California where 1,500 homes were destroyed.

That tragedy got Smartmom thinking about the meaning of things. It forced her to contemplate what she would take with her if her apartment was burning and she had a split second to decide.

She wondered if she’d grab the decoupage vase that Teen Spirit had made out of a bottle of wine for Valentine’s Day when he was in third grade.

Or would she grab the heart-shaped bowl that says “Mom” that the Oh So Feisty One painted at one of those paint your own pottery places?

Smartmom knew she’d grab her computer, where most of her writing lives. Much of it is backed up, but just in case …

What about the baby books and her wedding album?

It’s awful to think about. And yet, in the end she knew that she’d just make sure that everyone got out safely and leave it at that.

Though she would grab that computer. Some things are just too vital to her. Smartmom would definitely leave behind her collection of more than 100 vintage globes, the Wedgwood china that belonged to Hepcat’s grandmother, and their wedding silver, which she adores.

There wouldn’t be time. And in the end, things are replaceable.

Eleanor Traubman, a professional organizer whose Brooklyn company is called Inspired Organizing, spoke to Smartmom about this recently. She often asks her clients, “Is it possible to hold onto a memory without holding onto the physical reminder?”

Sometimes the answer is yes. Other times, it is a resounding no. But Traubman believes that it is possible to select a few meaningful things as reminders without keeping everything.
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Miraculously, Smartmom and Hepcat were able to substantially reduce their basement storage with a minimum of fighting and biting. If those years of couple’s therapy has taught them anything it is to stay out of each other’s way.

That’s right, Smartmom kept a healthy distance as Hepcat dutifully went through box after box.

She even stopped herself from saying, “Don’t you want to get rid of that 20-volume set of the Handyman’s Encyclopedia that you picked up at a library sale on our honeymoon that is now slightly damp and mildewed?”

She prevented herself from saying, “Do you really need to keep 12 computer monitors that don’t work anymore?”

She resisted the urge to say, “Can’t we trash those boxes of Computer Shopper magazines from the late 1980s” (sure, they’re historic but … ).

For Smartmom, it was easier to part with the mildewed past. Truth be told, a dank, occasionally flooded, basement is no place to keep children’s clothing and toys anyway.

It’s downright disgusting.

Smartmom did uncover some treasures. She even got teary when she found the yellow Little Tykes car that brought Teen Spirit countless hours of joy rolling up and down their long hallway when he was 3.

There was OSFO’s green tricycle and boxes of toys that they couldn’t even sell at their stoop sale last summer.

For Smartmom, it felt good to downsize. Maybe her recent success at Weight Watchers (16 pounds and counting) has taught her that less is more. It feels good to travel light.

Hepcat doesn’t share that belief. He is buffeted by the past. It makes him feel safe and secure. His reverence for things is something that Smartmom both adores and abhors about him.

While she is moved by his sentimental ways, she is also overwhelmed by the storage problems that such ways present.

There aren’t enough closets, bookcases and storage rooms to contain all that we are. That’s why it’s important to find other ways to hold onto the past and recognize that things only tell part of the story.

The next morning, it took five guys from Mr. Rubbish less than a half-hour to put everything in the garbage compactor.

When the job was done, Smartmom felt relieved. She knew she didn’t need all that stuff they’d been clinging to. What matters in life are people and experiences. Sure it’s nice to have mementos — but only as long as you’ve got the square footage.

For now, Smartmom cherishes Teen Spirit’s decoupage vase and the heart-shaped bowl that OSFO made.

And her computer.

That’s where she records her memories. And they don’t take up much space anyway.